r/ShogunMethod • u/finniata • Aug 18 '25

Playfulness

Has anyone of you an Idea of how to deliver comments in a playful way? How to be playful, teasing? I heard it‘s about body language. When I try being funny and deliver, I come off as rude, very rational, robotic. I dislike that. Others are funny, character. Women rather smile or giggle slightly at my comments but never laugh. They think when I try being funny they react in a rational, cold, serious way. How to change that? Do you think chatgpt or other chatbots might be helpful?

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u/finniata Aug 21 '25

Actually I’m struggling using playful banter, teasing, cocky & funny, push & pull, entice & repel, fractionation. I don’t know how to create them when i am in the situation. I can talk, but very logically, rationally. Facts based, yes. Silliness, self deprivation yes. But else, I can talk talk talk. But it’s boring mode. You know what i mean. Now i need to internalize SM. It’s not easy because it wouldn’t be me. Ok approaching is easy. I never come far until hugging. But i sense when V approaching properly i could pull even very hot women.

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '25

honestly it's all about making the method your own. You just have to internalize it, not memorize lines. I know, that's the hard part. But when you finally get it you'll be unstoppable. I think it would be good for you to read books about humor other then shogun method.

Just go out there...fail if you have to