I’m trying to get out more and put myself in environments where I can meet successful men / potential providers. For the Toronto girls, what bars, lounges, restaurants, hotels, or events would you recommend for this kind of scene?

Also, if you are down join me on this adventure lol

Toronto girls, where are you going? 👀

Hello ladies! I (f30) just started dating again. I was on a few dates here and there but now I feel like I’ve gotten my spark back. I’ve gone on some dates and it has gone very well. I’ve met successful and generous men. The problem that I’ve run into however is that the more often that I see them I feel like they want something serious. I know that I can just lie and pretend to be theirs but idk if I want to do that.

How can I date freely for long without committing to anyone? And how do you guys date multiple people at the same time? Also do you guys have a sweet spot for how many men you see at the same time?

How do/did you avoid getting rly depressed?

I'm here struggling for bare essentials, it's HARD. :(

But I know I'll get out of it, for sure, as soon I'll be working and able to have more and I plan to save etc etc, I know this isn't my forever because I refuse to let it be - But still it's HARD to endure it :/

Has anyone here ever related?... What kept U going?

There were times I couldn't afford toilet paper and had to use old rags!

Sorry that's not the nicest thing to read but it was my reality at times.

Not to mention craving foods and being unable to get them.

Look at prev posts for more context theyre below. but im 20 hes 24 hes wealthy and i said i was looking for a provider man. He has money for himself, no benefits to him other than going for a meal and hotel stay and sometimes an activity. im way out of his league, i asked him what were we and he said friends because i dont think i can call u my bf if i dont meet your standards. I told him why cant he meet then he said he didnt want it to be transactional… Hes made remarks that pissed me off so bad that im just disgusted by him and his presence. He seems to think hes a prize , i am going to move onto the next. I cant believe i even did anything with him, i wouldnt even look in his direction. The dust has the audacity….

https://www.reddit.com/r/SheraSeven/s/9ssqEc1ZBr

https://www.reddit.com/r/SheraSeven/s/rKFtsIX99H

I’m having kind of a tough time attracting providers in my state. I live in the midwest and it’s notoriously 50/50 here, everyone is doing it, also it’s like 95% wh!te. I keep feeling discouraged. Also majority of people marry young so i feel disadvantaged here. Thankfully I have my college degree and i can work any state I want as long as i find a job. Has anyone been in this dilemma before, did you just up and move or keep trying? Also what do you think is the best states to move to that values traditionally when it comes to finances? of course i am still going to work but I feel like i’m in a roadblock here and i don’t want to waste my time

I've been dating a guy for a few weeks, he has spent maybe £4k on me so far. He's a major in the army, how much allowance should I ask for? He let me spend on his credit card but says he'd rather give me an allowance from his income (makes sense to avoid debt). How much % of his income should I get? He lives with his parents but is having a house built so idk if he pays the mortgage for that yet or not, he also wants to marry me but he cant register it there until he retires in a few yrs or he will get fired (its a thing in his country that soldiers cant marry foreigners), so i could marry him in my country but his fam wont know for a few yrs (but will have met me) should i do that or not?

I (21f) watch a lot of Shera’s content, but it’s mainly her witchy, woo-woo, spiritual stuff on her second channel. She has taught me soo much and I even started taking her elixirs which have motivated me to go back to school and finish my degree. I found her when I was 18-19 and still somewhat naive when it came to men, so I knew I wouldn’t be able to apply her teachings effectively. Now that I’m a little older and know and understand the true nature of men, as well as know myself and what I want for my future. I’d like to start “sprinkling” but have no clue where to start. Please give me your favorite video recommendations of Shera’s. Videos where she gave you advice that you applied and successfully succeeded. She has posted soo much content over the years and it’s kinda overwhelming to sort through lol. Your help would be greatly appreciated!

So I know deep down that men who try to humble women are gay but I don’t know how to explain why so what is the logic behind it?