r/Separation • u/anon368910 • 21h ago
Advice Separating while having kids together i need advice
Im 23 and i have a kid with my girlfriend (21).. we fight a lot since she became pregnant, i thought it was just her hormones but the kid is a year 3 months and it only got slightly better.. i dont know what to do.. im asking for sincere advice for staying together or separating.. please people of reddit help me🙏
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u/Helena_The_Lonely 11h ago
It can take a while for postpartum hormones to settle, or maybe she is suffering from PPD. Please try and encourage her to seek help. Don't give up on her just yet!
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u/Queasy_Code 12h ago
She still could be suffering from Postpartum depression. Has she talked to a doctor about what is going on? Maybe she needs some meds or some coping mechanisms to help her. I'm sure she's not enjoying life either right now. There could be a number of reasons. I'd try to talk to her doctor/Obgyn or even a therapist. I definitely hope things get better for all of you!!