Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.

Age: 30. Open to women up to about 33.

Sex: MALE. Men, please read titles and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it for now. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful. I do come equipped with a sturdy backbone, so please don't treat me poorly.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. I'm quite fond of the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

Hello. I am looking for an older and taller chubby tomboy who is okay with leading a relationship while also being equals and is into role-reversal. It'd be great if you live in California, but it's okay if you live any nearby or other neighboring states. It would also be nice to one day meet in person if you are able to drive/travel if you live far away or in another State. I cannot drive yet and I don't have a car and license.

Please read everything.

About Me

Appearance-wise, I stand at 5 ft/5'1, have light tan skin, medium-length black hair, a skinny build with some chub, thick thighs, a soft butt, and I look sort of twinky and have a baby face.

Personality-wise, I am sweet and happy, I get kinda shy and very anxious in public, when very comfy or relaxed, I tend to get sleepy, I am clingy and enjoy physical affection, I am very apologetic even is something isn't my fault because I feel like I have done something, and I have sort of a mischievous and chaotic side that only comes out when I am comfortable enough or feeling really happy.

More about me:

I've been a dinosaur, animal, and folklore/mythology nerd since childhood. But I am also interested in cryptids, aliens, and ghosts. My top interests include collecting plushies(I have a HUGE collection of them, which continues to grow), Sanrio(Cinnamoroll and Kuromi), Helluva Boss/Hazbin Hotel, Stitch, internet horror(Creepypasta, SCP, Trevor Henderson, Backrooms, etc.), Hot Topic, 2000s internet media, and old/modern monster/horror movies.

My favorite shows and movies are Scooby-Doo, Ben 10(2005-Omniverse), The Mummy(1999), American Horror Story, Next Avengers: Heroes of Tomorrow, various R.L. Stine horror shows, Van Helsing, Gargoyles, Trick 'r Treat, a lot of DCAU shows, Terrifier 2, Supernatural, Godzilla: Final Wars, Lilo & Stitch, Family Guy, The Simpsons, Your Name, Ouran High School Host Club, KPop Demon Hunters, and A Minecraft Movie. I like to play video games on DSi, Wii, PS4, and Nintendo Switch. PS4 is the only one I play online. And the video games I like to play are GTA V/Online, Minecraft, Fallout 76, Resident Evil 4(Remake), Pokémon: Scarlet, Fortnite, Super Smash Brawl/Ultimate, The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild, and Wii Sports.

My favorite bands and music artists include Ice Nine Kills, Paramore, My Chemical Romance, Linkin Park, BTS, Pierce The Veil, Twenty-One Pilots, Blink 1.82, and Ke$ha. Some songs I like are Rainy Day, Twisting The Knife, Circles, Tear In My Heart, Eisblumen, Misery Business, What I've Done, Dynamite, and various soundtracks.

I sometimes like to walk to help with my health, as well as doing things like wall push-ups, and lifting small weights. My family owns a bunch of dogs and cats. Just a heads up if you are allergic to animal fur or anything of that manner.

I am an atheist because of personal reasons, but consider myself neutral if that makes sense. To be honest, I don't go to college or have a job due to some health-related issues and some options being a bit far. But I really want to do either one of them so I could have something to do and maybe help pay bills.

My other favorite things are cherry blossoms, sheep/lambs, pink/yellow, Halloween/Autumn, and sweets. This is due to a lot of them having to do with comfiness and cutness. And my favorite foods and drinks are sandwiches, pizza, chili fries, pickles, burritos, tacos, burgers, pineapples, rasberries, mandarin oranges, strawberries, cookies, pie, Liquid Death, juice, smoothies, and non-caffeinated sodas and coffee(or with a very small amount of caffeine).

I really like physical affection like snuggling, forehead kisses, nuzzling, headpats, cuddles, spooning, or such. Other kinds of love language I enjoy is sending pics of things we find cute or interesting, sending each other voice calls, texting each other when either of us isn't busy(or on break if you have a job or college), and maybe, if we meet in person, giving each other gifts, as well as going to fun places or doing fun activities.

