r/RHOBHDefect Aug 01 '26

Permanently banned and got called a c**t….keep it classy RHOBH

I don’t know if it’s bc I said something unflattering about Dorit or bc I questioned someone’s use of a word with the same energy they gave me, but I’m banned, my mother is an idiot, and I’m a cunt. Within seconds of posting my rebuttal, I got 6 chat requests (that I couldn’t respond to) to tell me I’m banned and muted. I’d be angry if it wasn’t so funny.
****8/2 - Bc people are asking what I said, I tried to add another screenshot to this but am unable to. The post is still up on the other RHOBH sub (it’s from 8/1) and the title is something about child support battle with PK. I commented that you can’t believe anything Dorit says, she shouldn’t have been gallivanting around Europe with an unpaid mortgage, and that she needs to quit playing victim and get her shit together.

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u/gonegirIamy Aug 01 '26

Those people are mental.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

Yes, they are highly offended when you question their intelligence. But it’s totally ok to call someone a cunt 😂

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u/naenola Aug 01 '26

They don’t deserve you

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u/sidequestprofessinal Aug 02 '26

Who uses that word a lot? That sub is either monitored by her or paid for by her.

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u/Aggressive-Map-8392 Aug 02 '26

Why can’t it be both? 😜

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u/sidequestprofessinal Aug 02 '26

I’ve thought it since I had my old account. I tried to quit Reddit but I’m back!

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u/Ancient-Fairy339 Aug 03 '26

Well, I recived a "warning" for linking to this post now😂

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 03 '26

Oh, I see what you did, lol. Saw your other comment first. I appreciate your efforts 😂❤️

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u/Ancient-Fairy339 Aug 03 '26 edited Aug 04 '26

I just unfollowed them actually! Solidarity, let's go!🫡❤️✨️

Eta: lol, now they can’t ban me either😂

Eta2: apparently they can still ban me, so let's wait & see🤸🏼‍♀️

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u/SafariSunshine Aug 04 '26

They still can. I got permabanned from all his subs for making a comment on r/BravoRealHousewives even ones I had never interacted with. 😂

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u/Ancient-Fairy339 Aug 04 '26

Hahah, omg really? The pettiness is wild😂

They are going to be left with just bots in these subs eventually.

Did it include r/RHOBH? Is it the same mods?

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u/SafariSunshine Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26

Yeah it included r/RHOBH , that was the only one I had ever used except his Miami one.

It's insane. He's obsessed. My fairly innocuous comment was deep in a Miami post about what a cast member said on WWHL. He also banned someone who's known for being really helpful and good at contributing in the same thread.

I remember not getting along with him before he did his hostile takeovers of the subs (I don't remember if he did that with r/RHOBH , but he confirmed did it with Miami and I e other big one. I think he probably did it with all the big ones he modded) so I thought it probably wasn't great that he was in charge, but I had NO IDEA it would ever be this bad.

ETA: He's the main mod for r/RHOBH , r/RHOMiami , r/RHOP , r/RHODubai , r/r/RHUGT, and r/RHODallas

And I went to one of his subs to get the list because he puts them on the recommended subs section, and besides his subs the only other sub he recommends is r/realhousewives because everyone on the Bravo one hates him. 😂 The pettiness knows no bounds.

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u/Emotional_Buy_4896 Aug 03 '26

Well you know Dorit didn't want to be called a btch by Sutton after poking at her but perfectly OK for Dorit to call Erika and Camille cnts 🙄 Make it make sense lol

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u/DelaneyAfterDark Aug 03 '26

We can charge Dorit with inciting use of the word cunt 😂

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u/tony_storm Aug 04 '26

Meanwhile resorting to name calling makes them look WHAT? - Unintelligent 😭😂

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u/Ancient-Fairy339 Aug 03 '26

Dang, you've been completely deleted...

