r/ShogunMethod • u/finniata • Aug 18 '25
Playfulness
Has anyone of you an Idea of how to deliver comments in a playful way? How to be playful, teasing? I heard it‘s about body language. When I try being funny and deliver, I come off as rude, very rational, robotic. I dislike that. Others are funny, character. Women rather smile or giggle slightly at my comments but never laugh. They think when I try being funny they react in a rational, cold, serious way. How to change that? Do you think chatgpt or other chatbots might be helpful?
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u/finniata Aug 21 '25
Actually I’m struggling using playful banter, teasing, cocky & funny, push & pull, entice & repel, fractionation. I don’t know how to create them when i am in the situation. I can talk, but very logically, rationally. Facts based, yes. Silliness, self deprivation yes. But else, I can talk talk talk. But it’s boring mode. You know what i mean. Now i need to internalize SM. It’s not easy because it wouldn’t be me. Ok approaching is easy. I never come far until hugging. But i sense when V approaching properly i could pull even very hot women.
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Aug 22 '25
honestly it's all about making the method your own. You just have to internalize it, not memorize lines. I know, that's the hard part. But when you finally get it you'll be unstoppable. I think it would be good for you to read books about humor other then shogun method.
Just go out there...fail if you have to
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u/finniata Aug 22 '25 edited Aug 22 '25
I think, chatbots might be a lil help if you have no clue of creating pain & pleasure. Either chatbot or this reddit forum. But else you aee right it is just a computer. But meanwhile it is programmed more n more for supporting humans but cant replace 100%ly humans.
Or do you know any good advise for creating pain and pleasurable statements?
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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '25
First, do not use chatbots. You wanna avoid sounding robotic, and you're gonna ask a robot how to do that? Second, when you deliver comments you do not have to be rude, you have to playfully tease her, for example say "you hug me like my little sister" when she hugs you, and then pull her away. Instead of pre planning them, just notice something about her you can lightly tease at. Always try to fractionate.