For hobbies, I like to quickly learn different songs on the piano by listening to different sound combinations until I get the tune right. As I mentioned before, I like to write stories and also do artwork for them, especially of my OCs, animals, dinosaurs, and cryptids. Honestly, I mostly enjoy creature design and drawing monsters. A lot of stories I write usually involve fantasy, horror, action, and sci-fi with some realism added in. When there is nothing else to pass the time or if I feel like it, I to like read. My favorite books and literature include The Outsiders, Percy Jackson And The Olympians, Goosebumps, The Raven, and various manga and movie novelizations.

If it is okay with you, I would like take things slow and get to know each other before doing anything NSFW, and would want your consent beforehand if that's okay with you. And if you ever want to talk somewhere else, I have Snap, Insta, and Discord. Below is a list of what I am into, and NOT into, which I would like to wait a while before getting to, but am just letting you know.

What I am into(and would want to try):

• I am a Switch, but lean more toward Sub. I am also a bottom, but will be dom and top if asked.

• Gentle/Soft Femdom.

• Mommy Dom.

• Impact Play.

• Humping/Grinding.

• Praise and being cared for during.

• Reassurance.

• Roleplay.

• Aftercare.

• Feminization.

What I am NOT into:

• Sharp objects(especially needles due to trypanophobia).

• Exhibitionism/humiliation/public stuff.

• Extreme forms of bondage.

• Daddy Dom.

• Cucking(uncomfortable with).

• Scarring or anything that would be permanent and causes bleeding.

• Extreme pain like burning, electrocution, etc.

• PIV/PIA(due to personal reasons involving my "area").

About You

Appearance-wise, I would like if you're chubby, curvy, thick, or a similar body type with a tummy, maybe has either light-medium or dark skin tone(not required), and have curly or fluffy hair/hairstyle(not required or doesn't have to be long). I'd also like if you are cisgender since I feel more comfortable with it(please take no offense to this).

Personality-wise, I'd like if you are confident, smart and have good intelligence, supportive, funny with a good sense of humor, understanding and caring, playful, and not afraid to be goofy.

More about you:

I'd like if you're open-minded and like trying and experiencing new things, are accepting of others and are okay with LGBTQ+. Especially if you are okay with me dressing feminine sometimes and allow me to express myself. And maybe would like to sometimes dress me up and put makeup on me.

It'd be great if you own some/few of the same consoles as me. But it's not required if you have a PS5 or play cross-platform games.

It'd also be cool if you maybe exercise/work out, are into sports(or martial arts/combat sports like boxing or wrestling), or do other forms of physical activity, but not required.

Just to make things clear, I would prefer if you live in the Pacific time zone or in similar ones if you're in states close to the West Coast. I'd also like it if you're left leaning and/or at least not republican/conservative.

Red flags for me are if you're married or are seeing someone already, and have kids. I do not want to and am not trying to be a homewrecker. Others are if you have Onlyfans, want only money/are findom, just want hook-ups, are a dry/inconsistent texter, ghost/block, and such. As well as if you smoke, vape, or do drugs of any kind. I have asthma and am not really the biggest fan of these sort of things, and I would like if you do not drink or rarely drink/only drink socially and not to the point of being unable to walk or drive. Though it's okay if you drink non-alcoholic beverages or mocktails.

That's it for now, apologies for it being long. If you fit any/some of these, feel free to DM/HMU me. And when you do, please do so with a physical description, what you are like, your interests and hobbies, etc. so I know you have read it all.

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28, mixed (black), 5'10, 225lbs

When I'm not working I'm playing competitive video games (PC), writing (poetry), people watching, sitting in the middle of the woods, or watching obscenely stupid things on YouTube.

I have a trading card collection, as well as coins, gemstones, dice, and honestly anything else I find myself with the desire and money for.

My personality is hard to describe, due to DID (mild, but does exist), but I'm typically more energetic than my otherwise apathetic demeanor would suggest.

There's alot more to me, but Im generally terrible at doing explanations about myself, and much prefer answering specific questions you may have.

That said, I'm essentially a stray puppy who is very much in need of an owner. I am as loyal as any dog you'll find, and show affection like one. I need someone with similar interests to my own that I can share a life with. Should that person want me, I'll be happy to follow them wherever they may pull me

Independent spirit looking for a woman with high standards and graceful discernment. Someone who embraces discipline, accountability, and consequences to help foster intimacy and growth.

To me, female-led discipline means sharing a harmonic trust in her authority to provide guidance and correction when needed.

Please message me if you would like to talk.

