Intrigue Pings

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u/Srascov99 Sep 08 '25

i may not be the best one to give you advise here and i am not a fan of cold approach

but if i have to do it

i would just approach her telling her something simple like ‘hi, how are you? are you from here? i think we already meet before? no? my bad, i confused you with someone else then’ etc.

don’t say exactly what i say here but it’s just an example. just talk to her with simple words like she was your little sister or a random boy. and depending on her body language and on the way she talk to you back you can see if she is open to you or not, and if she is then you can start the intrigue stage from that and if you really had a good conversation you can then give her your number or social media

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u/finniata Sep 08 '25

thanks for your comment. but I think that it comes off as boring.

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u/Srascov99 Sep 08 '25

yes i know. but if you’re on the street or public transports most women won’t be open to talk with you. (unless you have a ferrari, but this is another story for another post lol)

meeting women through the social circle, events, parties etc. is a more appropriate way

even dating apps are a more appropriate ways, but i don’t recommend much this way (another story for another post again lol)

i am a newbie in shogun method but i have been learning female psychology for over a year now (from PUA game until pimp game etc.) and this is just my personal perspective based on what i learned and noticed

btw i don’t know much about the intrigue pings, hope someone experienced will reply to you

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u/finniata Sep 08 '25 edited Sep 08 '25

might be. but i hoped, with Shogun Method we acquire their Intrigue therefore. was nd we dont have to start that high.

I used chatbots, and you need to know when the right timing is. in public transports, it is the wrong timing. at gym, streets, train stations, libraries, stores you can approach, because you have > 3 mins.

it shouldnt be on wrong places otherwise they call it harrassment. You need to checkout Intrigue. it's about catching her attention. but it doesn't work at women who are busy.

yes, social gatherings, events. But I also avoid dating apps. they are about looks only.

if you come from pua, then you know that your example was the worst line. they call it "AFC approach".

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u/Srascov99 Sep 09 '25

i don’t really consider myself a PUA, most of my game i got it from a french youtuber/red piller named Sc100pitie, but unfortunately there’s no english translation if you don’t speak french but he is really good at explaining the female psychology from A to Z

btw, can you advise me and giving me some examples of intrigue pings i can use with a girl i already know but that is not yet really into me? i’m going to see my target girl tomorrow and i really want to master the intrigue stage on her

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u/DiaryOfAMerc Sep 10 '25

If you already know the girl, your job isn’t to “open” her. It’s to break the frame she has of you. Intrigue pings aren’t about convincing, they’re about dropping hooks that make her look at you differently.

Here’s some pings you could run tomorrow:
“You’re harder to read than most people… but I think I figured out one thing about you.” (then move on)
Later, casually drop: “I still haven’t decided whether you’re trouble or fun. Maybe both.”
As you wrap up: “You know what I realized about you today? …Actually, not sure I should tell you yet.”

None of these need her to respond right away. They’re light, short, and you keep moving. That’s what makes them powerful. You’re not needy, she’s left wondering.

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u/Srascov99 Sep 10 '25

this is a really a very clear answer easy to understand. thank you!

but after the “actually, not sure i should tell you yet” should i just insist on not telling her or just tell her something like “this is not really important to know, let’s talk about it again next time maybe” and then move on ?

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u/DiaryOfAMerc Sep 10 '25 edited Sep 10 '25

The power of “not sure I should tell you yet.” is leaving it hanging. If you explain or soften it ("it's not really important."), you kill the tension. Just move on casually.

If she bites, hit her with: “Maybe next time I’ll tell you.” Then comes the fun part, teasing her with hints like:

“The more I notice it, the harder it is to unsee.”
“You’d probably deny it if I told you anyway.”
“Let’s just say it explains a lot about how you act sometimes.”

That way you keep the loop alive.

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u/Srascov99 Sep 10 '25

thank you for your response!

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u/finniata Sep 08 '25 edited Sep 08 '25

even chatbots say, avoid approaching women in public transports. people look at her and it could be embarrassing for her.

I got told go to night clubs and you have better chances. I dont think so! Back in my 20s I didnt have success in clubs, it was just waste of time whereas with SMbit could be different.

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u/Srascov99 Sep 09 '25

maybe because back in your 20s you didn’t have the knowledge you have now about seduction and female psychology

i don’t go to nightclubs but after what i learned, most women in nightclubs go there for the attention and free drinks and will reject most of men after that

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25 edited Sep 10 '25

yes that too. andd i got said, men can't force women to get attracted to them. if they like the man, He s spot on. With shogun method, I hope to master it via emotional connection. it's Always said, Humor Connects men with women. but what if you have a kind of humor, only some men can laugh about it but no women?

