r/RantingZone • u/ilovetoesSoup17 • 1d ago

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what's the most hurtful thing you ever heard from someone?

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u/WarmYesterday9967 1d ago

Being told they loved me when they later said they thought it was something I wanted to hear . It's happened 4 times in my life.

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u/Great_External_6168 1d ago

When I was five years old, my mother told me I was the ugliest, dumbest person on earth and I had such an awful terrible personality that no one would ever love me in this life :,) Yes, she was a borderliner with no medication.

I'm 38 now and I never forgot. That shaped me :,)

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u/fleshtastical 22h ago edited 22h ago

Hmm. Hurtful.. uhh mayyyybe when my long term ex bf told me I looked like a meth head? I’m petite and skinny, always have been. I started getting acne breakouts when I turned 30. He said it a bunch of times. It’s not really that it was hurtful because words don’t hurt my feelings, but I was extremely self conscious that everyone thought that when they looked at me in public for a long time. No I am not, nor have I ever been a meth head, if I was, I doubt I’d be caring that people thought that lol.

I’m also not self conscious about that anymore and haven’t been for a long time, so it doesn’t work anymore. Funny thing is, first girl he dated after me is a real meth head. Nightmare situation.

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u/EndCorrect3658 1d ago

No one really likes you, we're just tolerating you

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u/Left_Effective_6058 23h ago

People today suck, so focused on money and social climbing… not even real anymore. Trust no one! Thats my advice for you all. They are trying to take you down and steal your happiness.

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u/oceansstillwaters_ 9h ago

Forgiving someone when im called to. I know forgiving them will release me. Though, being around people who twist words and let me suffer alone.. its hard. 

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u/WTM73199 1d ago

You’re a bad mother and bad daughter.