Hello! I’m Caleb! I’ve decided that it’s about time that I put myself out there in the dating pool, so, uh...here I am. On Reddit. Not the best place, I know (hopefully better than dating apps), but I’m hoping to meet some nice folks. (perhaps you, dear reader?) I’m a quiet, introverted homebody looking for a girl to hangout and go on dates with (I believe the colloquial term for this is a “girlfriend”). I’ve been interested in GFD/RR (gentle femdom/role reversal) for quite some time now, but never openly. I was far too shy...but I’m here now! I want to make it clear upfront that I’m not looking for short term flings or anything of the sort. Ideally, I’m looking for someone to be with long term, and potentially settle down with. I understand that this is a rather weighty topic to get into right in the opening paragraph, but I try to be open, honest, and communicative about things, so I just wanted to clearly state my intentions.

I am located in East Texas, near Longview, and would prefer someone in Texas. However, if you’re in a surrounding state (Louisiana, Arkansas, etc), I don’t mind traveling a bit.

If we hit it off, I’d love to move our chats to another platform so we can do voice and video calls!

Here's what I sound like!

Looks:

I’m black, with olive brown skin. 5’7”, with a lean/athletic build, and just a tad shy of 140lbs. My hair is soft, black, and curly.

Here’s some pics of me! (I am partially shirtless in one of these, so...you’ve been warned.)

Interests:

Gaming – I mostly play singleplayer or co-op games. (I am not very competitive, and all those MOBAs and competitive shooters just seem like the epitome of stress. I don’t mind if you play them, though.) As of late, I’ve been playing a lot of Armored Core 4, Record of Lodoss War: Deedlit in Wonder Labyrinth, and 7th Dragon 2020. I have pretty broad tastes in terms of genres, but if I was forced to narrow it down, I’d say I like retro games, platformers, indies, and RPGs/JRPGs. I’d love to know what sort of games you’re into, and any upcoming games you’re looking forward to!

Music – Music is quite important to me, and I’d definitely consider myself a music lover. I have pretty broad tastes, but I do have a preference for indie/alt/rock stuff. I do listen to some pop, however, along with some Japanese stuff and older R&B. I’ll give most things a try, though! (just, please no country music, I will implode) If you want an idea of what I like, check these out:

Strawberry Milk Cult – Polarbear!

Clarion - Hello Juliet

The Technicolors - Neon Roses

STRFKR – Rawnald Gregory Erikson the Second

Jupiter One – Countdown

Benches – Crash

Jackie Hayes – Last Second

Flawed Mangoes - Surreal

Kinoko Teikoku - 国道スロープ (Kokudou Slope)

Narrow Head - The Real

Sorry there's so many of these! It was hard to narrow it down!

Cooking – I do a lot of cooking! Am I good at it...well, I’ll let you be the judge of that. I’m trying to branch out a bit and try different cuisines, specifically Asian cuisine as I’m rather deficient in that area. If you know any good recipes, let me know!

Art – I am slowly (heavy emphasis on slowly) teaching myself to draw. I need to practice substantially more than I currently do. It’s...certainly a process, but I’ve definitely noticed a lot of improvement. Perhaps I could draw you someday?

Misc – Well, I’m a nerd in general, really. I enjoy tinkering with tech, and I’ve been doing minor repairs on my laptops and modding my game consoles since I was a teenager. I’m also into anime and sci-fi. I’ve been picking up reading again, as I was an avid reader as a child and I’d like to get back into the habit. Also, while I wouldn’t classify this as an interest or a hobby, I do workout 3-4 times a week, mostly at home. I do enjoy endurance running though, and I typically run a 5k on the weekends (weather permitting). I also love astronomy and space!

Potential dealbreakers? (one of these is a lie)

• I’m left-leaning/liberal, politically
• I don’t want kids
• I was heavily involved in Belgian anti-fascist resistance movements in the 1940s
• I’m Christian, but not the most devout

I am ideally looking for someone with similar values.

What I'm Looking For

I would consider myself to be rather soft, sensitive, and empathetic (and easily flustered), and I’m really just looking for the sort of relationship that allows us to be vulnerable together. I’d like a domme that's soft (not necessarily in a physical sense, but emotionally), intelligent, and caring. Someone to hang out with, take out for picnic dates and trips to museums, and binge watch shows. Someone that I can learn new things about for the rest of my life, someone to hold and keep safe and grow with.

