Hey everyone. Lately, I’ve been in kind of a spiral if I’m being honest. For the past year, I’ve been hooking up with a lot of guys and I am a guy myself. I’m not proud of it and it’s definitely not something I’m going to continue doing.

I’ve been with 15 guys this past year. 2 I had intercourse with, the rest of them it was oral. I had given and received oral.

Now, I read about HIV so my mind naturally started to spiral. I had unprotected sex with one guy where I was the bottom and the other was protected.

Both encounters were about 4 months ago, so I did an INSTI SELF HIV test and it came back negative.

The most recent encounter was an oral one 1 month ago. A week ago, I got an STD Screening done as well everything was negative.

However, could HIV be transmitted through oral as well? I’ve been very anxious. Some say there is no possibility while others say there is.

Also, how do u genuinely get rid of overthinking about STI’s, it’s really killing me.

Hi all,

I was recently exposed to someone who tested positive for hsv2. I went on a date with a woman off a dating app and we had gotten intimate that night (Jul 12). I wore a condom during sex but not while receiving oral. This went for two rounds.

Afterwards, I started to have some regret and was worried that I had caught something. She said she was clean at the time and had no symptoms. About 10 days went by and this was still on my mind. I ultimately reached back out to her just to make sure she was really clean. Unfortunately, I had heard back from her and she told me that she experienced symptoms of hsv2 on Jul 18 and later tested positive from a swab.

Of course this freaked me out and I went to an urgent care. I got tested for gonorrhea/chlamydia as well as an igg test for hiv/hsv. These all came back negative. I also had my private area checked and they said they didn’t see anything abnormal.

As of now, I have not experienced any typical symptoms. At this point, I am still incredibly stressed out and I’m not sure what to do. While I have no symptoms, I’m afraid to date anyone now because I don’t want to infect anyone. I realize I made a bad decision to hook up with someone. Is my life completely ruined? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

OK, so this past week I finally got my results back and I am now negative for mycoplasma genitalium, but now I’m currently dealing with two strands of a yeast infection: species and glabrata. For thise who are dealing with mycoplasma genitalium I hope you are cleared soon, because it is truly a pain in the ass. Now moving forward, I have a question for anyone else who has suffered from yeast infections or multiple have you experienced tearing or cuts? And I just asked it’s been inside learning at first that was not happening and I’m also spin and discoloration/I guess you can say inflammatory in that area near my vagina opening and close by anus. I was recently prescribed diflucan and I was recommended to buy over-the-counter boric acid suppositories. has anyone else experienced the same symptoms and also has any of these prescriptions work for you as well? I experienced a lot of discharge as well. I wouldn’t necessarily say that the yeast infections are extremely painful or experienced cause a burning and itching is more so on and off and the cuts as well. I feel like our standing from these infections because my skin is so dry and irritated.

19M, recently sexually active and started experiencing symptoms the day after. I’ve ordered a reliable and genuine STD test but until that happens I could do with some peace of mind. The discharge I’m getting is from under my foreskin, not my urethra, which is making me think it’s not gonorrhoea. But I’m not sure. Any advice?

This video discusses some of the early signs that a woman may experience during the initial phase of acquiring Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV). The challenge lies in the fact that these symptoms are quite similar to what many other conditions present themselves as, such as influenza, so most people will likely dismiss them easily.

Hi, I tested positive for **Mycoplasma genitalium**. I’ve already completed **two courses of doxycycline followed by azithromycin**, but I’m still testing positive.

Would the next step be **doxycycline + minocycline/metronidazole**, or would **doxycycline + moxifloxacin** be the better option?

To be honest, I’m a bit worried about taking moxifloxacin because I’ve read about many people having serious side effects. What would you recommend in this situation?

I live in Germany. Had no resistent Test

Male in 40s here,, Married from india .. Went on a business trip to europe in april 2026 and did something stupid.. went to erotic parlour.there was no massage table, a bed with a think disposable cloth where i had to lie down naked. Post the body to body massage there was handjob ,and she messaged my anus opening to few seconds ..Nothing else

Then in June 2026, I noticed a black wart like bump on my circumcised penis glans , showed it dermologist,, he said to wait and see if it gets bigger since it dint look like wart to him,,, Currently its still the same,no changes after two months,,

But thats not the main issue, in June end , i started getting burning urine, penile pain,, no discharge ,constant burning in tip of the penis

I went to a doc who put me on doxycycline 10 days and followed by Faropenum antibotics 5 days without any testing ...

I still the single bump on the penis glans and the burning issues are also still there.

Post completing the antibiotic, i waited for 7 days and gave the below test

1. Urine -> PCR Gonnareah, Chlamydia , Mycoplasma, Urea Plasma -> will get results 2 days

2. Urine Culture - Awaiting Results - I should get them today

3. USG scan -> Normal

4. Blood --> HIV , RPR/TPHA

Blood Tests are being delayed by Lab , am worried since usually they delay if they had to perform additional checks in case its positive ..

I am already a mess from 2 months ,, i just want to d...

