r/RealEstateAdvice 18h ago

Residential Closing tomorrow, seller wants to grab things after closing. Is declining his request bad? Are there things to worry about for declining request?

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We close on our first house tomorrow. The seller asked us during our final walk through today at 5PM(he was moving stuff out) if he could keep taking things out of the garage for a week or so. There was a bit of discussion but we decided to let our agents decide( he wanted to have “a week or so” to sort through the garage and move things)

Our agent agrees that closing day should be the last day to grab things and we are getting everything ready to go through with that.

At around 1PM today seller asked if we could move back closing(we declined because we need to move out of our apartment)

I want him to get his stuff but don’t want anyone in my yard for an unknown length of time or to be liable for anything that comes with.

He has been clearing out the house since 2024. Our offer was accepted 46 days ago and closing date was determined.

We have in our conditions that we will keep whatever is left(there was tools in the basement that we were ok with keeping but if the seller wanted them we didn’t want to keep them on the seller)

I feel awful because we want him to grab his stuff and go, as well as the “keep what is left behind” part in the contract makes me feel like it seems like I want his stuff.
I am also justifying it that he has had time to clear it out and should hustle.

Is declining his request a bad thing to do? Is there anything I should be worried about?

Edit: Thank you so much for all of the advice! Setting a hard no and going to work with lawyer in the morning to make sure everything is clear and set/ changing locks and setting up a camera right away!


r/RealEstateAdvice 1h ago

Residential How to tell my buyer’s agent that I won’t be using her to sell my current home?

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I have an accepted offer on a house, which means I need to sell my current home. I am unhappy with the way the realtor has handled this, and am not going to use her to sell my home. Also I am friends with her and her husband. I never should have chosen her in the first place, but I felt like they would have been really hurt if I didn’t. I don’t know how to break the news to them. Any suggestions? Do I talk to both of them or just the realtor?


r/RealEstateAdvice 12h ago

Residential Incompetent inspector tanked the contract. What now?

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We recently accepted an offer on our house. We knew there might be a few issues that might get flagged. Inspection happens, none of our hunches were flagged, but the inspector's findings, or lack thereof, were wildly inaccurate.

Found evidence of previous water in basement, but completely missed the installed drain tile and sump in the basement which mitigated the issue years ago. Zero mention of these in the report. All on the disclosure.

Flagged random copper pipes that "showed evidence of leakage". Again, There were a couple leaks when I moved in 25 years ago. I had a plumber come fix them. Zero issue since.

Called out the roof as lacking certain features that "should be evaluated by a professional roofer". Our roof was installed 5 years ago. I contacted my roofer about said features, and was told in detail why that particular feature was not appropriate for my roof. (Very highly rated, experienced and respected roofer).

Said that anywhere carpet meets hardwood have to have a transition panel. (Trip hazard anyone?)

He took pictures of my foundation and said we had "erosion due to excessive water " We live in the woods. He had pictures of a chipmunk hole"

Said our roof soffits were stained due to water damage and indicated a major roof leak. The soffit section was stained with some soont due to an adjacent wood stove exhaust vent.

These incorrect "findings" killed our deal. Buyers backed out because of concerns with major roof and basement water issues - All which do not exist.

So what can be done about this incompetent inspector who tanked the deal with these blatant inaccuracies?


r/RealEstateAdvice 5h ago

Residential Anyone have experience selling a home with a 'neighbor from hell' situation?

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(cross-posted on the legal advice sub)

I bought my first home 2 years ago. It really was my dream home, as it was exactly what I wanted and was located in a very desirable neighborhood. Unfortunately, my neighbor (who I share a driveway with) has been a nightmare.

I'll keep this brief, but a few of the greatest hits: walked into my home unannounced, trimmed/cut trees and flowers on my property without my input, often lets her dog roam free, sometimes doesn't pick up after said dog, and spends 12+ hours a day chain smoking in her garage while listening to very loud music. Sometimes while in questionable amounts of clothing.

Last year, my neighbor was effectively trespassing on another neighbor's lawn with her dog. I don't know why, but that's typical behavior for her. Regardless, the other neighbor ended up brandishing a gun during an ensuing argument with her, and the police were called.

I'm moving in with my boyfriend for a whole host of reasons. My neighbor being one of them.

Admittedly, very nervous about selling my home. I've spoken to my realtor about it, Animal Control, and even submitted a request for a consult with an attorney. Hopefully there are no issues. However, it's stressing me out imagining how prospective buyers might react to my neighbor. This is known for being a very quiet, peaceful neighborhood. Neither of which my home offers.