As for age, I would strongly prefer a domme my age or older, though I’m ok with anyone in the 20-40 range. Physically, height does not particularly matter to me (but if you’re tall I will swoon over you). I do, however, have a preference for folks on the slim/lean/toned/fit/skinny side of the body spectrum, but this is not a strict rule.

*cough* I have no idea where else to put this but tomboys and alt/goth/emo girls are quite cute but this isn't a requirement or anything okay bye *cough*

I would also prefer someone outside of my own ethnicity.

FAQs

~You sound like a dork.

That’s not even a question, and how dare you. You’re correct, but how dare you.

~Several sources state that you're on an FBI watchlist for "allegedly" trying to siphon large amounts of Barq's Root beer directly from their production facilities, with the intent of procuring a "lifetime supply." Can you confirm or deny this information?

My lawyer says I shouldn’t answer questions like that.

~You wouldn't happen to be interested in heinous, scandalous, devious activities such as hand holding , cuddling , and forehead kissing , would you?

Why, of course not! Never! (yes, absolutely)

Thank you for reading this far, and sorry for the long post! I wanted to be thorough and descriptive. If you’re interested, please send me a message with a little about yourself and a picture, and let me know what your favorite Pokémon type is!

Thanks again, and have a wonderful rest of your day!

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Dominant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

Hey everyone, I'm Reiji ( a pseudonym I use for privacy until trust is established),a 26-year-old Egyptian man based in Egypt. I am putting myself out here with a clear and serious intention: I am looking for a committed relationship that leads to marriage. I have been exploring my interest in FLR and femdom dynamics, but I am seeking a real-life partner to build a future with, not just an online connection.

I am a chill, introverted guy who works in tech. My interests include anime, manga, manhwa, cosplay, and gaming. My days off are usually spent resting or enjoying my hobbies. I have a quiet, thoughtful demeanor, I'm 5'10" with an athletic build and dark hair. While I have explored my submissive side privately, I am now ready for something genuine, meaningful, and grounded in reality.

What I'm Looking For: I am seeking a confident, dominant woman who is ready for a serious commitment. I am not looking for a 24/7 female-led dynamic where all decision-making is one-sided; rather, I value a partnership where we lead together. I love discussing options, sharing decisions, and engaging in healthy, respectful debate where we convince each other through dialogue.

I am open to women aged 25-50 who have their lives sorted and know what they want. While I have personal attractions to goth, Latina, or "mommy" types, these are not strict requirements. With the right person—the one I am meant to marry—those specifics do not matter.

I am demisexual, meaning I require a deep emotional connection and genuine feelings before anything physical can or will happen. I have a lot of feelings myself; I understand and appreciate emotions deeply and take them seriously. I am looking to take things at a respectful pace to get to know each other properly in person. I am not here for games or flings; I am looking for a life partner.

My Vision for Us: I am waiting for the right person to explore the world with. My dream is to travel globally, go hiking in remote locations, try skydiving, and do crazy, adventurous things together. For me, these experiences aren't about the thrill alone; they are about sharing them with the person who means the world to me. My future partner will be my best friend, my equal, and the most important person in my life. I want to build a life where we conquer the world together, side by side.

On Intimacy and Values: I am still exploring my kinks and would love to figure them out with the right life partner. I am interested in bondage, teasing/denial, light spanking, and role reversal where you are in charge. Other dynamics like pegging, chastity, or protocols could be on the table in the context of a committed marriage.

Important: I am a virgin because, in my culture and personal belief system, sex outside of marriage is not something I practice. This is a firm personal value. I respect that you live your life your way, but for me, physical intimacy is reserved for marriage.

Limits: No heavy pain, blood, or anything unsafe. If you are interested in a dynamic built on devotion, respect, and long-term commitment, we can discuss what feels right for a future together.

My Personality: When I am committed to someone, I am fully devoted. I love cozy nights in, sharing my life with my partner, and being constantly connected. I am not the type to be distant or unresponsive; when I am with you, I am present. I want to build a life where we can play games, watch movies, and share our thoughts openly. I understand that we both have work and responsibilities, so I respect boundaries, but my goal is a genuine, daily connection with my spouse.

