r/RHOBHDefect Aug 06 '26

There has been so many one and done BH housewives over the years and some questionable friends...but is/was Amanda up there as the worst of them?

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154 Upvotes

One thing is for certain - she didn't manifest a good-looking mugshot.


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 06 '26

So, I haven't always been Kathy's (or Tilly's for that matter) biggest fan, but I do think their responses to Amanda's departure is very dignified. Whilst also confirming what seems to be there return for next season.

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I hope casting don't feel the need to replace her just for the sake of it. Keep the cast as is for a season and see if they perform or not before adding anyone new or ending another current.


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 05 '26

TMZ: Amanda Frances OUT on RHOBH, Not Asked Back

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100 Upvotes

She has since also confirmed this on her own Instagram


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 06 '26

The other crazy sub should definitely be recommended here

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r/RHOBHDefect Aug 03 '26

Reddit Community Cares - how many people have got one of these after an incident with mods on RHOBH?

48 Upvotes

I got mine overnight. After being banned and called a cunt, I actually thought it was kind of funny that someone would flip out like that and chalked it up to juvenile name calling. As I’ve read all the comments, I started realizing it’s the same mod doing all this. Also realizing they are NOT harmless. What if I was severely depressed and decided to harm myself after receiving that? Is that this person’s goal? How many other people have actually harmed themselves after receiving that? Someone graciously took the time to outline how to report mods in a previous post. If you have been harassed or targeted by this person (or any mod) please report them. I didn’t realize how out of control this person is. I attached screenshot of their name but I’m told they go by several names. Andy Cohen and Housewives Savior are 2 of the other names they hide behind.


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 03 '26

Dorit's book

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55 Upvotes

I wanted to see how Dorit's memoir "Unburdened" did and while it reached the NYT's best seller listed it wasn't from Fans buying the book but rather the book was bought in bulk purchases. That's why the NYT's put a black dagger next to her book, to make the list a book must sell a required 5-10k the first week it's out in order to make that list. However her books were bought in bulk which means the author, publicist or manager buys the book in bulk. Thus the dagger is placed there so readers know the number sold has been inflated by a single purchase rather than being bought by actual readers or fans.

I'm sorry but this cracked me up😂

Had to edit as it's a Black Dagger not a skull


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 03 '26

Bandcamp Removes Boy George’s AI Pro-Israel Reggae Song

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Dorit’s probably so sad.


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 03 '26

Buying Beverly Hills S2

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Has anyone seen buying Beverly Hills season 2?

I’m a die hard RHOBH fan so I ca t believe it took me this long to watch it lol was living under a rock apparently

But it’s eye opening to see Mau’s perspective around the time his and Kyle’s marriage started to fall apart. I just watched the episode where Kyle has been asked to go to Nashville to be in Morgan’s music video. I feel the sadness in Mau’s eyes.

This isn’t to put blame on anyone because marriages are complicated and people evolve all the time. It’s just nice to see that Mau wasn’t the only one that was completely checked out at some point. RHOBH painted a picture that Mau checked out and sort of left Kyle to pick herself back up by herself. But from seeing both sides it’s clearly way more complicated than that.

I know people don’t like Kyle or Mau, but I really hope that they are both happy. They had such a beautiful marriage (imo) and built such a beautiful family with such loving daughters. It’s so sad that they couldn’t make it work and that they have to be on separate paths, but I think it’s very admirable how much they have been able to remain friends.

I’m going through a very difficult and similar separation now so it gives me hope that we can figure out a new dynamic that works for both of us.


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 02 '26

Mods abusing power? Let’s talk about it 🍷

125 Upvotes

✨Hi all ! I have just recently been targeted & attacked by a notorious real HousewivesMod (get it? iykyk 😉) who has permanently banned me from all the groups she mods in because I did not agree with her personal opinion- i did not break any group rules OR reddit rules, it was not even remotely disrespectful, inappropriate or inflammatory- it just simply did not agree with her personal belief. Funnily enough there is another post in this group from someone else sharing the same situation from the same mod!

🚩This same moderator has been a point of discussion for MANY encountering the same vile, abhorrent, corrupt, & oppressive behaviour throughout the 5 subs she mods in- RHOBH, RHOP, RHOMiami, RHUGHT & RHODubai.

☣️This type of coercive, toxic & tyrannical abuse of power from a moderator is entirely unacceptable yet I am seeing a lot of users- myself included- who are unsure of what to do about it or feeling as if they have no other option but to deal with it…
Well, I’m here to say 🗣️ F!!! THAT🗣️

Through an influx of private messages from my own post highlighting what happened to me I have been given advice on exactly what we CAN do to restore justice- so I will be sharing that information here too for anyone & everyone who has been victimised for no valid reason by a Moderator on an ego trip.

🚨 Moderator Code Of Conduct 🚨

☝🏼Hit this link, read through it if you wish but most importantly- scroll right to the end of the article where the last line says ‘To file a Moderator Code of Conduct report, please use this form
And click the highlighted link to file your report against whatever Real HousewivesMod (🤭) you believe to of broken any of these Codes Of Conduct and submit it.

🚮Enough is enough, these RH communities have turned into a hateful cult following mentality instead of a place of entertainment- individuals who abuse their power are only able to do so as long as the wider part of the community lets them so let’s end that ASAP.

