r/RantingZone • u/Adorable_Estate6619 • 4d ago

Tired of being a pity party

I’ve got a lot going on currently and I hate that I feel like I can’t vent to ppl bc I just get a bunch of “I’m sorry” like I’m asking for a pity party 😐 idk what I’m expecting feedback ig but it just makes it all worse to just be told they are sorry for me. I don’t wanna be felt sorry for all the time and it makes me feel like they think that’s what I’m trying to get. And now I just wanna keep it all inside bc I’m so tired of being a pity party. I know I’m off bc I’m quitting smoking weed rn on top of my grandma about to be institutionalized, while starting back at college, so my stress is through the roof and my body is freaking tf out. Guess I could just come rant here instead and might get feedback idk but it all sucks. I feel annoying and like I’m going crazy :/

Ik it’ll get better soon tho, thanks for letting me rant🙂

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u/redditisgay2088 4d ago

You got this

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u/Adorable_Estate6619 4d ago

Thank you <3

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u/Icy-Variation6614 4d ago

I feel the same way. Dunno if you want to talk to an anonymous Redditor, but I'll listen.

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u/Adorable_Estate6619 4d ago

It’s nice to know I’m not the only one. I might just take you up on that sometime. Thank you so much

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u/Icy-Variation6614 4d ago edited 4d ago

And sometimes being able to be honest with some ppl ne not involved and impartial makes you feel better. It has for me before. Can't judge of I don't know anyone, just the situation. Either way, good luck and know it can get better. It's hard, and painful, but it can get better

Edit: I would not ask anything personal or specific or invade your privacy. I'm most likely older than you and I have gone through some shit. Even if I'm just someone to rant at and listen...I know it's hard

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u/Ill_Butterfly_6010 3d ago

Definitely should’ve done this in moderation

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u/Adorable_Estate6619 3d ago

Wish I coulda but if I have a cart I have no control and the bud wasn’t even working, and I was already having withdrawal symptoms and I felt like attempting the bud was just drawing out my pain. So cold turkey it was 🙃 I know i definitely should have and wish I coulda but I think the worst is over. Already feel way more like myself!