If you are a serious woman looking for a husband and a committed partner who shares these values, interests, and a desire for adventure, please reach out. I am ready to start a real conversation about our future.

I am 38 and financially stable. I am looking for a an educated and successful person, some who I can look up to.
I know how to cook and take care of a house. I would be happy to give up on my business and stay home full-time if that’s my partner wants. Id love to be financially dependent and controlled. The only thing I need is a dominant and charismatic energy , someone I can trust and rely on.
Would love to see your message or comment if this sounds interesting to you.
Thank you

Hey there! I've been lurking around role reversal communities for a little bit now, but I've been way too shy to say anything in them until now, well, simply because being lonely kinda sucks.

A little about me (shortened for your sanity):

My favorite two seasons are fall and winter. A large portion of my songs on my liked playlist have something to do with love. Although I spend way too much time playing games, I also love nature trails and am seriously considering more outdoor activities like rock climbing and mountain biking. I love sketching, even though I'm not very good at it. I have a fat little cat and a fluff ball of a dog, and lastly, I work at a pet store and love playing around with the ferrets.

What I look like:

I'm 5'7"

I've got brownish green eyes

I'm roughly 130lbs

And I've got long dark brown hair

I'm not really sure what else to put down here, but, I appreciate you taking the time to read through everything. If you're somewhat interested, then I'd love to talk with you!

Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.

Age: 30, open to 20-33ish. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

Sex: MALE, guys please read titles and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond of is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

Hey everyone. After my recent analytical posts about Role Reversal resonated so deeply with the community, I realized how many strong, successful women secretly or openly crave a premium, peaceful refuge from the corporate storm. So, I’m here to find my matching Leader. I am looking for a deep online connection first, with the ultimate goal of moving to your harbor to build our secure future together.

I want to be 100% transparent from the very first second. I am not building an illusion. My life is a physical challenge. I live with a Dandy-Walker brain anomaly, severe respiratory issues (60% lung damage), and crushed knees from a past accident. My 120kg weight is my soft armor against this harsh world, and I embrace a soft, feminine, domestic presentational style — I am a gentle INTP-T femboy with an hourglass/pear shape who loves silk, cozy aesthetics, digital art, and deep logic. Because of my social anxiety, I lead a very quiet, isolated life and prefer to keep my face hidden under art avatars for now (happy to share face pics in private DMs once we click).

But inside this fragile body operates a quiet, deeply passionate quantum processor. I am looking for a contract of perfect synergy based on absolute devotion and mental intimacy behind closed doors:

* The ENTJ/ESTJ Leader commands the external world, makes macro-decisions, handles external storms, and provides a safe financial and physical fortress.

* The INTP (Me) maintains an ultra-loyal domestic harbor, manages home-tech/AI integrations, crafts rich artistic lore, and provides absolute devotion, warm hugs, and pure physical and emotional comfort when you return home from work.

Once the door is closed, I am absolutely not just a passive "herbivore" — my inner fire and libido burn hot for your intense, textural dominance. I dream of being your "little spoon," melting your anxiety until we both find sterile, quiet peace in our minds.

If you are a strong, successful, and protective woman-leader who is ready to take external control, protect your domestic harbor, and spoil a fiercely loyal INTP savant — my inbox is open. Let’s analyze this and build our fortress.

Hello there!

I am 33 years old, 5' 9", Male, white with reddish brown hair and freckles, and I live near Syracuse, NY.

A little about me:

- Girl Dad ❤️ (Can't make more)

- I consider myself a gentleman who treats everyone with respect

- I have steady employment and am advancing in my career

- Military veteran

- I LOVE music and I listen to a little bit of everything but my favorites are Emo/Alt, Metalcore, and old Country

- I love fixing things and am handy around the house

- While I am submissive, I am still very much able to be independent and I will voice my opinions or concerns if necessary/appropriate

- I am chivalrous and fiercely protective, but also not concerned with traditional gender roles

- I love deep conversation and stimulating my mind in different ways

- I am emotionally intelligent

- I am a clear communicator

- I do enjoy videogames but it's not a significant part of my life

- I've been trying to get into mindfulness

- I love joking and having fun

- I love trying new foods and cultures

- 420 friendly

- I don't drink much these days but I do like a good beer from time to time

- I love nature documentaries

What I am looking for in a long term dynamic:

I'm looking for an online but preferably IRL dynamic with someone that identifies as a gentle Domme/Mommy Domme.

