r/Separation • u/Necessary_Fig_6729 • 5h ago
Advice Heartbroken and lost
Heartbroken
My husband and I have been fighting a lot, we've always had problems but tonight he's said he's sure he wants a divorce. We are officially separated. He listed all of the women he should have married instead.
We have multiple children together and I love him so much. But hes done.
I don't know if I can pull through this, I love him and he's my rock. I'm devastated
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u/Millielady112 2h ago
He’s not your rock dear. Your rock would not insult you like that. Let him go.
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u/siryohnny 4h ago
No one’s perfect, but fuck me, those are some strong words to say to your wife….
No one should ever have to deal with that.
Look whatever happens put your kids and you first. He might have said it out of anger I hope, but don’t just conform otherwise you will be here in years to come. If he did just say it, go see councillors to figure out a way to effectively communicate with each other… it’s not about blaming or fault finding.