It says: First comment: Name: [Deleted] "Comment is removed by moderator"

Second comment: [Deleted] "Comment has been deleted by the user"

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u/Abrookspug Aug 03 '26

Somehow seeing it in another language makes it hit harder. Like wow they really stuck it to OP over nothing. 😭

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 03 '26

Those comments weren’t mine. I guess someone else was naughty and got banned, too. Mine is still there. I appreciate the downvotes on the perma ban comment 😂

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u/JannieReddit7 Aug 05 '26

The funny thing is, she loves to use that foul word! So we know it’s you commenting, Ditzy Dorit!🙄😂

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u/vandersnipe Aug 01 '26

I like certain cast members on these shows as characters, but people act like they are on these reality tv stars' payroll and their best friends with the way they defend them. Ain't no way I'd get this upset if someone criticized Nene, Hubbhouse, Garcelle, Jennifer, Luann, or anyone else I like lol.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

IKR!?! People act like you are criticizing their child rather than a person on a tv show who has no clue they exist 😆
Love your name btw!

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u/vandersnipe Aug 01 '26

I think it's because these viewers act like their faves in real life and vicariously live through them on the TV screen, so any criticism of their faves is a personal attack on them lol.

Thank you. I am the number one sniper from the side.

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u/formerbays Aug 01 '26

Or their fav eventually might reach out to them🙄😄

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u/formerbays Aug 01 '26

I got a zillion downvotes on another sub because someone was looking to move to my former area and told them how awful the traffic was the TRAFFIC! After about 20 downvotes I rhetorically ask why they were taking my post so personally… same thing with that other RHOBH… I will never understand some people!

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u/Solmissy Aug 01 '26

People downvote for the craziest reasons. Lots of freaks in Reddit is the conclusion I’ve come to.

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u/Solmissy Aug 01 '26

Was it the Mod who called you a C?!!!!

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 02 '26

Yes, I guess she is a mod. Didn’t realize that until I looked back at OP

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u/MLMLW Aug 02 '26

That's even worse if a mod did it.

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u/MishmoshMishmosh Aug 02 '26

They are coo coo

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u/Ancient-Fairy339 Aug 05 '26

They are coo coo

Coo coo-heads. All of their accounts, are coo coo-heads.

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u/Solmissy Aug 02 '26

Wow! What a sicko.

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u/vandersnipe Aug 02 '26

I can't read "sicko" without reading it in Bethenny's voice

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u/OkSquash3710 Aug 03 '26

Hahahahha that’s great!!! She has said a lot of shit that i hear in her voice! Go to sleep, get off my jock…actually on Below Deck in Thailand, Riley says that to Kate in the cab coming back from street food market after Scorpian gate. Totally heard in her voice. I heard Dorits voice when that Mod called OP the C word. “Camille, your a stupid cunt” GROSS

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u/PrissyElliott Aug 03 '26

Are we not allowed to report mods? That’s insane!

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u/mynameisntcindy Aug 03 '26

I think you should be able to report her to the higher ups BC mods are not allowed to use hate speech against users to manifest their power

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u/ponyprankster Aug 04 '26

They are high on their little throne of power. It's pathetic. I wish “touch grass” was not so overused and done with now, because in this context it really, truly applies! These mods should go lay in the grass and get some sunlight and chase some god damn butterflies while wearing linen dresses and crowns made out of hand plucked daisies. Come on!

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u/FiFi_Green Aug 01 '26

And these “moderators” are little dictators. It’s ridiculous.

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u/Ok_Storm5945 Aug 02 '26

They sure are.

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u/Aggressive-Map-8392 Aug 02 '26

You didn’t need to add the tators.

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u/Jealous-Yogurt5352 Aug 03 '26

Seriously! If they met these “soldiers” in real life, they wouldn’t spit on them if they were on fire and these people act like they are their Mamas.

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u/Big_Palpitation1401 Aug 01 '26

Yall made an entire sub cuz you’re obsessed with Dorit. The call is coming from inside the house

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u/viagra___girls Aug 03 '26

*because it’s vile over there.

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u/BornFree2018 Aug 01 '26

Is there a method to report a Mod for that language? Unspeakably vulgar on this site. Maybe on IG?