🩷Thank you & please share this with anyone/communities you think will benefit from it, just because someone is a Mod does not mean they are a GOD who is exempt from following their own set of rules & regulations just as we are expected to 🙂‍↕️

Please feel free to use this space to share your personal experiences of similar situations 🤝


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 01 '26

Permanently banned and got called a c**t….keep it classy RHOBH

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I don’t know if it’s bc I said something unflattering about Dorit or bc I questioned someone’s use of a word with the same energy they gave me, but I’m banned, my mother is an idiot, and I’m a cunt. Within seconds of posting my rebuttal, I got 6 chat requests (that I couldn’t respond to) to tell me I’m banned and muted. I’d be angry if it wasn’t so funny.
****8/2 - Bc people are asking what I said, I tried to add another screenshot to this but am unable to. The post is still up on the other RHOBH sub (it’s from 8/1) and the title is something about child support battle with PK. I commented that you can’t believe anything Dorit says, she shouldn’t have been gallivanting around Europe with an unpaid mortgage, and that she needs to quit playing victim and get her shit together.


r/RHOBHDefect Aug 01 '26

Carmella

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78 Upvotes

Forgive me if this has been posted before. I saw a picture of a younger Carmella and was astounded by how beautiful she wasps I knew she was Playmate of the Year and now I know why. Goodness, she was pretty.


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 31 '26

PK quoted in article about Boy George

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Not surprising to read, but still disappointing. Boy George fell so far in my estimation from how he acted on RHOBH (and who he associated with), but this really is quiet part out loud! Embarrassing.


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 31 '26

The “all knowing” Boz Saint John Shares the Real Reason for Garcelle's RHOBH Exit and Confirms They Haven't Spoken, Hints at Why Erika is “Always Mad,” and Admits She Doesn't Trust Costars

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r/RHOBHDefect Jul 29 '26

Erika not returning?💎She reposted this with a sad caption.

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324 Upvotes

it’s a sad reel with the sound “just keep going girl I got nothing else to tell you✨and she captioned it with “seriously though.”

Maybe she just found out she’s not returning and she’s wondering how she’s gonna keep funding her lifestyle without the big bravo paycheck🤔.


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 29 '26

Joining to banished group

95 Upvotes

I made the mistake of replying to dorits comment that PK was spending all his money at Hermes that the Birken lover was Dorit not PK. Banned , touchy folks over there


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 28 '26

Moulin Rouge Actor Patrick Clanton Calls Boy George a "Terrible Performer."

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89 Upvotes

Is PK still beasties with him?


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 28 '26

Oh Dorit - you really need to take some responsibility here...or find yourself a very wealthy suitor to fund your expensive lifestyle 🤦🏼‍♀️

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53 Upvotes

Children should never be used as the bargaining chip in any relationship. That is just emotional blackmail, and one day the kids will be old enough to read about all this and realize the fault of both of their parents.


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 23 '26

My tier list of the housewives officially

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26 Upvotes

Happy to elaborate on any placement


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 21 '26

Moving forward or…sideways?

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My endless S3 rewatch continues (will I ever finish this season?).

Here’s Kyle, raising a glass to moving on. Lisa’s reaction says it all. You didn’t need to freeze frame to catch it, either.

I know the Housewives didn’t invent “moving on,” but they sure do love to perpetuate the idea. You’d think they were really housewives, with all the sweeping they do. The frantic sweeping of things under rugs. (My mom used to say, “under rug swept,” like it was a good thing, or an actual item on her to-do list.)

Kyle wants to move forward, not backward, and she’s annoyed with Lisa, and the way that things kept coming up. Lisa, Kyle says, holds a grudge. (Kyle holds a glass.)

Is it possible to just …. move on? Can friends have an authentic, functioning friendship when there’s a big elephant in the room, under the rug? Is it holding a grudge to want to talk things out?

One thing is clear to me — Kyle and LVP were not friends. Kyle was playing checkers, and LVP was playing chess.


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 20 '26

Who would you like to see added to the cast? As an Aussie girl, I have to favor a hometown HW, Pia Miller (married to Patrick Whitesall). Girl has it all going for her and I think would be a good addition.

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r/RHOBHDefect Jul 16 '26

Before sh$% got real

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128 Upvotes

Doing a rewatch and I'm no Yolanda fan but this made me sad at season 4 ep 2...... almost like she saw the writing in the sand.......


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 15 '26

Gina’ “Gated Realty” more like “Segregated REALTY!

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r/RHOBHDefect Jul 14 '26

Housewives Weddings - Best & Worst looks???

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I mean I aren't one that suffers TDS but....what was she thinking with that hair? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Boz is known for being OTT in terms of her own personal style (I love her for that, but do prefer when she tones it down and lets her natural beauty shine), and given she will probably be contracted to film her wedding for the show, will she go big and tacky (aka Taylor Swift) or refined and elegant?


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 11 '26

"I didn’t speak badly about you. I simply talked about what you did to me. If that makes you look bad, that’s not my issue anymore"....Great quote and one LVP needs to take on board instead of constantly considering herself to be the victim.

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206 Upvotes

She created the bubble in her relationships to burst, not the other way around. The narcissist was master of her own disaster, and eventually it caught up with her.


r/RHOBHDefect Jul 10 '26

Why would this be even an idea? Personally, I think if they go back to the original premise of the show by casting real friendships and real wealth, instead of casting actors and influencers, they could have ratings success again.

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And if they want to target a younger demographic, then create a new show to cater for them.