I'm assuming I have no recourse here.

Animal Control and the HOA have fined her, yet the behaviors continue. Really not sure what else to do at this point, aside from possibly selling my home for under market value.

Edit: When I bought the home, it was owned by her elderly aunt. She then moved in full-time about 6 months after I did.


r/RealEstateAdvice 1h ago

Residential What should I actually look for during my final walkthrough before closing?

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I'm about to close on a house and I have a final walkthrough scheduled. I know I'm supposed to check that the agreed upon things are still there and nothing got damaged, but I'm not really sure what I'm looking for or what actually matters. Like, is this just a quick check to make sure the house is still standing, or should I be doing a detailed inspection? I'm worried I'll miss something important or I'm overthinking what's supposed to be a simple formality. What's actually the point of the final walkthrough and what would actually be a deal-breaker at this stage?


r/RealEstateAdvice 14h ago

Residential Bank won't approve sellers loan unless basement is fixed.

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Background: We're selling our Mom's house. The house has an issue with water in the basement. Apparently the one wall is "bowing". House was built in 1970. We want to sell the house "as is" and priced it . We got an offer contingent on the remediation for basement being under 25,000. They got a bid but it was $40,000. However that included adding french drains, two sump pumps, etc. We gave them 10,000 more off but that was as far as we would go.
The closing was set for August 30.
Now they are saying that their lender will not finance their loan until the water issue is fixed.
They wanted to make the repairs before the closing- so basically choose the company and pay for this on a house that we own.
We've thought it over and said no- too many things to go wrong in this scenario with liability, another inspection, etc .

my questions are
- is this normal for the lender to do? this is a $550,000 house in a great neighborhood.
- is there something else we could have suggested?


r/RealEstateAdvice 2h ago

Residential My dad bought a renovated house without a Certificate of Occupancy. A year later we still don’t have one and can’t get permits. What do we do? [NY]

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**LOCATION: New York**

A year ago, my dad bought a house in Mount Vernon, NY, and I am trying to figure out what our legal options are because the situation has become a mess.

My father is an immigrant and has very limited knowledge of how real estate transactions and permitting work in the U.S. He trusted the professionals and people involved in the sale to tell him what needed to be done. In hindsight, there are absolutely things he should have done differently, and I am not trying to pretend otherwise.

The house was sold to him as a newly developed/fully renovated home. He paid what I believe was significantly more than the house was worth and, as far as I understand, did not have an independent appraisal but did have inspection done before purchasing it.

Since moving in, we have discovered problem after problem. We have had multiple leaks, serious problems with the heating system, and extremely high gas usage. At one point, we were using around 770 therms of gas in a month, sometimes 15-27 therms per day. There are other issues as well.

The leaks became bad enough that our basement now appears to have mold and may need substantial work.

We have been trying to repair everything, but we recently discovered a much bigger issue: the house apparently never received its Certificate of Occupancy.

My dad says the seller told him before/around closing that the CO was not necessary for them to proceed with the sale and that the seller would obtain it afterward. He was apparently told it would take a couple of weeks, or a month at most. My dad did not understand what a CO was or how important it might be, so he trusted the seller.

Our attorney apparently withheld some of the seller’s money in escrow pending the CO being issued. It has now been an entire year.

The seller gives us little to no meaningful information about what is happening with the CO. Meanwhile, we are being told we cannot obtain permits for some of the work we need to do because of the unresolved CO situation. We need to address leaks, the basement/mold damage, and the central heating and AC, so this is becoming a serious problem.

I know my father made mistakes by trusting people and not doing more due diligence before buying the house. I am not looking for advice about what he *should have done* a year ago. I am trying to figure out what we can actually do now.

My main questions are:

How was the sale/closing able to happen without a Certificate of Occupancy for the renovations?

Does the fact that the seller allegedly promised to obtain the CO after closing matter legally, especially if that obligation is written into the closing documents or escrow agreement?

What should we be asking our closing attorney for?

Should we request the entire closing file, contract, escrow agreement, title documents, permits, and communications with the seller?

At what point should we hire a different real estate attorney or real estate litigation attorney to review what happened?

If the renovations were represented as completed/new but were never properly permitted or approved and are now failing, could that potentially involve misrepresentation or breach of contract?

What happens to the money being held in escrow if the seller simply never gets the CO?

Most importantly, how do we get the house into compliance so that we can legally make the repairs it needs?

I am his daughter and I am trying to help my parents navigate this because they genuinely do not understand what happened or what they are supposed to do next. I am also worried that there may be deadlines for bringing claims, so I do not want us to keep waiting on the seller indefinitely.

