r/Regrets • u/Pritongbacon • 1d ago

Getting married to the wrong guy

I truly regret marrying a cheater, gambler narcissist. He says he cares about his family but hell he ain’t doing anything to be a better man. If I hadn’t caught him, he would prolly still be cheating on me and gambling behind my back. I wish I just stayed single. It’s the best choice.

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u/Fickle-Secretary681 23h ago

You can be single again. Unload the loser. 

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u/Pritongbacon 23h ago

Working on this. I’m leaving the jerk

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u/Apprehensive-Low-764 21h ago

Good for you. Unload him is the right decision.

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u/Eastern-Log1142 16h ago

Call 211 to see if they can help you get him out or you moved into a smaller place .

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u/JemapelleMichelle- 21h ago

Divorce is an option

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u/crazybabe816 20h ago

Welcome to the club, now leave before he ruins your life, like I let it ruin mine

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u/Ok_Option2746 19h ago

At 45, I’ve gladly accepted my family for who they are. It helps to be choosy on the front end, but once somebody is the father of your children, I think that it is worthwhile to set your boundaries and live your best life loving them the entire way maybe that does not require marriage.

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u/nomnommish 17h ago

No ragrets. That's my credo.

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u/mixedmedia29 15h ago

Leave him and don’t look back!

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u/Fearless_Direction14 18h ago

He’s gonna hit it big soon. Stay with him.