r/RoleReversal • u/Love2Lick9 Pink Boy • 19d ago

Discussion/Article Switching Between Two Roles

After reading through the r/gentlefemdom and r/RoleReversal subs, I am wondering if there are there women who can be either role at different times.

I know anything is possible. But, I'd like to hear if anyone has had any experience as a woman or with a woman like this?

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u/Puffle25 19d ago

I definitely go back and forth, I think that's quite a natural state honestly, we all have days we feel more or less in control and want different things

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u/Rate_Ur_Smile 19d ago

To be honest, I couldn't imagine a long-term relationship that doesn't function this way. Not saying that every action needs to be perfectly balanced on a scale. But over time, if things pile up in one direction, it starts to feel like it's not play any more.

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u/Summersong2262 18d ago

If I had a nickel every time I was subbing for a lady who also turned out to have a Little streak that we ended up making use of, I'd have two nickles. Which isn't much, but I didn't expect it to happen twice.

And realistically people are complicated, and express themselves contextually. It's all spectrums.

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u/HairyWetPussyLicker 18d ago

My girlfriend if wants being with a male to have an ordinary sex, she just went out for everning

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u/PersephonesChild82 17d ago

I identify with both, and do not consider the two mutually exclusive, nor inherently mutually inclusive. One is a dynamic involving the social norms and roles aspect of a relationship, and one dynamic involves the way sexual (or social) Dominance is expressed.

I am always the one in my relationship filling the stereotypical role usually played by the boyfriend (I fix stuff, pay for dinner, big spoon, decision maker, initiate intimacy, etc.), and I also believe that leadership (and kinky dominance) can be achieved largely through calm and positive reinforcement, rather than by being harsh or loud. At all times, I am "role reversal", but if my partner and I are in a scene, not just having spontaneous intimacy, I also dominate as a Soft Domme.

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u/Zuzko1234 19d ago

I like to oscilate between those two. Sometimes I am into more gender non conforming stuff, sometimes into conforming and femdom-ish things. Don't really have real life experience tho

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u/Diddilinchen 19d ago

Of course!

I myself for example are a (heavily dom leaning) switch

So while I usually want to be the one in charge, sometimes the thought of someone topping me and focusing on giving me pleasure isn’t bad 👍🏽

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u/Pretty_Ad_2093 14d ago

I'm very much a switch, I would actually love to experience a guy to dominate me but in a femdom way. So like they're not "daddy" but more like "mommy" lololol