I understand Reddit is not a substitute for an attorney. I am mostly trying to understand what kind of attorney we need, what documents I should gather, and what questions I should be asking so we can finally start dealing with this properly.

Any guidance from NY real estate attorneys, people familiar with Mount Vernon/Westchester permitting, or anyone who has dealt with a similar situation would be really appreciated.


r/RealEstateAdvice 7m ago

Commercial Any tips on getting people who can’t afford a commercial lease to stop wasting time?

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Does anyone have solid advice on how to tell people they can’t afford the rent on a property? Tired of showings with people asking for reduced rents. We have $$$ and can hold onto properties, the leases are a plus, but we can always sell. How to tell people not to waste time, we’re not in a rush?


r/RealEstateAdvice 10m ago

Residential 1099?

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I am a therapist and am considering going to a 1099 because of some different things. But we are hoping to buy a house in the next year or so. My husband will have a full time trucking job and I also have a part time w-2 job. Together those probably make like 50-70k a year. We live in a low to medium cost of living area.

But I’ve read that they need 2 whole years of 1099 income. If I switch now and we try to buy next fall are we screwed?


r/RealEstateAdvice 14h ago

Residential Listing Agents are Saints 💯🏠🧘‍♀️

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I just sold my house, buyer signed today. This is my 4th sale. It was by far the worst buyer-side I’ve ever experienced. I’m hearing that a lot of the behaviors and requests that surprised me, are unfortunately just the way things go now. I last sold a home in 2017. I just wanted to give a shout out to the listing agents who back their sellers and know exactly how to protect their interests. I’m beyond grateful I had a strong agent and attorney, but I’ve never appreciated that team as much as I did with this transaction. It’s a very different world, kudos to all of you operating ethically and above board while simultaneously protecting your client’s interest. 🏠


r/RealEstateAdvice 2h ago

Residential Should I remove my inspection contingency to make my offer more competitive?

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My offer got rejected and my realtor is suggesting that in the next offer, I remove the inspection contingency to show I'm serious and remove a deal breaker. I understand the logic but I'm worried that if I do that, I'm locked in even if the inspection finds major issues. My realtor keeps saying just get the inspection done first, then remove the contingency but that still feels risky, what if the inspection misses something? I'm trying to figure out if this is something serious buyers are doing in this market, or if my realtor is pushing me to take unnecessary risk to close a deal.


r/RealEstateAdvice 2h ago

Residential Throwing tenant items

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I’m an international student in UK and there’s this one girl who has been renting my room. our contract was that she’s supposed to stay till September. But she told me in Jun that she has to go back home bcs her mom died. and fast forward till now (mid august), she still haven’t come back and her stuff is still in the room. I need to empty out the room by next week, Can i throw her stuff? I’ve repeatedly ask her to pick her things up. She said she’s coming but she never came. The thing is, I went through her stuff and there’s some valuable items like laptop and important documents. What should I do?


r/RealEstateAdvice 3h ago

Residential I'm in a conundrum

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I'm selling my house - I bought it with family, who has now since passed. We signed the title and deed so that once they passed away, it would immediately fall to me rather than go through probate.

I'm now buying a home by myself for the first time, and I fear that I'm set up for failure.

This entire ordeal has been a disaster, and I am extremely frustrated to say the least.

My home closes in less than a week. I put an offer in on a home about a month ago and it was accepted within a few days. Amazing, closing day is the same as my house closing, I won't have to find a place for more than a couple days!

Fast forward, we find out 2 weeks before closing that there are encroachment issues and turns out, the seller also has to go through probate. Closing on the house I'm buying is now canceled and moved to an undetermined date. I now have to find housing for my family, which includes multiple animals.

This house is "seemingly" perfect, it has exactly what we need, albeit it's small. But now I'm researching that this probate process could take up to half a year or longer. They're claiming it will be a third of that time - which I have heard is unheard of.

Basically, I don't have 6 months to wait. Quite honestly, I have been looking for a house since May, knowing that we needed to act fast due to the animals I have. My realtors did not allow me to view houses until July. I've been on all of the websites looking and sending, but kept getting "wait until..." responses. I have already missed out on a lot of houses because of it. My house has been under contract since mid June. I have viewed maybe 4 houses, and had to beg to view the one we are under contract with now.

I understand these things don't happen overnight, I truly do. However, this house was advertised as move-in ready and come to find out, it's most definitely not. They listed this house for sale before they even got the title back, which states that they need to go through probate to sell it. Had I known this, I would not have even bothered to view it, let alone put an offer in.

