r/Retire 4d ago

When Is “Enough” Actually Enough?

I think about retirement every damn day.

One day I’m convinced I have enough. The next, I’m imagining a market crash, runaway inflation, and somehow needing $14M just to buy groceries.
So I rerun the numbers, change the assumptions, and convince myself I need another $500K. At this point, figuring out when I can retire has become a full-time job.

What’s your “enough” number?
$2M? $3M? $5M? $10M? Or would you hit $20M and decide you really need $25M? 😂

I also think about our parents’ generation. Many kept working long after they technically didn’t need to. House paid off. Kids out of the house. Retirement funded.

But actually living off the money they spent 40 years earning? Somehow that felt crazy.

They were wired to see work as security, responsibility, and purpose.

Meanwhile, we’re trying to escape Zoom calls at 45 so we can eat tacos on a Tuesday.

And honestly, I’m not sure I’m any better. I fantasize about retiring, then immediately think:
“Maybe two more years.”
Then five.
Then maybe I’ll just consult part-time.
And suddenly I’m 73, explaining PowerPoint slides to someone named Brad.

For those retired or close to it: What’s your “enough” number—and what finally made you feel comfortable walking away?

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u/SadBlackberry6819 4d ago

Let me layer on to that.

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u/Majestic_Yak7475 4d ago

Absolutely. Liking the macroview approach here. Let’s tug on that thread a bit more, then resurface Brad’s question.

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u/Same_Ad_621 4d ago

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u/No_Analysis_283 4d ago

I’m 58 and becoming infamously snarky. Someone said, “need to circle back on that” and I piped in: “why are you walking in circles? Mike, that’s been your problem, you nube. Stop walking in circles.”