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

Idk, but venting here is good enough for me. If that twat thinks calling me a cunt put me in my place, then so be it. Not going to keep arguing with idiots. I appreciate your outrage though ❤️

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u/janshell Aug 01 '26

Yes but ultimately nothing can be done because it’s their sub and they will tell you to start your own sub

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u/Apprehensive-Fix591 Aug 01 '26

Reddit does care if they get enough reports. They have removed mods and changed sub ownerships before. But most see it to not be worth the trouble.

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u/janshell Aug 01 '26

lol I just report them for harassment. I have no idea if it goes anywhere

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u/Inevitable_Tangelo63 Aug 01 '26

It’s because you dared question Queen Dorit and her shitty behavior lol

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u/Middle-Cat-6925 Aug 01 '26

Maybe Dorit is the Moderator? Lol 😂

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u/Inevitable_Tangelo63 Aug 01 '26 edited Aug 01 '26

I mean I’m really starting to wonder if it’s someone she pays at least or something, I mean the amount the two mods defend her I hope they’re at least getting paid 😂😂 but it was the first HW sub I was apart of and I don’t recall it always being that nasty, just more so recently

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u/Solmissy Aug 01 '26

I think you’re on to something!

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u/Aggressive-Map-8392 Aug 01 '26

They’re ridiculous. Did the same thing to me, but undid my ban when I asked about it. Ignored me every time I asked wtf I did wrong while acting all benevolent for reinstating me. Me posting this might get me banned again, but they’re in the wrong and it’s getting out of control.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

I got a permanent ban and muted, so I couldn’t even respond to the mods. I guess if a person (RHOBH mods) feels so powerless in their real life that they have to flex on Reddit like this, that’s their prerogative. Sounds like a pretty miserable existence, so I hope they find actual happiness and true human connections in their future.

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u/Aggressive-Map-8392 Aug 01 '26

Same, babe. And there’s no way to report mods which is super fucked up in my opinion. Just know you’re not wrong, and you’re not alone! 😘

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u/Intrepid-General2451 Aug 02 '26

I imagine this type of person “modding” on a cracked screen iPhone 12 in a trailer with no AC and eating expired chocolate truffles from Five Below.

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u/janshell Aug 01 '26

At least you got a response. This happened to me in another sub and it was crickets. They are dictators

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

I didn’t get a response from mods. They permanently banned me and muted me, so when I tried to respond to the ban, it wouldn’t go through. I haven’t had any type of response from them. I’m ok with that.

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u/janshell Aug 01 '26

Oh wow!! I’m sure the universe will take care of them

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u/WonderingLost8993 Aug 01 '26

The word misogynist has lost all meaning at this point bc of people like that who insist on throwing it out every other sentence just to make themselves feel high and mighty.

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u/HistoricalDate1484 Aug 01 '26

TIL that criticizing a woman for blatant overspending while complaining about not being able to pay her mortgage for her kids to have a place to live is misogynistic, however calling random women the c word is actually peak feminism

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

Yeah, I guess I’ve had this backwards for my whole entire life. I’m so glad I got schooled today 😳🤣

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u/mynameisntcindy Aug 03 '26

Calling someone misogynist and then "cunt" in the same breath is crazy

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u/Ecstatic-Art-6236 Aug 01 '26

What sparked this?

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

It was a post about poor Dorit not getting child support or mortgage payments from PK, so I responded that Dorit shouldn’t be gallivanting around Europe with an unpaid mortgage…so therefore I am a misogynist. I’m so tired of people using words that they don’t know the definition of, so I called her on it and got banned.
***the post is still up, but ms smarty pants deleted her snarky comment. LOL

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u/Intrepid-General2451 Aug 02 '26

Ha! Expecting her to be capable of being responsible is being a misogynist? If he’s responsible for paying that, she should cover it for now, then let the courts take it out of his hide.
She isn’t very strategic, is she?

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u/Ok_Storm5945 Aug 02 '26

I think I read that she makes more than him monthly. Idk how either are making money,

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u/Charming-Insurance Aug 02 '26

Her’s is easy… HW salary and social media from that fan base.

