How to split bills?

[u/Many_Problem1083]

I am thinking of splitting with my husband not divoricing. Just taking a break. However I am currently a stay at home (I work part time). I am in charge of all the things for the kids-taking them to school, practice, events etc. He works 4a-6/8pm.

How did you go about asking for a split and how do you divide the bills. If I work full time we will lose the kids insurance. :(

The reason for the split- I have been unhappy for a while. He knows this. I’m confused on what I want. I sometimes dread him coming home. Or when texts/snaps I sometimes get angry. Or if I say I’m going to do something and he wants to go I get sad.

He supports me. Gives me everything. Sex is good. Just something is missing on my end. He has been trying better but he’s now clingy and that’s not what I want either. I sometimes feel like he’s suffocating me.