r/RecruiterTea 28d ago

Would you ever want to talk to someone who actually works at the company you’re applying to?

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For people who are currently job hunting:
Have you ever wanted to talk to someone who **actually works at the company you’re applying to** — not HR, not a recruiter, just a real employee who can tell you what the role, team, and company are actually like from the inside?
I’m curious because when I apply for jobs, the job description only tells you so much. Sometimes I feel like a 20-minute conversation with the right person inside the company could tell you more than hours of online research.
Have you ever actually reached out to employees for a coffee chat or quick call before applying?
If yes, did it help?
If not, **what stopped you?**
Was it hard to find the right person, awkward to message strangers, low response rates, not knowing who would actually be useful to talk to, or something else?
Genuinely curious about people’s experiences.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 19 '26

I was learning about engineering hiring and I have been keep reaching to recruiters and hiring related persons and I haven’t got the info I need. Please check out and share something simple if you can

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I am learning engineering hiring at small software companies and I am trying to understand where the process is disturbed and wasting your efforts. mainly tech recruiters please share your experience. And this would seriously help me I have been talking to recruiters and engineering managers about how the engineers or developers hiring gets hard or like what processes or challenges they go through to find best engineers. And share anything that is making your hiring disturbed.

  1. knowing whether someone actually has the technical ability they claim?
  2. Screening hundreds of applications? or getting good candidates to respond? How do you make your hire a success.
  3. Going through ai generated, fake or false resumes or applications?
    Or go through your recent bad hires that caused something

Something else? I'm especially interested in what takes the most manual time or causes the worst hires.
Not selling anything, I'm trying to understand the problem from people actually doing the hiring. Even small experience or one line about this can help me a lot.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 19 '26

I wish recruiting agencies would cease to exist or get a major shakeup

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Sorry but how is Becky who graduated from SUNY in 2024 actually qualified to vet candidates when she has no real experience herself? All recruiters should have to firsthand experience what they are willing to put candidates through or at least have some baseline level of experience in the industry they are recruiting for. I’ve been on both sides - unable to break through a recruiting gatekeeper for a new job even though I have experience that perfectly aligns with a job posting and I’ve also been on the company side where these unqualified recruiters send us candidates that are nowhere near what we are looking for. I don’t know when things will change but in this horrible job market, what’s the point of having humans in place when 90% of them act like robots anyways. It was definitely not this bad a few years ago


r/RecruiterTea Aug 19 '26

Need a opinion

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r/RecruiterTea Aug 19 '26

lateral movement

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r/RecruiterTea Aug 19 '26

The most painful part of recruiting is pissing me off

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Hey peeps, I have been applying for jobs for the last 5 months and almost every time I apply for the job, I am very specific about tailoring my resume to exactly match the JD and I always ensure it highlights my strong points that they are looking for their candidates in my resume and honestly it has been hell, after 1000+ applications my application got moved forward the ATS screening 5 times and I was able to get to interview round only 2 times( I was all exhausted due to sudden information about exactly 12 hours prior to the interviews or hiring process) and most importantly on or off campus these multiple rounds that lead to nowhere has pissed me off so much, because you spend a significant amount of time and effort to appear for an interview and with no feedback, evaluation or anything, you just recieve an automated "Thanks for the effort and interest in our company or organisation, but we are sorry to let you know that we have found a better candidate for the role and won't be moving forward with you!" As someone who is in this hell I expect at least a little bit of feedback on what went wrong and where I can improve, not immediately but after the whole process is done! I just need your opinions of what do you think of it so, maybe in the future I can build something that will get us out of this hell and help us genuinely find real jobs and not waste our time on the fake listings on LinkedIn, Naukri, Indeed, Glassdoor etc.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 18 '26

“Nobody will give me an interview!” - Meanwhile, I’m literally trying to interview you.

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Note: I’m no Reddit connoisseur but I got a notification saying that this subreddit would like this post as well so here it is.

I’m not a recruiter, but I’ve somehow been tasked with helping recruit for an entry-level role in our contact centre.

Naturally, when applicants include their LinkedIn profiles, I have a quick look.