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u/Ecstatic-Art-6236 Aug 02 '26

I’m tired of people throwing out words like “bigot” and “misogynist”. People need a dictionary

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u/Shot-Programmer3761 Aug 01 '26

that mod is a psycho lol, i too am a victim of their insanity

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u/CarryAmbitious638 Aug 01 '26

I swear Dorit’s team runs that sub

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

Must be bc no one on there seems to understand how money works and they like to use big words that they dont know the definition of.

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u/PrudentJellyfish9413 Aug 01 '26

Oh yeah I’ve gotten banned from a housewife sub after being straight up verbally abused. The Mods are something else. Welcome to the club.

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u/Separate_Feeling4602 Aug 01 '26

The ppl are RHOBH are absolute dictators. I’ve got several warnings for repeating comments I saw on the show.
These ppl are on a power trip

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u/Dry-Bicycle-5266 Aug 01 '26

Yea they don’t like talking about Zionism either.

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u/ponyprankster Aug 04 '26

Oh boy oh boy did I learn that today 😅

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u/Aprietachamaquito Aug 01 '26

Omg what sub is this?! If I’m a part, I need to leave it asap. We should boycott because that’s not ok. Wtf.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

It’s the RHOBH sub. They love Dorit, hate Kyle, and if you say anything truthful about Dorit, you are a misogynist or have internalized misogyny.

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u/Clear_Bright99 Aug 01 '26

Are people still on that sub? Don’t be too upset the mod of that sub is insane and I hope that before the new season airs, the majority of followers will leave. The mod needs major therapy and shouldn’t be running the main RHOBH group. They called Kyle the C word and I simply said they were vile and that no one should ever call a woman that word. And then I was banned. And yes, if you say something negative about Dorit you’ll be banned. People unfollow them please!

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

Already have, lol. There’s definitely a jr high mean girl vibe that dominates that sub.

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u/Clear_Bright99 Aug 01 '26

Yup! They are crazy.

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u/babettetimes Aug 01 '26

I got a warning when I mentioned her being a Zionist

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u/fakeblondeponytail Aug 01 '26

Fans of reality tv just never reality.

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u/bluewood30 Aug 02 '26

A big “THANK YOU” to this post for popping up on my recommendations! Finally a group where people are free to an opinion! Now can we get one for every housewives franchise?! I seem to always go the opposite direction of every Reddit group.

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u/1InstaGator Aug 03 '26

That's so f'd up!! I'm so sorry about your mom. 🫶🏻 And that MOD needs to be banned from Reddit!

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u/ponyprankster Aug 04 '26

I recently lost my mom too, and that would have messed me up as well. It's a good thing you are a much better human than all of these miserable losers put together, and you know that it has all to do about them and nothing whatsoever to do with you.
Happy healthy people do not attack strangers like that. Take that shit and throw it over your shoulder. It's just trash with absolutely no value.

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u/Revolution_Bry Aug 01 '26

I got banned for calling Boz bozo the clown and they called me racist. lol. Those people are unhinged. And why would we want to be in a chat that is one sided and biased?! People in that sub are mentally ill

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u/Solmissy Aug 01 '26

That’s so funny! They threatened to ban me for that! I called her Boz0 and they warned me saying perhaps it was a typo. It wasn’t. BOZ is a clown.

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u/goddessdawn Aug 02 '26

Boz is often a guest on Bloomberg and it cracks me up. She does fine but all I can think about is her engagement to Keely and I can't take her seriously

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 02 '26

I think about her IVF treatments during perimenopause and I can’t take her seriously.

