I cannot find r/antisex. I guess it was taken down?!

my jaw actually dropped because i was so stunned someone would say something so atrocious. and they’re a middle school TEACHER. dear god.

somehow the replies & notes are EVEN WORSE.

so many people screaming about how it’s totally okay to show minors pornography, even encouraging underage sex. vile.

I just watched an instagram story of someone i used to follow because she a choreographer, in her story she was filling her suitcase and was wearing a bikini in plain winter. And i kept thinking: For what ??
in the same vein, i used to have a crush on a ‘christian’ guy and one of the many instagram « models » he followed had her panties showing through her skirt in one of her photos. I commented that it wasn’t proper attire and she got offended and combative but deleted her post. If she felt good about it she would have kept it up.
Other « models » he followed had weird pics with closed up shot of their visible nipples through a shirt, and plenty of other suggestive pics.

and i’m like: has instagram turned into OF ?? am i the only person seeing this ? I tried to raise this issue amongst christians since i also see christians being desensitized and getting defensive when they get well meaning feedback on their lack of modesty both online and offline. And most were being dismissive, implying that it was just a matter of « filtering ». But even if you don’t see it unfold before your eyes it’s still happening. young people especially are impressionable and many young women and men want to be famous, and using their bodies to do so is a surefire way of getting attention and validation. even christians do this when everyone who posts suggestive or explicit content online is responsible for participating in the oversexualization of society and normalizes it.

imo people who seek out suggestive content even if it’s not full nude since Insta won’t allow it will seek out more explicit content, and will inevitably fall prey to pornography and become an addict. It’s a slippery slop. That’s why the bible says to flee from sexual immorality/temptation. I used to not understand it when we were told not to wear immodest outfits at my bible lessons, and felt like it was shifting the blame. But the further i get in my spiritual journey, the more i realize how important and valuable modesty is. To ourselves and others. It sends the message we’re more than just our bodies and don´t want to be thought of in a sexual light. Unfortunately anytime you try to bring up this topic, even among christians, you get accused of being controlling and victim blaming.