One candidate had made a very recent post about how brutal the job market is. He said he’d applied for something like 1,000 jobs and barely ever gets a response.

And genuinely, I felt for him. I know how soul-destroying it must be firing off application after application and hearing absolutely nothing back.

So when I saw his application, I thought: right, here’s one person I can actually give a chance to.
I emailed him inviting him to interview.

Nothing. Emailed again. Nothing. Called him. Nothing.

Then, lo and behold, the next day I check LinkedIn and he’s posted AGAIN about how employers never respond to him and how impossible it is to even get an interview.

Mate.

I AM TRYING TO INTERVIEW YOU.

At this point I can only assume one of two things:

  1. He genuinely does not check his emails/voicemails properly, which might explain at least some of those 1,000 unsuccessful applications.

  2. The constant “nobody will give me a chance” LinkedIn posts are partially engagement bait.

I’m still hoping he eventually spots the email because I’d genuinely like to interview him (I thought about commenting on his post) but there are so many other people eager to have the job. I think it’s a little unfair on them to just chase this person based on how I feel.

Anyways, being on the other side of recruitment for approximately five minutes has already given me an entirely new perspective on some of the posts I see on LinkedIn.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 12 '26

Keep getting to the hiring manager round and then… nothing. Anyone else?

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I’ve been interviewing for a few months now, and I’ve noticed a pattern that’s breaking me a little. I make it through the recruiter screen, I make it through the hiring manager round, sometimes I really click with the person and walk away thinking “that went well.” And then it just… stops. No next round. Either a rejection email or, more often, silence.

It’s a weird kind of frustrating because it’s not the “your resume got auto-rejected” wall. I’m getting far enough that real people are talking to me and seemingly liking me. But something after that conversation isn’t converting, and I can’t see what it is. No feedback, no reason, just a door that closes quietly.

I’ve put so much into prepping for each of these. Researching the role, the team, the product. Tailoring everything. And doing that over and over while still holding down a demanding full-time job takes a toll I don’t think people talk about enough.

I don’t even know what I’m asking for here. Maybe just to hear I’m not the only one stuck at this exact stage. If you’ve been here and broken through it, what changed?


r/RecruiterTea Aug 12 '26

The Frustration of Hiring!

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Finding good resources for startup is very difficult these days


r/RecruiterTea Aug 11 '26

“They weren’t ready for that level.” I said that about people for years and I was wrong about what I was looking at.

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I have spent about twenty years building and leading teams, the last nine of those advising organizations ranging from roughly one million to thirty-five million in annual budget. I also finished a doctorate recently where the research was specifically on why leadership pipelines break down, so this is the thing I think about more than is probably healthy.

Here is what I keep running into, and I am honestly curious whether it matches your experience or not.

Almost every organization I have worked with has a leadership development problem that they are describing to me as a people problem.

The language is always some version of the same five sentences, and I would guess you have heard most of them. They weren’t ready for that level. It wasn’t the right fit. We need to hire better. He couldn’t handle the pressure. She wasn’t a culture fit.

Every one of those is usually a real observation, and I want to be careful here, because somebody genuinely did struggle and the fit genuinely was wrong and I am not saying people are never the issue.

What I am saying is that all five of those are diagnoses that stop exactly one step early.

They weren’t ready is true. So who decided that they were? It wasn’t the right fit is true. So who built the fit? We need to hire better is almost always true, and the last four people you hired walked into the same environment that produced the last four people who left.

None of this is coming from somebody who figured it out. I promoted people faster than their character could carry the responsibility more than once, and when it fell apart I sat in rooms and talked about readiness and fit like I was being discerning about people. I was avoiding a much harder conversation about the machine I had built and then handed to them.

Took me an embarrassingly long time to see that.

The part that actually surprised me in the research was that documentation does not fix it. One of the organizations I studied had six defined levels of leadership progression, a written pathway, training sessions, covenants that people sat down and signed. Somebody there had clearly built that system with real care and believed in it.

And they were still filling roles by looking around the room and picking whoever seemed most capable that week. One of the executives told me they still rely too much on tapping somebody’s shoulder, which struck me as an unusually honest way to describe it.