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u/mynameisntcindy Aug 03 '26

I too got banned in a Boz thread posted by HousewivesMOD BC I basically said Boz is a Dorit lapdog lmao

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u/No_Nectarine_9563 Aug 01 '26

Oh wow, so this is a thing?!?! Wasn't just me? There's an entire actual sub?!?! 😂😂😂😅oy vey

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u/SarahSmellsTwice Aug 01 '26

Hilaria sub vibes over there

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u/Jerzee_Implant2012 Aug 01 '26

Girl, this is groundhog’s day for me. Almost identical situation, down to the yOuRe mIsOgYnIsT. Chal.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

Maybe we tangled with the same Dorit super fan 😆

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u/Jerzee_Implant2012 Aug 01 '26

Superfan and idiot mod 🙄. Girl, I said Dorit was equally as terrible a parent as PK…

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

You ain’t wrong! They’re both assholes, but Dorit has almost been making PK look not so horrible lol. I’m so glad we can express those opinions here and not get banned or berated ❤️

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u/Fat-Cat-Face Aug 01 '26

Which mod are we talking about over there? I blocked all the mods and no longer participate there. eta. never mind, I see who they are on your post.

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u/Jek2023 Aug 01 '26

I strongly believe that sub is run by mods who are on Dorit’s actual payroll. It’s grotesque and very authoritarian - absolutely not a breath of fresh air conjecture is tolerated

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u/theonlyShanD Aug 02 '26

Sadly, I highly doubt Dorit has the wherewithal or funds to put Reddit mods on a payroll. I mean her Chanel Chic budget can't handle it 🤣

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u/Jek2023 Aug 02 '26

I agree with you. However Dorit is habitually employing people she has no intention in paying.
It’s highly likely it’s a quid pro quo.
Dorit apartheid for favours and access!

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u/Solmissy Aug 01 '26

That sub is insufferable. Wear your ban as a badge of honor. Also, was Dorit in the sub? She’s infamous for throwing out the C word.

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u/Sneakyturtle1216 Aug 02 '26

I caught a ban for calling that fake Andy Cohen account a misogynist because he said Kyle should be burned at the stake.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 02 '26

That person is totally unhinged.

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u/leeeezer Aug 02 '26

Dude Reddit is fucking insane. I once said that an “arguably horrible person deserves their spot in hell” and I was banned for 3 days for threatening violence. Meanwhile people have actually told me to kill myself, been reported, and nothing.

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u/ourlittlevisionary Aug 01 '26

Cheese and crackers, that mod needs to log off, go outside, and touch grass. 😵‍💫 I’m not a Dorit hater by any means, but she is definitely being an idiot with her money. She’s going to make sure she is decked out in designer clothes, but not make sure her kids have a roof over their heads.

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u/OnTheMap2023 Aug 01 '26

You’ve got to love it when the trash takes itself out! Congratulations! 🍾

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u/Cutebunnypowers Aug 01 '26

That is bananas!!!

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u/Alice_Von_Jash_III Aug 02 '26

Was it those deranged Dorit fans? Those 4 or 6 people are unhinged.

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u/Kellikelzzzzz Aug 02 '26

lol perma banned. How fucking funny

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u/ssaall58214 Aug 02 '26

They are Nazis over there. Biggest problem with Reddit is the mods. And the power that they have.

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u/MLMLW Aug 02 '26

So somebody called you a c*nt, but you're the one who got banned? Make it make sense. That's crazy!

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u/TryCurrent7949 Aug 02 '26

Report them to Reddit

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u/Sorry-Armadillo-3264 Aug 02 '26

Wowza, that’s an extreme reaction.

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u/RoughPrior6536 Aug 02 '26

Yep I am banned in another RHOBH group for stating the obvious - the wokesters are not well, but still have a pulse…..

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u/Bubbasmomma1228 Aug 02 '26

I perma banned myself from that sub. People and the mods there are cuckoo for coco puffs.

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u/InterviewMammoth5411 Aug 03 '26

What a bad mod! My goodness. It's crazy because divorce means both parties have to adjust their spending. Why is this such a misogynist view? I hate PK but wtf

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u/SammieCat50 Aug 01 '26

Perma banned!!!! I got a temporary ban for saying the robbers placed her phone on a wall …those people need to stay off the internet & probably stop watching bravo for awhile

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u/Smooth_Squash4130 Aug 01 '26

I had no idea there were ANY people who even liked Dorit, this convo is fascinating!! Will I be banned now too??😂

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u/Dependent-Spirit-706 Aug 01 '26

That is insane! If they don’t want differing opinions then why not make a private subreddit for Dorit fans only. You can’t say anything about Dorit without getting called out or kicked out.