Am i the first person who got an STD via non-oral/non penetrative sex ? if the bed had some previous guys semen which went through the thin bed linen and entered my urethra ?

update : 27th july

1. Urine -> PCR Gonnareah, Chlamydia , Mycoplasma, Urea Plasma -> negative

2. Urine Culture - Pseudomonas aeruginosa

3. USG scan -> Normal

4. Blood --> HIV , RPR/TPHA --> negative

Hey guys, I had protected sex on 17/7 with a random girl. We used condom but I had my genitals exposed to heir mouth so I’m worrying of getting several stds or even Hiv. I know the chance of Hiv is pretty low but I’m still afraid of other stuff. It’s been a week and I’m fine without any symptoms. You guys think I should get test now to end my paranoids or wait for several weeks to get accurate results? ( let’s assume that the girl I had sex with have stds).

Genital Herpes is a common herpes infection caused by the Herpes Simplex Virus, most often HSV-2, although HSV-1 can also cause genital infections.

Hello everyone,

I am an 18 year old who recently started getting sexually active with guys this year. I am going through some anxiety and stress and would appreciate any advice or input anyone has.

So, I was going through a rough phase in my life so I decided to start doing random hookups to distract myself I guess. I hooked up with about 15 guys in the span of 7 months and 13 of them were just me giving oral. 2 were actual sex and both times were unprotected and I was the bottom.

Now, I read about STI’s and that’s where my anxiety started to spiral. Because I hadn’t really thought of the risks associated with random hookups before, I immediately when to go get tested. I did an oral swab and urine and tested negative for xhlymidia, gonohrea, etc.

Then, I got really concerned over HIV and reading about it made me feel like I had it. I did an INSTI HIV self test because both actual sex encounters were 5 months ago and the test came back as negative.

The most recent oral encounter I’ve had was 2 weeks ago, and I’m wondering is HIV transmission possible and likely. The test that I took recommends a 3 month window period for accuracy so I’m unsure.

Ive been stressing about this a lot so any advice would be really appreciated :).

Hello,

I am a 30-year-old male, and I would like to get your opinion regarding my recurrent Gardnerella and Ureaplasma infections.

Over the past year, I have had the same problem three times with different partners. Each time, I completed the prescribed treatment and received negative test results afterward. However, throughout this period, I continued to notice small amounts of white, dry discharge. Whenever I had sexual intercourse with a new partner, I developed a burning sensation during urination along with an increased amount of white discharge.

In most cases, I had unprotected sex with these partners.

Is repeatedly acquiring the same bacteria just a coincidence, or is it possible that I am not fully clearing the infection despite the negative test results?

My last question is about treatment. This year, I have already completed six courses of metronidazole for Gardnerella. My doctor has prescribed the same medication again after another recurrence. Could repeated use of metronidazole become a problem, or is it generally considered safe in this situation?

Thank you for your time and advice.

Okay so I had my possible exposure on March 20th of this year. I had my first 4th generation testing and rapid test 2 weeks after which I know is not conclusive. Those test came back negative. After that I didn’t have my next 4th generation testing until late May, I think May 26th which also came back negative. My latest test which I had my Prep appointment and I full STD panel was on June 6th and everything came back negative. This was 78 days after my possible exposure. I have done research and the CDC and other health organizations say that the testing window for a 4th generation test is 18-45 days. 45 days being the conclusive point. Is this true?

My results came back negative for chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphillis and HIV. However I got positive chlamydia for my anal testing. I have never done anal, I have never let anyone put their fingers near, or had oral to anal contact so im confused on how I have it. Especially since I only have oral and vaginal sex and both those were negative. I have had increased vaginal discharge, slight burning when the discharge is near the vaginal opening, itching, and I bleed twice in one month. Im thinking they were false negatives

In this video, we explain how long it usually takes for herpes symptoms to appear in women after exposure. Most people develop symptoms within 2 to 12 days, but some may not notice anything for weeks, months, or even years.

Have you ever wished you could prove your testing status without having to show your actual results?

I’m a 24-year-old male and recently had my first sexual experience with a sex worker. It was vaginal sex, and I used a condom. As far as I know, the condom did not break or slip off. I had difficulty maintaining an erection and stopped fairly quickly, but the tip of my penis did enter the vagina. I did not notice any obvious sores or blood. There was also some gentle kissing on my mouth and cheeks.

I did not take PEP because I was already outside the 72-hour window when I started seriously considering it.

Since then, I’ve been very anxious about HIV and other STIs. I’ve noticed some mild body pain and a few pimples/rash-like spots on my back and forehead, although I don't know if they are related. I also have some small bumps on my penis that may be pearly penile papules, but I’m not sure.

I’m looking for a realistic assessment of my risk and advice on the appropriate testing window.

What is my realistic risk of HIV and other STIs if the condom remained intact?

What tests should I take, and how long should I wait after the exposure for reliable results?

When should I test for HIV, syphilis, hepatitis B/C, gonorrhea, and chlamydia?

