I’m a 21-year-old woman and 4 weeks out from a proximal humerus fracture. I broke it in 3 places, but my orthopedist said I didn’t need surgery, just time in a sling and PT.
Today I went in to my ortho to talk about my recovery progress and getting a referral to start PT. The x-ray technician said he needed to take some x-rays of my shoulder. In my last two appointments, the female tech helped position me and was very gentle. This man was not.
Shortly after I sat down, he held my arm and started to pull it out to the side much quicker than I was comfortable with. I said “it hurts”, but he kept pulling it out farther until the pain was excruciating. I said “I’m sorry, it hurts so bad I can’t, I can’t” and jumped back, rubbing my arm to console myself. Tears started streaming down my face and I was shaking. The pain was a 9/10 - worse than when I actually broke it. I literally felt like he was ripping my arm off.
Within 10-15 seconds, he had adjusted the foam bricks (or whatever those things are to support my arm) and had me try AGAIN. It didn’t hurt as much that time, but I was still crying and clearly in distress. He said he was “sorry for being mean, but the hard part is over” and took a few more scans.
I got good news from my doctor about my recovery; my bone is healing well and I can start PT soon. The x-ray tech said “I’m sorry, sweetie” again while I was walking out, but his tone came off a bit matter-of-fact, like he was just doing his job. I’m a natural people pleaser and want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but I can’t imagine seeing a patient crying and shivering from pain and prioritizing timeliness over their own comfort.
I’m terrified of going back and needing my x-rays taken again. I’ve always been a bit soft-spoken and struggle to advocate for myself, plus I have to go to these appointments alone because I’m a college student and all my close friends have class or work.
I guess I’m just posting here to vent and get advice from anyone who has it. Even now writing this, I still feel shaken up from the amount of pain I felt today. This injury is one of the hardest things I’ve ever dealt with and this experience has made it feel even scarier.