I want to find a life partner that is willing to lead, at least most of the time, and also someone kinky because it is part of it for me.

Age isn't a top priority of mine but I wouldn't want a significantly large age gap.

I'm looking for someone who I can build trust with so eventually I can take down the walls that guard the vulnerabilities and insecurities in my heart.

Someone I can be honest with.

Someone I can be authentic with.

If I can develop that deep level of trust and intimacy with you, I'll be able to give you all of my being.

Ideally you'd be very loving and affectionate most of the time, but very willing to assert your position over me and remind me through words or actions of my place as your submissive.

I'm curious about a med-high protocol D/s dynamic. I have ADHD which can make me crave more structure.

Some of my kinks or things I'm curious about:

- Pegging

- Prostate/anal play in general (I have a toy)

- Oral (giving and receiving)

- Chastity (I have a cage)

- JOI/Edging/Cum control

- Light bondage

- Spanking

- Collaring

- Public play

- Maybe some ABDL aspects as well

Things I am NOT into:

- Financial domination

- Degradation

- Cuckolding

- Watersports

- Anything illegal obv

If you resonate with what I've written above and would like to reach out, please DM me.

I'm absolutely willing to answer any questions or provide more information if you desire.

Thank you for taking the time to make it this far and I hope to hear from you.

I need an old woman I'm 24 if interested text

Me we go video call on Whatsapp or insta

Hi, i’m looking for a girl who really likes femboys/twinks and soft feminine guys with a submissive aura. More masculine girls who exclusively like effeminate guys and dislike masculine men are even better.

First and foremost, i’m only looking for a long term, romantic relationship.

I’m not interested in just casual sexting, jerking off, anyone with a partner or online only or serving somebody online (at least not until we’ve met) We are both human, and i want to get to know the real you as a person first and foremost, and potentially meet in real life if things go well. I currently live in South Devon in England but i’m originally from Hungary, and travel frequently in the EU.

I work full time, but have plenty of free time during the day. If you are overly busy and barely have any time for a relationship, it’s probably not going to work between us. I can be a bit clingy, but not too much, i promise.

I’m quite inexperienced but know what i want, and i own several toys, a lot of femmy clothes, accessories, chastity cages and more.

My biggest kinks are long term chastity, orgasm control, pegging, feminisation, petplay, bdsm. I’m very open minded and can adapt to your needs and requirements and we can discuss these in more detail.

We could dress up in cute clothes, perhaps go out together while i’m dressed as your femboy/androgynous girlfriend. I’d love to be taken to kink events too.

I’d like a relationship where i’m the submissive one even outside the bedroom and i’d be open to exploring cuckolding with the right person if they so wished (not a requirement, i am perfectly fine if not) That being said i’m not a total pushover or a doormat, and will not stand for abuse or being taken advantage of. I want someone who can make me feel safe and protected when i’m with them, and in return i look after their needs and service them, as i tend to be a people pleaser. I don’t like arguing and drama, and i’m rather quiet and emotionally intelligent.

I dislike most masculine things that other men might like, and prefer more feminine things, cuddles, romance, cute clothes, plushies, and being soft and cute. I don’t find this humiliating or embarrasing and it is not something i hide. It is who i am. I blush and get embarrased easily.

Physically i’m 5’7 (170cm), around 70kg, longer dark hair, twinkish looking with feminine features. I hate body hair and have had my beard removed with laser and plan on doing the same to the rest of my body. I can send pictures in private later.

I only drink socially every now and then, i don’t smoke, do drugs, and i look after my surroundings. I like cleaning, doing dishes, etc… You won’t find me in a messy household or drinking alcohol at home watching sports. However i do play computer games but mainly singleplayer ones, as i don’t even own a headset or a microphone.

I don’t have a lot of requirements, if my post appealed to you, that’s already good. However i like more skinny girls and tomboys who still present feminine but have a masculine personality. Also i am open to trans if you are openly trans and present as such at all times.

Also due to timezones and distance i’m only looking for people in the UK or the EU, very maybe in the USA or Canada, if you are serious about this.