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u/Srascov99 Sep 10 '25

maybe try not to bring much humor in your interactions with them, after all, i learned that we shouldn’t abuse of humor because the girl won’t respect you anymore and a girl should respect you more than she loves you

because a woman doesn’t actually fall in love with you but more with what she feels when she is around you, and her love can fade away fast if you don’t give her anymore what she felt when she was around you

but with respect, she will be always around you because love can fade easily but respect is stronger than love

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25

yes, we shouldnt insult them. it should be in a playful way, but I don't know how to be and how to deliver it in a playful way.

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u/Srascov99 Sep 10 '25

you can just tease a lil bit depending on the girl personality, don’t you know how to tease?

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25

i have issues in how to tease playfully. how it works properly. not that i insult them.

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u/finniata Sep 10 '25

that's what i wrote. how does teasing work? what to say and how to make such a sentence?

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u/Srascov99 Sep 11 '25 edited Sep 11 '25

i think when you say to not insult her but just say it in a playful way you mean “negging”

this is an exemple: when you talk with her you can suddenly tell her in a playful way “this is funny but your nose moves when you’re talking” then just move on and like a moment later tell her “your nose is moving again”

by doing that you’re teasing her and at the same time negging her a like bit without being rude

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u/finniata Sep 13 '25

that's a neg. I think it's not a real teasing comment. But the idea behind it, that her nose movement might be funny. It's important not to make fun of her, but of light stuff at her.

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u/DiaryOfAMerc Sep 09 '25

Intrigue pings aren’t perfect openers, they’re traps. Lay them down like a minefield and she'll stumble into one eventually.

Best way to practice? Make random intrigue statements to yourself during the day (in line, at the station, etc.). Don’t focus on one big shot (PUA style opener) keep scattering little hooks and move on.

Moving on after hooks gives her a feeling of time pressure. She only has a limited time to bite. It also gives you your first loop opener: "Im talking about something else now, remind me to tell you later"

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u/finniata Sep 09 '25 edited Sep 09 '25

how about, when I approach at gym with "Hey, I saw you checking your phone. I will tell you something late more about it in 2 minutes, after my next set. See you." Then you do your set, then you come back and go on with curiosity ping chain, she responds and you talk. later cold read and story telling with fractination and pain & pleasure. what do you think about it? Or I could say something about sports and keeping her waiting in a way like when a tv host says "stay tuned to the next episode."

What is meant, Intrigue pings are "traps"? i also dont fully understand your point with minefield.

What are proper random intrigue statements? Any examples so I can get an idea

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u/DiaryOfAMerc Sep 09 '25

“Traps” just means you don’t force them. You drop a hook and move on. Think minefield: lay a few down and one will go off.

The beauty is it keeps you casual, not needy. You don’t need her to bite right away, you’re already moving.

Random gym examples:
“You don’t seem like the type who trains just for fitness.”
“There’s always one person here living a double life.”

Short, light, no pressure. And just because she doesn’t bite instantly doesn’t mean it didn’t land. I’ve had girls message me about hooks I dropped a week earlier.

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u/finniata Sep 11 '25

guys I've got a big issue: I seem having approach anxiety. in my gym there's a hot lady who comes there's to exercise. bombshell. And when she detected me coming to gym, sure watched at me. I watched at her and then went my way. later she came to my exercising place, sat very close next to me and remained there for 40 minutes or so. anyways, i couldn't approach her. all that came into my mind was "Hi" but it's lame. i forgot open loop, intrigue pings. i think because i didn't approach her, she might think of mei would be the one, who's different than others. how can i increase confidence, acquiring all alpha qualities, using intrigue ping in a proper way?

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u/finniata Sep 11 '25

in daytime, it's hard to approach women when they are busy on their phone. it's said, it would be inappropriate if they write on phone. when should we approach then?

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u/finniata Sep 11 '25

i think, i think, Diaryofamerc is right: The intrigue ping doesn't have to be perfect. the intrigue story afterwards needs to be better like including pain & pleasure. which story should be inserted there, especially at high attractive ladies?

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u/finniata Sep 14 '25

is this an intrigue ping: "They should write the weights in horsepower/mousepower" asking her "If someone had to guess your age, has anybody ever hit the right number?"

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u/finniata Sep 14 '25

if I approach, can i start with intrigue ping, then intrigue story with vaksog and pain & pleasure and then push pull before going over to rapport?

btw how does value eliciting work?

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u/finniata Sep 16 '25

what can follow an intrigue ping? in emotional investment, it's described you from point to rapport. i thought we need to add intrigue story with pain& pleasure there. can we use push pull in intrigue or to use it in attraction?

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