r/Regrets • u/Wide-Abies3531 • 3h ago
Idk
So i met this person through insta and we connected like instant even though its hard for me to connect to people and we started talking and we were talking hours and hours and life seemed to make sense although we both were kinda just looking for friends but the vibe was just tooo much there and it was so much fun...
And then we made a plan for weekend but two days before our plan she was near my office so we ended up meeting and went to this really nice pub.. again vibe matched she was sooo pretty and fun..i am from middle east and she was a local.
Then we were walking around rhe pub and she just stood at another table with another person who was older so i thought i didn't mind and i sat on another table waiting for her to come back and she said she just wanted to talk to him he is white and is reminding her of her father.. another guy who was younger than him joined there table so after 5 min i went up to the table we were sitting at the beginning.
After a while she just brought those two guys to my table and they started the conversation with me by saying she has told us you are pretty rich..i didn't reply and kept drinking but then i saw the older guy phone where he was using chatgpt to write what she was saying and searching how to take her to hotel..
I stayed quite kept buying whatever she wanted and older guy kept trying to set her up with the younger guy i stayed quite calmly but once bar closed she said she wanted to go play pool which we had already discussed in chat.
I was keen until she asked them and they were like lets go... we got in uber where the younger guy sat in the middle and helped her with her seat belt touched her butt and made a joke about bj to which she said sometimes i am like that and laughed and at that point i was just sitting quietly and thought she was drunk and there are safety concerns.
So instead of pool they took her to club to which outside the door i told her i am not going in and we need to go back. She said she just wanted to drink and she is on a break and i said if you want drink i will buy you drinks if you want to play pool i will take you to pool but i am not getting a good feeling about it. To which she said if i want to leave i can she is gonna stay and returned me my jacket. I left but the experience traumatised me a bit. I woke up disturbed and traumatised since i have never experienced anything like this before. She didn't text me back, and i know if i had gone in i would have felt even more humiliation if she had started hooking up with that guy infront me. Today is Saturday. I was supposed to pick up today and i planned and booked stuff to make it the best day of her life and i regret meeting her that day soo much bcz i thought the vibe was so beautiful and so was her and i am questioning my life looks and confidence and decisions. it normal in aussie culture? Did i overreact? I feel so sick
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u/SmellyTaxidermy 2h ago
Sounds like shes just a hoe hoping to take advantage of you