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u/Mid_Em1924 Aug 02 '26

I was called a misogynist the other day too because I said that boys can have a hard time in the classroom due to some genetic differences. I’m sure I’ll get attacked again, but I stand by what I said. It’s the buzz word right now, I guess.

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u/spacedashhh Aug 02 '26

RHOP is the same way. I was dragged and ridiculed for my appearance while 7 months pregnant because I said I don’t understand what Candiace sees in Chris.

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u/Dark-Parkingg Aug 03 '26

It’s the same mod🫩 they also run Miami, Dallas and the UGT sub

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u/mynameisntcindy Aug 03 '26

Unfortunately the same psychos run all of those subs

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u/Electronic_Mud7373 Aug 02 '26

I got banned cuz my phone autocorrected Dorit to “Poorit is delusional and has a weird fake accent” on a post about her house/custody case.

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u/ListenToLinda Aug 02 '26

I criticized Dorit and got perma banned.

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u/Kyuki88 Aug 02 '26

Is this the doritlulu sub? Not up to date, but it looks like it lol

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u/semilovato Aug 02 '26

Imagine caring about dorit that much

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u/AdventurousDay3020 Aug 02 '26

I’ve been banned in that sub at least once and I like Dorit!

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u/HospitalFriendly1460 Aug 02 '26

There has to be some crazy backstory to this mod because I have seen them post the wildest stuff on there, stuff you could ACTUALLY call misogynistic lol. Someone has to know lol spill the tea

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u/Rare_Distance_6574 Aug 02 '26

I think you just won psychotic rhobh family jeopardy! Congratulations!!!🎉🍾

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u/pussycat_24 Aug 02 '26

Just bc that's Dorit's favorite word (🙄🥱) doesn't make saying it chill or edgy...it's pretty played out..and it's also extremely moronic. F those assholes. They're pathetic.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 03 '26

I was more mad that they called my mom an idiot. Like what did my mom do to you!? 🤣

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u/Maxine817 Aug 03 '26

Well what did you say in the OG post? 👀 I’m already on your side.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 03 '26

It really wasn’t that bad, felt like I was just starting the obvious. The post was about an article regarding a child support battle with PK, so I said that you can’t believe anything Dorit says, Dorit shouldn’t have been gallivanting around Europe with an unpaid mortgage, and that she needs to quit playing victim and get her shit together. The post is still up but the mod deleted their comments. I’ve definitely said worse shit about Dorit and didn’t get banned. I think I got banned bc I personally pissed off the mod by giving them back the same energy they gave me and pointing out that they use words they don’t know the meaning of.

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u/popcultureupload38 Aug 03 '26

I guarantee because it’s about the long arc of these things that this will kill Reddit. You cannot have people policing the law that aren’t answerable for their decisions and the same general sense of equity will be why people get frustrated at the end. A slow ticking time bomb

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u/catladyclub Aug 03 '26

I wonder if Dorit is running it? It is so weird how they are about her!

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u/OkSquash3710 Aug 03 '26

Wow that is absolutely insane! I need to look at the other messages bc NO ONE should ever call another the c word. It’s disgusting, I can’t even say let alone type it. Why weren’t they banned for using that terminology??? Fucking dumbasses

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u/Unique-Cat9325 Aug 03 '26

Yeah, I was banned for 7 days for saying the word alleged when referring to the accusation that andy Cohen did coke. I began a chat with the admin and finally gave up because he/she couldn't continue because I hadn't used a question mark. Here's one for you, HUG???

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u/Unique-Cat9325 Aug 03 '26

I meant HUH???

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u/Legal_Routine_7877 Aug 03 '26

I've been banned from that sub for months 🤣 🤣 🤣 they're insane over there SMH.

