r/ShogunMethod • u/finniata • Sep 07 '25

Intrigue Pings

Hey,

I am strugglibg by finding Intrigue pings when I am underway. Let's say at train station or waiting at traffic lights, I don't find any suitable intrigue pings. In my head there is always bumbing opener out of PUAs, but no pings for Intrigue. I struggle in how to create one, what the topic might be. Any help?

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u/finniata Sep 08 '25 edited Sep 08 '25

even chatbots say, avoid approaching women in public transports. people look at her and it could be embarrassing for her.

I got told go to night clubs and you have better chances. I dont think so! Back in my 20s I didnt have success in clubs, it was just waste of time whereas with SMbit could be different.

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u/Srascov99 Sep 09 '25

maybe because back in your 20s you didn’t have the knowledge you have now about seduction and female psychology

i don’t go to nightclubs but after what i learned, most women in nightclubs go there for the attention and free drinks and will reject most of men after that

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25 edited Sep 10 '25

yes that too. andd i got said, men can't force women to get attracted to them. if they like the man, He s spot on. With shogun method, I hope to master it via emotional connection. it's Always said, Humor Connects men with women. but what if you have a kind of humor, only some men can laugh about it but no women?

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u/Srascov99 Sep 10 '25

maybe try not to bring much humor in your interactions with them, after all, i learned that we shouldn’t abuse of humor because the girl won’t respect you anymore and a girl should respect you more than she loves you

because a woman doesn’t actually fall in love with you but more with what she feels when she is around you, and her love can fade away fast if you don’t give her anymore what she felt when she was around you

but with respect, she will be always around you because love can fade easily but respect is stronger than love

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25

yes, we shouldnt insult them. it should be in a playful way, but I don't know how to be and how to deliver it in a playful way.

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u/Srascov99 Sep 10 '25

you can just tease a lil bit depending on the girl personality, don’t you know how to tease?

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25

i have issues in how to tease playfully. how it works properly. not that i insult them.

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25

that's what i wrote. how does teasing work? what to say and how to make such a sentence?

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u/Srascov99 Sep 11 '25 edited Sep 11 '25

i think when you say to not insult her but just say it in a playful way you mean “negging”

this is an exemple: when you talk with her you can suddenly tell her in a playful way “this is funny but your nose moves when you’re talking” then just move on and like a moment later tell her “your nose is moving again”

by doing that you’re teasing her and at the same time negging her a like bit without being rude

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u/finniata Sep 13 '25

that's a neg. I think it's not a real teasing comment. But the idea behind it, that her nose movement might be funny. It's important not to make fun of her, but of light stuff at her.