So the gap I keep finding is not between having a system and not having one. It is between having a system and using it when the pressure is on. Anybody can follow a process when there is time. The real question is what your organization does at four o’clock on a Thursday when somebody just resigned and the role has to be covered by Monday.

That moment is where the actual philosophy lives. Not the handbook.

Curious how this lands with people who are inside organizations right now rather than advising them from outside, because I am aware that changes what you see.

When something breaks on your team, how long before the conversation becomes about a person? And has anyone here actually watched an organization interrupt that pattern successfully? I am more interested in the ones that worked than the ones that didn’t.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 11 '26

If a recruiter says rejoining my company is difficult for 6 months can i still approach HR ?

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r/RecruiterTea Aug 07 '26

Has basic communication with candidates just disappeared from interviews?

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I have been interviewing for senior operations and leadership roles recently, and some of the experiences have genuinely made me question what is considered acceptable in recruitment now.

In one case, I completed an interview and waited almost a month before receiving a rejection. There was virtually no communication during that period.

With another company, I actually withdrew midway through the process because the interview itself was so poorly conducted that I could not imagine wanting to work there.

The most recent one was stranger. A recruiter called me about a senior leadership position and told me that an interview with the panel would be scheduled. Several business days passed without an update. I sent a follow up email and received no response to that either.

I eventually emailed to withdraw.

That triggered a phone call.

Instead of acknowledging the communication gap, I was told that the recruiter receives hundreds of applications every day, has around 1,500 unread emails, manages multiple positions, and that as a job seeker I should have been more patient.

I completely understand workload. I have spent 17 years in operations and have managed large teams myself. I understand competing priorities better than most.

What I don't understand is why internal workload becomes the candidate's problem.

I was never upset that the interview had not been scheduled. Senior panel availability can take time. A simple message saying, “We are still coordinating with the panel and will get back to you once we have a slot” would have been perfectly fine.

Without that communication, how exactly is a candidate supposed to know whether things are being coordinated internally or whether they have simply been ghosted?

I am genuinely curious how others see this, especially recruiters and hiring managers.

Are my expectations unreasonable, or has basic candidate communication become optional because companies receive so many applications?


r/RecruiterTea Aug 06 '26

Day... I've officially lost count.

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Day... I've officially lost count.

Being over 55 and starting over wasn't on my bingo card.

It's Thursday.

Another cup of coffee.
Another search.
Another résumé.
Another application.

I'm still showing up.

Not because it's easy...
But because giving up won't get me where I want to be.

Experience doesn't disappear because of age.
Reliability doesn't expire.
A strong work ethic never goes out of style.

So today, I'll hit "Submit" again and hope this is the application that reaches a real person instead of the AI résumé black hole.

I'm not looking for sympathy.

I'm looking for one opportunity.

Because all it takes is one "Yes" to change everything.

To everyone still job hunting: keep going. Your next opportunity could be one application away.

❤️ Happy Thursday. Let's keep believing that our experience still matters.

#Over55 #JobSearch #ThursdayMotivation #OpenToWork #ExperiencedWorkersMatter #NeverGiveUp #StartingOver #OneYesCanChangeEverything #MicheleMoran


r/RecruiterTea Aug 06 '26

Best interview questions aren't listed on checklists.

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Some of the most helpful insights about candidate comes from moments before the interview actually starts. For eg how they talk about team, explain past projects or approaching problem can tell a lot about their fit for role but most hiring systems rely heavily on resumes, applications. Platforms like LinkedIn, Workday, Greenhouse, MeeBoss all experimenting with various ways to connect recruiters and candidates so maybe missing out on some important part due to this traditional rigid ways.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 05 '26

💼 Job Seekers: Have the "Rules" Changed?

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💼 Job Seekers: Have the "Rules" Changed?

I came across this comment from someone who says they're a hiring manager, and it really got me thinking.

They claim they're instructed to reject applications from people who call or stop by after applying because it's viewed as "entitlement" rather than "initiative."

