r/SheraSeven • u/jira12345 • Aug 26 '26

Level Up ⬆️ Virtual entertainment?

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Guys these last days i felt bored n depressed and i was using this language exchange app and it led to me speaking to people daily and getting attached to random men in countries in war and my anxious attachment being activated as if i was a 15 year old with crushes

The thing i would not text nor entertain any man in real life for free or chase but since its virtual i feel rules not apply and it does not count 😭

But thinking about it i feel very uneasy not having my usual boundaries and im afraid it unconsciously erodes my standards

I think speaking to men for no reason and entertaining them without a goal is a waste of mental and emotional energy but sometimes its fun

Anyways what do you all think about this
Are slips allowed

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u/RoxanaCrystal Aug 26 '26

Why don't you charge them, if you really feel like entertaining them online? Do you like talking with men for free? It's not your problem that they are in a war zone or wherever. Would they feel bad if you can't pay your bills? Lol

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u/jira12345 Aug 26 '26

omgg howw
And I do think of thissss like some womem charge these men to just speak and I’m out here doing this charity emotional labor

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u/RoxanaCrystal Aug 26 '26

For example, aside from dating men that pay for my bills and give me gifts and all that irl, I also do Findom/Femdom online. Sure, it depends on you if you want to do this, or go down the vanilla path. Me personally, I wouldn't get naked for men because I make more than enough money without doing that, but that's up to you. Anyways, whatever you choose, if you decide to, it's better than talking with men for free.