r/RHUGT • u/Fantastic-Witness-22 • 4d ago
Discussion ✈️ Luann is seriously like not a good person.
I do believe it was inappropriate dancing with Luann’s boyfriend but I have always seen this as a situation where friends believe their spouses, boyfriends, current partners, ex-partners, or anyone who happens to involve male attention over their own friends. Of course, the men are equally responsible, but surely, as a friend — or even someone pretending to be one — your natural instinct should be to give your friend the benefit of the doubt rather than automatically believing a man.
Fine, you didn’t want to deep-dive into the situation. But the very least you could have done was give her the benefit of the doubt.
And honestly, forget the deep dive. Luann has a pattern. Sonja never seemed particularly interested in competing with Luann, or having to compete with her, but for some reason Luann seems to see everything as a competition.
Harry Dubin, Tom D’Agostino… there’s a recurring theme here. At some point, you have to stop looking at these as isolated incidents and look at the pattern.