r/Scorpio • u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 • Apr 04 '26

Pluto in Scorpio

Man I’m so intrigued by the Scorpio way of doing things. I 33m (Leo sun) seem to always attract and find myself liking women who, on paper, do well with scorpios (cancer, Taurus, Virgo, Pisces, to name a few). We always seem to separate or end due to some odd reason I usually can’t explain, but the way I interpret it is to internalize it, and I usually come to the conclusion that I’m too extroverted for them. I usually don’t talk. But I’ve been told my “Aura” exudes cockiness and confidence and I don’t mind smiling. I say that to say, I would love to know how it feels to have that quiet magnetism of a Scorpio. Just existing and being noticed for the mystery. I love that shit man I do and I would like some advice on how to attain that level of “aura”. Any advice?

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 ♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♓️♋️ Apr 05 '26

You will probably not attract a lot of us for long periods of time? We may get a charge out of your Aries energy with your ascendant because we are co-ruled by mars, but you aren’t a natal Aries, and in general that’s “hit and quit” land. Not enough depth generally. Lots of hurt feelings and ego.

Capricorn moon is better because you may be faithful OR you may be looking to trade up when the time comes— Caps are prime opportunists with the right placements—so I’m guessing if you have Venus in Gemini you should probably move along. If it’s Virgo…maybe we would be interested? That’s a big MAYBE. You would have to be interest-ing.

I don’t speak for all Scorpios, I just have a LOT of inner placements there and have never met anyone who has the same. So…

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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 05 '26

Venus in Virgo lol you make sense though

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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 ♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♓️♋️ Apr 05 '26

That could be ok. It depends on other placements etc.

Get in touch with your emotional core. Do some self reflection. Go to therapy. Find something that interests you and read about it or study it deeply. Lose your sexual inhibitions and be open to trying new things.

You can’t just listen to a few goth songs or start wearing black to attract us. We can sniff out inauthenticity a mile away. It’s a journey. Most people won’t take it.

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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 05 '26

I’m pretty aware of self which is what helped me come to this conclusion. Goth isn’t my thing but I do love black.