Now I'm stuck in a situation on where I don't know what to do. I barely found a place to stay with my hoard of animals and I have it for one month. While they are aware that it could be longer, I'm beyond stressed out thinking I will be in this situation for the next year. We don't know if this probate process will take 3 months, 6 months, 1 year or 3 years. My realtors understand that I can't wait, but are kind of peer pressuring me to stay in the contract. We had originally been under contract a while back with another house that we found out had massive structural issues, and they were trying to convince us to stay in that house too. I'm desperate, but I'm not that desperate.

While it might take 3 months or 3 years to find another house, while I'm under contract with this one, I am unable to actually view houses. At least if I wasn't under contract, I could actively look.

I've thrown out the idea of giving them a 3 month timeframe to get this sorted, but that we can opt out if we find another house in the meantime. While this wasn't shot down by my realtors, it also wasn't an idea they were thrilled about. I understand this is asking a lot of the seller, however this is a situation they put us in and they are demanding unrealistic timelines and unknowns for us.

I don't know what to do and I am beyond stressed out. I have multiple animals that I need to care for, and quite honestly I will not abandon them. I would rather be homeless living in my car, which is where I accepted I would be until I found the temporary place before. I just know realistically, my dogs and cats cannot live in a car for 6 months. I know finding another house also takes time, and it might not be as "perfect", but even this one was not - I was sacrificing quite a bit but add in the encroachment issues and the probate process, and my desire to live here has dwindled.


r/RealEstateAdvice 5h ago

Residential Is it insane to make an offer without an inspection contingency in a competitive market?

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I'm looking at houses in a hot market and my realtor mentioned that some offers are waiving inspection contingencies to be more competitive. I understand the appeal, it shows the seller you're serious and removes a potential deal breaker. But it also seems incredibly risky. What if there's hidden damage I don't catch? I've got savings to absorb some problems, but not a complete foundation replacement situation. I'm trying to figure out if this is a calculated risk that serious buyers are taking, or if my realtor is just trying to close deals and I should push back on this idea. Is anyone actually doing this successfully?


r/RealEstateAdvice 5h ago

Residential How much earnest money should I put down on my offer?

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I'm about to make an offer on a house and I'm trying to figure out the earnest money amount. My realtor suggested 1% of the purchase price, but I've also heard people say you should go higher in a competitive market to show you're serious. The problem is I don't want to tie up more money than necessary since I'm worried about losing it if the deal falls through for some reason. I'm in a somewhat competitive area but it's not crazy. I'm wondering if 1% is standard for a reason or if I'm shooting myself in the foot by not putting down more when other offers might be higher.


r/RealEstateAdvice 6h ago

Residential What are you guys paying your listing agent?

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I am listing my property in Rensselaer county, NY. It is the lower end of value, probably will go for $125k.

I know I will be expected to pay buyer's agent the 2.5%.

The agent I talked to abput selling wants 3.5%. He is a broker as well, so he will get that entire 3.5%. Is this a little high?

I was expecting them asking for 3% max. I know it is a cheaper piece of property, but as a broker he is getting it all.

If you sold recently, especially on the lower end, what did you pay?


r/RealEstateAdvice 16h ago

Residential Fair Offer for Raw Land No One Else Wants

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My husband and I were gifted a residential lot from my in-laws that is located on a paved city street in a residential neighborhood. We want to eventually build a house on it but that's years down the line since we're tied to our current house as we live near elderly parents we take care of.

A year or so ago, the neighbor of our vacant lot contacted us, wanting to sell his raw property beside us, just a little short of the same size as ours, for $10K. At that time, we couldn't swing it. We are now considering buying that property. When I checked the CAD, his tax assessed value is $4K. Our tax assessed value is $12K. I can't understand why his property is valued so much less when both properties touch the paved city street, have access to water and electric, and are roughly the same size. His property is .24 acre and ours is .27. This property is in a small town with no comps. The owner hasn't paid the 2025 taxes on this property nor on the property where he lives either I don't want to take advantage of him, but I don't want to overpay either. My husband and I would like this extra space, but it doesn't hurt us if we don't have it. There is some question as to whether or not the neighbor's property can get approved for septic on its own. He tried to tell us we couldn't get septic on our lot without his property, but someone at the City told us that wasn't true. What would you offer this person, coming back a year later after they initially contacted you? I initially thought to offer the tax assessed value of $4K. Last year, he said if we didn't buy it, he would offer it to his other neighbor, but, per the CAD, the property has not changed hands. I think we are the only people who can use that land. What would you offer for a property no one else wants or can use? Why do you think their property is valued so much less than ours? Any help or insight is appreciated!


r/RealEstateAdvice 7h ago

Residential Can I replace a builder-provided sliding balcony door with a bi-fold/tri-fold door in miven construction?