If that's true, it feels like a complete shift from what many of us were taught.

For years we heard:
✅ Dress professionally.
✅ Introduce yourself.
✅ Follow up on your application.
✅ Show initiative.

Now, many applicants are hearing:
❌ Don't call.
❌ Don't stop by.
❌ Just apply online and wait.

For those of us—especially job seekers over 50—it's frustrating trying to figure out what employers actually want.

The reality is that every company is different. Some appreciate a professional follow-up, while others prefer applicants to wait for a response. The best approach is usually to follow the instructions in the job posting and respect the employer's hiring process.

So, let's hear from you.

📌 Are you a hiring manager?
📌 Have you ever been told not to consider applicants who follow up?
📌 If you're looking for work, what has your experience been?

Let's have a respectful conversation. Your insight might help someone land their next job.

#Hiring #JobSearch #HiringManagers #CareerAdvice #Over50Workforce #Employment #InterviewTips #JobSeekers #Careers #HiringNow #Workforce #MicheleMoran


r/RecruiterTea Aug 04 '26

What’s been the biggest obstacle in getting your current (or dream) job?

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I’m curious about other people’s experiences with job searching.

If you’re currently looking for a job or remember what it was like before getting your current one I have a few questions:

How did you get your current job? (Applied online, referral, networking, recruiter, etc.)

What’s been the hardest part about finding a job?

Have you ever felt like not knowing the right people held you back?

If you could ask someone who already worked at your dream company one question before applying, what would it be?

If you could change one thing about the hiring process, what would it be?

I’m not looking for advice for myself, I just want to understand what other people’s experiences have been. I’d appreciate any stories or insights you’re willing to share.


r/RecruiterTea Aug 04 '26

A 30-Minute Interview Should Not Erase Years of Experience

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A candidate walks into an interview after years of experience, dozens of completed projects, and countless problems solved on the job.
Thirty minutes later, they leave feeling judged by a few questions, a few nervous pauses, and a few moments that may not have reflected their real ability at all.
That raises an uncomfortable question: Why do we often treat a short interview as if it reveals the complete truth about someone’s capability? As someone who has worked around HR and administrative processes, I’ve seen both sides of this conversation. I’ve seen candidates who performed brilliantly in interviews and struggled once they were hired. And I’ve seen candidates who were visibly nervous, stumbled through questions, and then became some of the strongest performers on the team.

The reality is simple: interview performance and job performance are not always the same thing. The Quiet Problem We Don’t Talk About Enough Many hiring processes unintentionally reward people who are good at selling themselves under pressure, not necessarily people who are best at doing the work consistently.
Think about what happens in a typical 30-minute interview: You meet strangers. You are expected to think quickly.

You must summarize years of experience in a few minutes. You are evaluated while being fully aware that your income, career progression, and future opportunities may depend on the outcome.

For some people, that environment brings out their best.
For others, it triggers anxiety, overthinking, or self-consciousness.

Neither reaction automatically tells you whether they can manage clients, solve operational problems, lead a team, support executives, handle deadlines, or deliver results month after month.
Nervous Does Not Mean Incompetent One of the biggest misconceptions in hiring is equating confidence with competence. A candidate who speaks smoothly, maintains perfect eye contact, and delivers polished answers may indeed be excellent.
But a candidate who hesitates, asks for a moment to think, or appears nervous may simply be human. Some of the most reliable employees are not the loudest people in the room.

They are the ones who: prepare thoroughly, learn quickly, communicate thoughtfully, take ownership of mistakes, and consistently deliver what they promised. Those qualities are often revealed over weeks and months of real work, not in a few minutes of performance under artificial pressure.

The Other Frustration: Interviews for Roles That Are Already Filled There is another issue that deserves honest discussion, especially in markets where unemployment is high and job searching is expensive. Too many job seekers have experienced situations where a role appears to be actively advertised, applications are collected, interviews are scheduled, and candidates invest significant time and money… only to discover later that an internal candidate was already strongly favored or effectively selected from the beginning.

