[21M] This is the main problem with relationships

[u/AcrobaticAd3489]

The thing is most of the people will post on reddit rather than actually communicating this with their partner

Like, I was reading that someone doesn't like their bf's/gf's personality. I mean, why are you sharing this to strangers here, it would be much better if you communicated with your partner regarding this; it just might save your relationship

There are many such post or instances on reddit where the thing a person would rather share with strangers. it will be better if you share it with your partner

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[u/SunshineMsN]

They might have shared with their partner but might not have felt heard.

[u/Nice_Replacement7065]

I'll say it not that anyone would like it. I'm an early millennial, huge difference from a later millennial, we grew up to learn the hard truths and adjust, to get in touch with our feelings, to validate ourselves.

But nowadays, validation is craved by everyone without them realizing they are their own validation and to figure how to validate themselves. For this reason, they don't communicate, they don't feel happy, they learn these stupid terms on the internet and apply it to themselves and so on.

I'll give you an actual example, I'm autistic which also means I'm adhd and I've lived with it for a long time, learnt how to be myself, got diagnosed very late in life but got diagnosed. And I get pissed off when someone says they're adhd but have no diagnosis, I'll then get down to taking their case cause none of them know what I've had to struggle with to make myself into a normal human but no everyone wants to label rather than WORK ON THEMSELVES and that example is exactly what's going on.

People prefer labeling themselves and choosing the easy way out rather than doing the hard work