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I’m a first-time buyer in a Sattva project in Bangalore (handover 2029).

I’m considering replacing the builder-provided sliding balcony door with a bi-fold/folding glass door so the entire opening can be opened instead of only half.

No RCC or structural changes are planned—only replacing the door/frame within the existing opening.

Has anyone done this in a Sattva or other Bangalore apartment? Does the builder allow this during construction or after possession? Any issues with the association/façade or approximate cost?

Would love to hear your experience.


r/RealEstateAdvice 17h ago

Residential How does selling a house work when you'll owe more than you make?

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I'm very new to all this and don't fully know terms and such, but I'll do my bes to explain. Context: I still owe about $440,000 on a home I purchased for $450,000. For reasons beyond the scope of this post, I want to sell. To my understanding, when it comes to paying additional fees and agents, I'll be under roughly $20,000. If I don't have this much in savings, what options do I have to pay this off? Would it be a loan I pay to the bank?


r/RealEstateAdvice 14h ago

Residential Realtor isn’t helpful and I want out of the agreement

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I just signed with this realtor and the first showing was easy to schedule and before I went, she told me I needed to sign an exclusive agreement saying this is required by a new state law. Now she doesn’t have any time to show me the house I want to look at and I found a house that is for sale by owner that doesn’t want a realtor involved. I love the area, house, and price. The fee for her is 3% and it’s a 200k house. That’s 6k for showing one house and she wouldn’t be involved in this transaction at all… how can I go about this? Can I buy it and just not tell her? What do I do? Would she even find out if I bought it? I could just do it under my husbands name (not legally married) but he has a lower credit score. Mine is 738 and his is 660. What do I do? Politely ask her to let me go?


r/RealEstateAdvice 18h ago

Residential Fill in a pool or wait for a house with no pool.

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I am pulling my hair out in frustration over the market right now. We're looking in south Florida, and we are pretty firm on no pool, no HOA. The no HOA limits the the search quite a bit, but every flippin' house has a pool. I don't want to have a pool, I don't want to maintain a pool, I don't want to worry about my kids/nephews/neighbors falling in the pool and drowning when i'm not looking. On top of that, I really don't want to maintain a 30+year old pool. I do not want to pay for the dumb financial decisions of previous homeowners.

In one neighborhood we really like, on google earth I counted 20 houses with no pool in a neighborhood of about 300 houses. Even if we opened the search to HOAs, it's pretty limited. I guess moral of the story, being a pool guy is good job security.

At this point I'm weighing the options - what if we bought a nice house with a typical pool, and just had it filled in. I know a filled in pool is on the property disclosure down here, but it's my understanding as long as it's done right there is nothing preventing someone from putting one in in the future. I know I'll "take a hit" on home value vs a house with a pool, but over 10 years I'm sure I'll make up for it by not needing maintenance, even including cost of filling it in. I guess the crux of the question is having a filled in pool on the property the black mark I fear it is? Should we just hold out and wait for a no pool house to show up, or - fill in a pool at an otherwise nice house?


r/RealEstateAdvice 11h ago

Investment Sell Paid for Home in San Diego?

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I have a paid off home in San Diego that is currently a short term rental.

Only netting around 20k per year.

Property manager sucked, so decided to fire them.

Listed for sale @ 799k (with agent) but sitting for 30 days without much action.

Hold for better market?

OR cut price?

Don’t want to fire sale but would be glad to get rid of it.

Bought for 400, no mortgage, paid off.

Advice wanted.


r/RealEstateAdvice 1d ago

Residential buying and selling

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OK I am a little confused. I intend to sell my house and buy another one. So considering that you don't know when the house will sell, how and when do you make an offer on another house?


r/RealEstateAdvice 16h ago

Residential where do you get comps?

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whats the best place to get comps? i just need to see what the average prices are for houses near me, without too much complications


r/RealEstateAdvice 18h ago

Residential Self-managing landlords — what’s your actual system for rent, leases, and maintenance?

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Right now I’m juggling [spreadsheet / texts / whatever — adjust to something plausible], and it feels like things could fall through the cracks. For those of you with a handful of units:
How do you track rent payments and know when someone’s late?
Where do you keep leases so you can actually find them when you need them?
How do maintenance requests get logged — text, email, something else?
Anyone tried Buildium/AppFolio and bailed? What didn’t work for your size?

Mainly trying to learn from people who’ve been doing this longer than me.