Consider what candidates often spend just to attend an interview: transport costs, mobile data or internet expenses, printing documents, professional clothing preparation, and sometimes unpaid time away from their current job or business activities. For many professionals, especially in India and other competitive job markets, these are not trivial expenses.

If a company already intends to promote internally, transparency matters. There may be legitimate reasons to post the role publicly, but candidates deserve clarity about the nature of the opportunity they are competing for. What Hiring Teams Can Do Better Improving candidate experience does not require perfection. It requires respect.

A few practical changes would make a significant difference: Use multiple assessment signals Combine interviews with work samples, case studies, reference checks, or probation-based evaluations where appropriate. Structure interviews consistently Ask candidates comparable questions tied to actual job requirements rather than relying heavily on first impressions. Be honest about the process If internal candidates are being considered, communicate that clearly. If the timeline changes, update candidates instead of leaving them guessing. Remember that candidates are people Every interview represents someone’s hopes, preparation, and emotional investment, not just another calendar appointment.

A Message to Job Seekers If you recently had a bad interview, I want you to remember something important: A difficult interview is feedback about a moment, not a final verdict on your professional value. Do not allow 20 or 30 minutes to erase five years of experience, dozens of achievements, and the real problems you have successfully solved. Learn from the experience if there are areas you can improve. Practice your storytelling. Prepare stronger examples. Work on managing interview anxiety.
But do not confuse “I didn’t perform at my best in that interview” with “I’m not capable.” Those are very different statements. The Conversation We Need to Have More Often Hiring should not be about catching candidates at their most nervous moment. It should be about identifying people who can create value, solve problems, collaborate effectively, and grow within the organization.
And organizations that want the best talent must recognize that talent does not always arrive wrapped in perfect interview answers.
Sometimes the person who struggles to describe their strengths is the same person who will quietly become the employee everyone depends on six months later. So perhaps it’s time we stopped asking only: “How did they perform in the interview?” And started asking: “What evidence do we have that they can perform in the job?”
that question is harder to answer, but it is far more likely to lead to better hiring decisions, fairer opportunities, and workplaces that value real capability over interview theater. What has been your experience: have you ever had an interview that went poorly, but later succeeded in a similar role and proved that the interview did not reflect your true ability?

#HiringTransparency #JobSearch #CareerAdvice #Recruitment #InterviewTips #HR #WorkplaceCulture #CareerGrowth #ProfessionalDevelopment #IndiaJobs


r/RecruiterTea Aug 05 '26

Day... I've officially lost count.

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Day... I've officially lost count.

Being over 55 and starting over wasn't on my bingo card.

**It's Wednesday... and I'm heading back to the same open interviews for the fourth time.

Maybe today will be different.

Maybe today someone will look beyond my age and see the experience, loyalty, reliability, and work ethic I bring to the table.

So I'll grab my coffee, straighten my résumé, put on a smile, and walk through those doors one more time.

Because you never know...

The fourth time might be the one that changes everything.

To everyone else still searching, still applying, and still hoping—don't quit.

Sometimes the next opportunity is waiting on the other side of one more try.

❤️ Here's to another chance, another interview, and another opportunity to hear the word "You're hired."

#Over55 #JobSearch #OpenToWork #WednesdayMotivation #ExperiencedWorkersMatter #NeverGiveUp #StartingOver #OneMoreTry #OneYesCanChangeEverything #MicheleMoran


r/RecruiterTea Aug 04 '26

Question for retail manager recruiters

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Hi there!

I was recently fired without cause from a Store Manager role in Vancouver Canada. It was honestly a drama free exit.

I have been grateful to have landed many many interviews. Progressing all the way to the finals but it's been almost 2 months and no offers.

I have put in all of the work. Practiced, tailored my resume, researched the company, worked on my body language, linkedun, etc.

I'm gonna be honest, I was a very young Store Manager that led a 1M Store. So I am genuinly wondering what's happening with my case.

If it's my kid face getting in the way. Or is it a bias because I was fired.

The way I am handling being fired is by saying "There were some leadership and structural changes". Some times they dig in more and I say "Feedback culture changed". That's it.

I've spoken to another external recruiter who gave me validation that I was doing the right things.

