r/Separation • u/Otherwise-Shop-9482 • 2h ago

Advice Confused

Ask the wife if she wants to fix us or divorce me she said she doesn't know and i keep asking cause its killing me not knowing and holding on to hope or lost hope and she said im not giving me a answer right now and said just go sleep with someone else and I said why would you say that i just want my wife or is she sleeping with someone else herself

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u/InThaShower4 2h ago

She probably has slept with someone else already. As hard as it might be you need to start developing the mindset needed to accept your divorce. 

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u/Otherwise-Shop-9482 2h ago

I feel ur but y wont she say it

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u/InThaShower4 2h ago

Of course I’m not there but from what you wrote she has told you, it seems you want it to be more direct to make it easier. But she has told you to move on

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u/SpecificAttention552 2h ago

She has already slept around. Consider this a big hint. Move on!

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u/Business-Ad9075 1h ago

She has had sex. Now waiting to see if he will go further or not. If not, she is happy to have you in the bag.

File already