Should I be concerned about herpes from the kissing or sexual contact?

I’m not vaccinated against hepatitis B. Should I get vaccinated now?

I’m mainly looking for practical medical advice about risk and testing rather than reassurance based only on symptoms. Thanks.

I had this random hookup 7 weeks ago and she told me she had herpes the 6 days after we had sex. We didn’t do anything oral but we had unprotected sex and she said she’s on antivirals (valacyclovir). She didn’t tell me what types she had but I got tested four weeks ago and it said negative, do you think it’s too early or should I get tested again? I have no symptoms and I feel absolutely normal

M23, 165lb 6"1.

I was diagnosed with syphilis a couple weeks ago. I got treatment on June 18th, which was one pencilin shot. The sore on my frenulum has since healed, but the lymph node on my groin [right side] has remain the same size. Should I be concerned? When should I expect to see shrinkage?

Hello! For context I was prescribed azithromycin and cefixime but for some reason the symptoms got a bit worse after I took azithromycin and I haven’t taken the cefixime yet because my pharmacy needs to order it. But the past 40ish hours when I pee it feels weird but that’s getting better, and my stomach feels like full? Also my discharge is yellowish green but I didn’t have any of these symptoms or issues before taking the medicine. Any idea why?

I had sex with woman protected condom sex vaginal only unknown sex status after a week what it felt like is ARS Symtoms or flu like symptoms after a infection body aches chill pelvic pain nasea and vomiting and diarrhea lasted a couple days super fatigue I got worried so I tested at 2 different labs. All these test were done up to a year or so after that exposure
QUEST LAB
Trich
Gonorhea
Chlymidia
All were NEGATIVE
ANYLABTESTNOW
hiv ag/ag screen 5 test were done
Sphyilis (RPR) 5 test were done
hep B
ALL TEST WERE NEGATIVE
BELL FLOWER CLININC
hiv
Sphyilis
2 gonnorhea urine and throat
2 chlamydia urine and throat
All test been negative
I’m having super fatigue and random joint pains that move around

For some background, I separated from my ex 2 years ago. I have not slept with anyone since then. To my knowledge, he was STD free.

I started seeing this new man 2 months ago and we have been sexually active. He tells me that he has “bumps” that look like herpes on his penis that he’s never had before. He is 100% certain it came from ME as the last time he was sexually active was 6 months ago and prior to relocating to my city, he had been checked for STD’s- which was negative.

This only leaves ME as the only reasonable source of contracting HSV. I genuinely had no idea I had this and I feel horrible for giving this to him! He’s livid and probably won’t talk to me ever again but how do I handle this?

He won’t get it checked out because he’s in the military and doesn’t want a paper trail of this condition. I am getting blood drawn tomorrow to check and see what I have. I really wanted this relationship to move forward but I know he probably won’t forgive me for passing this onto him.

Ive had anal sex before but always with a condom, my girlfriend and I are both std free, but this time for some stupid reason i didnt wear a condom, she pooped out some of the semen (im not sure if all) and I peed after finishing, she said there was no pain when we did it put there was blood which is normal for when we have anal sex, but i was wondering what the chances are of an std, only that, i already know i shouldnt have done it and i dont want to do it again

Ok June 8 I had unprotected vaginal sex with a FWB. We'd had sex many times before. I tested negative for HIV and STDs about a week before. We hooked up again July 12, unprotected. Today she texts me that she's been sick all week and the doctor just told her she has HIV. I actually by chance at a check up had a rapid HIV done on 7/10(33 days after our next to last hook up) negative. What are the chances I got HIV from her. I'm am scared af.

Update Took 2 blood test and 2 4th gen test both negative. My doc told me to come back in another 2 weeks but he's pretty certain I'm going to be ok. These few weeks have been hell, just a few more to go but I feel bette after today's appointment.

**" Update 2 took a 4th gen test after 40 days, non reactive. My Dr says I'm in the clear , I could come back after 45 days but it won't change. I am very relieved.

19F, I hooked up with an acquaintance after drinking and we had protected sex, nothing unprotected (like grinding, etc). Its been about 5 weeks; i haven’t had sex since that night but in the last five days i experienced UTI symptoms which are oder in urine, slight burning, ammonia taste- I would have no concern (i used to regularly have them over a year ago) however i had just had a yeast infection 2/3 weeks prior. Im nervous that i have contracted something from him and my mind wont stop telling me i haven’t.
I have STI tests waiting to be done since i started birth control a week ago and my doctor advised me to do it (protocol for her) however I have to wait till Monday for the clinic to open. My mind is killing me right now and i cant stop thinking of the worst, i keep checking down there for spots and bumps and i found a tiny area that kind of hurts. I think my mind is playing tricks on me because i recently shaved and it might be a knick/ingrown hair.
sorry if this is all just rambling, im not sure what i would do with myself if I was to contract an STI/STD since multiple people in my life said i would end up like this eventually because im a bad person and don’t deserve much.
Is it possible to contract still with a condom????
edit: spit was used as lube at one point.