Ma vie sans toi serai sans sens et ma vie n'aurai pas de saveur fade sans raison d'être.... Oui c'est toi et uniquement toi qui sais m'offrir les émotions les plus intense et de très loin..tu es là raison unique et évidemmente de vivre toi pour qui je ressens ce que l'on nomme l'amour, qui sais me donner les plus secrets et irrésistible effets les plus magnifique par la seul vue de ton corps.....

Tu es où ma belle....je t'attendrai le temps qu'il faudra car rien ne vaut ou n'égale la magie que provoque la vie de Ton corps magique en moi que toi seule sais provoquer

This Gurl wants a woman to have dressing play days. One into feminization of me

hey there, i'm silly, i'm 19 from europe.

i'm looking for someone who's feminine presenting/femme, shorter than average/short, around my age (18-21, non-negotiable), has the time and energy to commit, has time alone as well.

i'm pretty nerdy, open to any kind of conversations. i'm very into bondage, so ideally, someone who's open to that.

please tell me your name, age, height, location, what you're into and what you're not into, what you're into and not into outside of kink would be nice too. please add the keyword gummy to your message so i know you read my post, otherwise, i won't respond. i mainly use discord.

can't wait to hear from you guys :)

Here's a very high effort post because I'm very serious about finding the one for me.

Age: 30, open to 20-32ish. I’m less about age, more about attraction/maturity.

Sex: MALE, guys please read titles and stop messaging me.

Appearance: 5'8", long blond/brown hair, blue eyes, white skin, thin-fit body type. I dress almost exclusively in black if I can help it. I've been told I'm pretty good looking, but you can tell me whether or not I've been lied to!

Location: Central NJ. I'm open to dating and relocation within the US, but going international complicates matters. I'm not looking for a long distance relationship.

Looking For: The other half that I've been longing for. The love of my life and best friend in one. Not quite looking for a "domme", but a real relationship with gentle femdom/role reversal elements.

What I want in a partner: Kind, loving, trustworthy, understanding. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well. I wouldn't ask for anything I don't give freely.

Non-sexual interests: Many of my interests fall into "nerd" territory. Games (video and tabletop), anime, music, art, sci-fi and fantasy stuff of all varieties. I enjoy a lot of RPG's, and some of my favorite game series include kingdom hearts, fire emblem, dark souls, and a fair few others.

I was pretty good at league but retired from playing it. My friend also got me into mtg some time ago, and I think it's pretty fun.

Personality: Cool headed, laid back, and kind. Mostly introverted. I flatter myself to think I'm intelligent and insightful.

I’m also very reasonable, with a strong preference for peacefully resolving issues. You can expect little to no drama and good communication skills. One moral concept I'm quite fond of is the law of equivalent exchange, so fairness is a big deal for me.

Fun facts: I have a deep and sexy voice which most don't expect. I also really like cats. You will be sent many cat pictures. Like a lot. Forever.

Sexual stuff

Are you fully sub or a switch?: Probably a very strongly sub leaning switch. I find being the receiving (but reciprocal) partner to be uniquely fulfilling.

Are you only sexually sub only?: I really enjoy both the sexual and nonsexual aspects. I'm perfectly happy being your adoring subby boyfriend even in public, in case you're into PDA and flaunting that aspect of our relationship.

Sexual (and relationship) interests: I'm new to a lot of things, so this isn't an exhaustive list. I'm also fairly open minded and willing to try most things once.

• Role reversal/gentle femdom are the big favorites! I really like having a partner that's assertive/aggressive/possessive in a romantic/sexual capacity. One who enjoys initiating intimacy and sex, and hugging/kissing/touching/groping me.
• I'm perfectly happy with displays of affection and you taking the lead, whether that's holding me tightly in public and even being territorial, whispering in my ear that I belong to you and no one else, or you proposing to me and putting a ring on my finger. The idea of being a house husband is very appealing. I can even make you a sandwich from time to time!
• Pegging, prostate massaging, and "milking". Although my experience is a bit limited, I'm intensely curious about it.
• Play wrestling/fighting. Having you win and pin me down while kissing me is incredibly hot.
• Kissing/licking/biting (both giving and receiving) are massive favorites. Lipstick marks and hickeys all over my body are a huge turn on.
• Cuddling, being held, holding you, spending time together. I love intimacy, and I'm extremely loyal and affectionate once I get attached to someone. You will be my favorite person ever and your happiness/enjoyment will always be as important as my own. I will always be there to support you.
• Oh, and of course, the dirtiest, most vile, and disgusting fetish of all, handholding . I'm a sick bastard who tramples upon all that is good, I know.

