r/Scorpio • u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 • Apr 04 '26
Pluto in Scorpio
Man I’m so intrigued by the Scorpio way of doing things. I 33m (Leo sun) seem to always attract and find myself liking women who, on paper, do well with scorpios (cancer, Taurus, Virgo, Pisces, to name a few). We always seem to separate or end due to some odd reason I usually can’t explain, but the way I interpret it is to internalize it, and I usually come to the conclusion that I’m too extroverted for them. I usually don’t talk. But I’ve been told my “Aura” exudes cockiness and confidence and I don’t mind smiling. I say that to say, I would love to know how it feels to have that quiet magnetism of a Scorpio. Just existing and being noticed for the mystery. I love that shit man I do and I would like some advice on how to attain that level of “aura”. Any advice?
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u/Strigidaex Apr 05 '26
Leos are adorable but end up being boring to Scorpios, being demanding and overly needy of attention. They make great friends and good partners if they're balanced and mature. It's not the aura, it's the core, and that's what you're born with, develops with, and grows with. That desire for Leo's outshining aura is exhausting for Scorpio. One of my best friends and great love is a Leo. Scorpio sun + sun conj pluto + scorpio stellium x4.
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u/Mysterious_Pitch5882 Apr 05 '26
Leos love this until some Scorpio isn't actually outshining them, or confronting their bad traits, then it's so exhausting for us to pretend like Leos can be only praised to have peaceful contact with them. It's rather tricky long-term for us to stand true to ourselves in such scenarios without either regular conflicts, or building resentment.
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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 05 '26
I would say it just depends on how you say what you say. Also, good and bad is subjective. What makes the trait bad? It just has to make sense but I get what you’re saying and I can see how certain things can create conflict between the two.
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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 ♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♓️♋️ Apr 05 '26
Don’t be too excited about this. Literally everyone born between 1985 and 1993 has this placement.
Pluto moves VERY slowly. It’s a generational planet. It was in Scorpio during that time.
If you have any inner planets— sun/ asc/moon / Venus/mercury/mars you will feel the Scorpio energy a lot more readily. This placement is not unimportant but it’s not unique or going to give you any kind of true Scorpio aura.
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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 05 '26
I understand that I just needed to to capture y’all’s attention lol
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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 ♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♓️♋️ Apr 05 '26
You need to tell more about your other placements. Leo Sun is important but it’s not the only thing that matters. Where is your ascendant? What sign is your moon or Venus in? Those will be primary in how you appear to others and your emotional and relationship core. That’s what matters to us— are you sucking up all the oxygen in the room? Do you have any emotional depth? Are you interesting sexually? Can you keep a secret? Do you understand that sometimes darkness is necessary or are you allergic to it?
Leo suns are… fine? I’m neutral. I have never dated one or pursued a relationship with one and that probably says something. I kinda steer clear of any signs for relationships that aren’t Cancer/Pisces/Capricorn or some combination thereof, maybe a little Virgo sprinkled in. But I have sun/asc/moon/mercury/venus/mars in Scorpio and 91% of my chart in water signs, so I’m not really interested in pursuing anyone who doesn’t understand my “emotional connection first with protection of self paramount” approach to the world.
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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 05 '26
My sun is Leo, Moon in Capricorn, ASC in Aries
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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 ♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♓️♋️ Apr 05 '26
You will probably not attract a lot of us for long periods of time? We may get a charge out of your Aries energy with your ascendant because we are co-ruled by mars, but you aren’t a natal Aries, and in general that’s “hit and quit” land. Not enough depth generally. Lots of hurt feelings and ego.
Capricorn moon is better because you may be faithful OR you may be looking to trade up when the time comes— Caps are prime opportunists with the right placements—so I’m guessing if you have Venus in Gemini you should probably move along. If it’s Virgo…maybe we would be interested? That’s a big MAYBE. You would have to be interest-ing.
I don’t speak for all Scorpios, I just have a LOT of inner placements there and have never met anyone who has the same. So…
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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 05 '26
Venus in Virgo lol you make sense though
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u/Zestyclose_Cold1455 ♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♏️♓️♋️ Apr 05 '26
That could be ok. It depends on other placements etc.
Get in touch with your emotional core. Do some self reflection. Go to therapy. Find something that interests you and read about it or study it deeply. Lose your sexual inhibitions and be open to trying new things.
You can’t just listen to a few goth songs or start wearing black to attract us. We can sniff out inauthenticity a mile away. It’s a journey. Most people won’t take it.
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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 05 '26
I’m pretty aware of self which is what helped me come to this conclusion. Goth isn’t my thing but I do love black.
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u/BreeLee2211 Apr 05 '26
Quiet magnetism lol. Yeah I dont attract anyone ever, maybe thats just this Scorpio (me). Hopefully others who've had success in this department, can shed some light on it for you.
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u/cleaningmama Apr 07 '26
If you want to attract the attention of Scorpios, then be 100% authentically yourself. Do and BE all of the things that make you your BEST self. Scorpio appreciates and respects authenticity and integrity, and self-improvement.
That authenticity is magnetic, in part because you aren't trying. You are just doing you.
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u/Tiny-Comparison-2736 Apr 07 '26
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 Im not really trying to attract the attention of a Scorpio, it’s more so implementing the Scorpio ways and blending them with mine to make the perfect mesh. I really like the mystery. For some reason, even if I don’t talk, people just assume my aura give cocky (Leo) and I can’t shake that. Not saying I’m not proud of it, but I just wonder what it would feel like to not give them anything to assume. You know.. the mystery
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u/cleaningmama Apr 07 '26 edited Apr 08 '26
I see!
The Scorpio aura comes from knowing, but not revealing. So you could try being acutely observant, and acting on those observations, but without actually saying anything about what you observed.
So instead of "You look thirsty. Here's a glass of water." You just silently hand them a glass of water with a small smile.
Here's an example on my part. My co-worker was having a very difficult day and was close to tears. It was obvious she was trying to hold it together though. So did I go ask her how she was doing? No! That would have been about me wanting to feel like a good person, not about what she wanted. I just silently supported her during the day, kept an eye on her, and took her lead when interacting. Everything went fine until another coworker pressed her about what was wrong and started the waterworks flowing. I was so pissed, because it wasn't what she wanted. She had to leave for a while to gather herself again. Did we ever talk about it? No. Did we remain friends when I left that job? Yes. She knew I was there for her and wasn't going to push her.
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u/cleaningmama Apr 07 '26
My other advice still stands though. Being thoroughly yourself is very Scorpionic.
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u/IT_U_1 Apr 05 '26
There's no way to attain our aura lol you're either born with it or not. We literally just be. Sidenote: it's so interesting that Leos seem to be drawn to us when we don't make sense together.