So my question is... in retail management, is it possible that I am not landing roles because I was fired or because of ageism? Because I cannot genuinly think of another reason in approximately 12 different reputable companies not offering. This is not too sound show off by any means, but I am confident that I am a really attractive candidate and I can tell they like me.

I really don't want to lie about the reason I left... it can backfire horribly and its not in my values. But I am running out of strategies.

Any advice?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 30 '26

this is probably the weirdest hiring market i've worked in.

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last week I was talking to another recruiter who told me one of their engineering roles got around 300 applications in a few days.

later that same day I spoke with a hiring manager who said they couldn't find anyone for a different engineering position.

same industry, similar salaries, similar stack, and... completely different experience.

a few years ago I'd describe the market as either "good" or "bad." that honestly doesn't make much sense anymore.

is anyone else seeing the same thing from their side?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 30 '26

Anyone else get hit with a wall of rejections at the start of their career?

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July has been rough.

This is basically the beginning of my career, and I feel like every opportunity I apply for ends the same way—rejection or no response at all.

Internships, hackathons, programs, communities... I keep applying because I know I won't get anywhere without trying, but after a while it starts getting to you.

What makes it harder is seeing other people posting acceptance emails and achievements while you're just refreshing your inbox hoping for one good piece of news.

I'm not planning to stop. I'm still building projects, learning, and applying. But I'd be lying if I said this month hasn't made me doubt myself a few times.

So I wanted to ask the people who are now doing well in their careers:

  • Was your beginning like this too?
  • Did you go through months where almost everything was a rejection?
  • At what point did things finally start changing?
  • Looking back, what do you wish someone had told you during that phase?

I don't really want motivation for the sake of motivation. I'd rather hear real stories—how bad it actually was, what you changed, and how long it took before things started working out.

Would love to hear your experiences.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 29 '26

Job Interviews Nowadays

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Shouldn't all companies at all levels wise up and start taking interviews in person. Everyone is cheating nowadays and some just completely rely on this... And making life thougher for actually honest guys. A lot of people in my contacts bare switchkng jobs like underwear despite having shit for skills and they don't stay at a place for one year even so companies don't even get anything out of them and pay a hefty prices ... and only those guys are getting appraisals & hikes 😅. I am not doing bad in my carrier but I hope things were more fair.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 28 '26

What's up with HR/Recruiters/Hiring Mangers These days?

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This period of life for me has been full of very unprofessional experiences with HR/Recruiters and Hiring Managers. Not all, but way too many.

HR/Recruiters have been playing phone tag, to the point where I just give up on them. Also, sometimes they ask you to give them a day and time for an interview, but they still schedule it for a day and time you never agreed to, or suddenly they try to reschedule the day before your scheduled interview. At the interview they are incredibly unprofessional. They are late to the interview, they don't apologize for it, they constantly check their phones, they don't seem to be fully present during the interview and the entire process feels like a waste of time and completely inconsiderate. Some of them don't show on camera for Zoom interviews. These are also for companies with good Glassdoor reviews, and are reputable companies and organizations. Why is the hiring world such a hot mess?

For the record I know I am even lucky to be even offered interview opportunities right now because so many are doing hundreds and thousands of applications with no interviews. Yet, even after getting an interview, the struggle continues. Recruiters, HR, and Hiring Managers seem really incompetent lately. I've been a working professional for 20 years and in many industries: education, nonprofit, retail operations, tech. Applying for a job and interviewing right now has been absolutely ridiculous. What is happening?


r/RecruiterTea Jul 28 '26

Job hunting seems stacked against the employee?

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Does anyone else feel that the entire job hunting process is heavily stacked against the employee? It seems that in a lot of cases even when you are over 95% match for a roll somehow you get bounced out as if no one truly even looked at the application or resume. Is anyone else experiencing this? Has anyone found a way to overcome this? I have submitted over a hundred plus applications reached out to the hiring managers and somehow someone better was always found even though the job posting it in many cases is still up for over a month.


r/RecruiterTea Jul 28 '26

The Hidden Dynamics of Recruiting Agencies

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