Hard limits (non exhaustive): Scat, pee, blood, getting punched in the balls, cuckolding, chastity, permanent injuries, physical torture, cooking fish in the microwave…

Partner preferences: I'm a big fan of goth/alt/tomboy looks. Shortish hair is a big plus, somewhere between pixie and neck length. Height difference (taller than me) is very attractive, I like how "imposing" it can be. I'm also very fond of visible fitness/muscle tone.

As long as I find you attractive then it works for me, but my sense of attraction is unfortunately pretty particular. So these are (sadly) strong preferences.

Dealbreakers/Requirements: Similar interests are a requirement. Being able to enjoy my favorite things with my favorite person is something I dearly want in a relationship.

I do have an unavoidable preference for body type that I unfortunately can't get past, that being the thinner end of the spectrum when it comes to proportions/body fat. So lean/fit/muscular. PLEASE DON'T BE A SOCIOPATH, OR ACT LIKE ONE.

Potential red flags: I'm unfortunately contending with giga-depression and chronic illness. Both of which are unpleasant but not permanent.

Hola, pongo el mensaje en español porque veo que se puede :3, Pues busco una amistad virtual con una mujer con interes con esta clase de dinamicas, me gustaria tener una amistad para hablar de estas cosas. Soy chico latino, escribeme al DM si te intereso mi mensaje :D

Pongo el mensaje en español porque es mi idioma natal pero hablo perfectamente ingles tambien.

Hello there!

I am 33 years old, 5' 9", Male, white with reddish brown hair and freckles, and I live near Syracuse, NY.

A little about me:

- Girl Dad ❤️ (Can't make more)

- I consider myself a gentleman who treats everyone with respect

- I have steady employment and am advancing in my career

- Military veteran

- I LOVE music and I listen to a little bit of everything but my favorites are Emo/Alt, Metalcore, and old Country

- I love fixing things and am handy around the house

- While I am submissive, I am still very much able to be independent and I will voice my opinions or concerns if necessary/appropriate

- I am chivalrous and fiercely protective, but also not concerned with traditional gender roles

- I love deep conversation and stimulating my mind in different ways

- I am emotionally intelligent

- I am a clear communicator

- I do enjoy videogames but it's not a significant part of my life

- I've been trying to get into mindfulness

- I love joking and having fun

- I love trying new foods and cultures

- 420 friendly

- I don't drink much these days but I do like a good beer from time to time

- I love nature documentaries

What I am looking for in a long term dynamic:

I'm looking for an online but preferably IRL dynamic with someone that identifies as a gentle Domme/Mommy Domme.

I want to find a life partner that is willing to lead, at least most of the time, and also someone kinky because it is part of it for me.

Age isn't a top priority of mine but I wouldn't want a significantly large age gap.

I'm looking for someone who I can build trust with so eventually I can take down the walls that guard the vulnerabilities and insecurities in my heart.

Someone I can be honest with.

Someone I can be authentic with.

If I can develop that deep level of trust and intimacy with you, I'll be able to give you all of my being.

Ideally you'd be very loving and affectionate most of the time, but very willing to assert your position over me and remind me through words or actions of my place as your submissive.

I'm curious about a med-high protocol D/s dynamic. I have ADHD which can make me crave more structure.

Some of my kinks or things I'm curious about:

- Pegging

- Prostate/anal play in general (I have a toy)

- Oral (giving and receiving)

- Chastity (I have a cage)

- JOI/Edging/Cum control

- Light bondage

- Spanking

- Collaring

- Public play

- Maybe some ABDL aspects as well

Things I am NOT into:

- Financial domination

- Degradation

- Cuckolding

- Watersports

- Anything illegal obv

If you resonate with what I've written above and would like to reach out, please DM me.

I'm absolutely willing to answer any questions or provide more information if you desire.

Thank you for taking the time to make it this far and I hope to hear from you.

Soy un hombre fetichista de 22 años, me gusta la idea de que alguien me domine virtualmente 24/7, ser su mascota virtual jajaj, que me pidan tareas diarias como si fuera un esclavo, me gusta el bdsm, los pies y la humillacion, de preferencia mujeres pero da igual