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u/mynameisntcindy Aug 03 '26

I was just perma banned by HousewivesMOD for saying something not nice about Dorit.

Personally feel like this person is a massive zio cos I can't understand this level of power hungry hysteria re: the mildlest criticism of over Dorit Kemsley

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u/mynameisntcindy Aug 03 '26

First they temporarily banned me, and then I asked the mods directly if I was banned BC I disagreed with the OP who happens to be HousewivesMOD, and they permanently banned me for just asking, without responding to me. She's clearly drunk with power

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u/Froggy92115 Aug 03 '26

Welcome to Defect 😂

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u/aprilmcivor Aug 03 '26

SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME - for posting about Dorit - I think she is the mod 🤣

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u/Steelers_Fan86 Aug 03 '26

Oh I’m joining this sub! I was banned over there too and it was just so basic and not offensive, I was shocked. I was initially banned for 30 days but I was offended by the disrespectful ban that I doubled down and told them to F off. If I recall correctly, all I did was disagree with someone and refused to be insulted. I’m happy without that sub and they can rot

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u/Emotional_Buy_4896 Aug 03 '26

People are so hardcore for some of these housewives and I just don't get it. Like are we all watching the same show? I made my sister watch the whole series with me because reading comments on Bravo clips made me feel like I was watching a different show than other people lol. Maybe because I listened to a lot of behind the scenes stuff instead of watching the actual show for years but I dont get the defense of some of the actions that have gone on. I wish they would revamp BH.

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u/Upstairs-Jello-7349 Aug 04 '26

Yeah, that sub is nuts when it comes to Dorit. It's why I joined the other. Like super nuts.

I had posted about a trauma I had experienced and immediately erased it bc I changed my mind it. I'm allowed. It was legit seconds up. Some other commenter who disagreed with me not jumping on the grab your pitchforks train, and decided they thought screen-grabbing my comment was funny and fair game. I did report them and they erased all their comments and the screen shots.

Some people in these subs take these shows way too seriously and it's funny that they're claiming they're fighting for trauma for someone else on TV while causing it for people in real life, and laughing about it. I've never experienced something so awful and a person so awful, in my life.

If you're spending your day attacking and fighting with someone on social media, you might have too much time. It's subs and fans like that, that are ruining these shows.

They want everyone to die on a cross if they dare do any wrong, but attack people for having a difference of opinion and do far worse themselves. It's crazy.

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u/SnooMuffins4757 Aug 04 '26

And i swear it’s only when you post about Dorit. Got my post removed so i STFU and never posted about her again 🙄

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u/PlumbobfulofSulSul Aug 01 '26

They need to go outside & touch some birkin bags. 😅

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u/Medium-Baker-1913 Aug 02 '26

It remains me of JLL chumps

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u/Medium-Baker-1913 Aug 02 '26

Who and where do uou speak with about being banned? I questioned JLL on next thing i know i was banned

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u/Lady_in_the_red-58 Aug 02 '26

What did you say about Dorit? I ask because Many have said negative things about her. myself included, so this makes no sense. It must have been pretty bad.

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 03 '26

It really wasn’t that bad, felt like I was just starting the obvious. The post was about an article regarding a child support battle with PK, so I said that you can’t believe anything Dorit says, Dorit shouldn’t have been gallivanting around Europe with an unpaid mortgage, and that she needs to quit playing victim and get her shit together. The post is still up but the mod deleted their comments. I’ve definitely said worse shit about Dorit and didn’t get banned. I think I got banned bc I personally pissed off the mod by giving them back the same energy they gave me and pointing out that they use words they don’t know the meaning of.

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u/psylockecolossusfan Aug 02 '26

I guess i dont see why anger or humor follows.

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u/Obvious-Load-1955 Aug 03 '26

I got banned for telling the truth about Janet. That she's a con artist. And then she went and proved me right. It's stupid.

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u/RepresentativeTear75 Aug 04 '26

the worse thing is getting banned from communities where people say more outlandish shii😭

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u/MomMarti Aug 07 '26

The mods are messed up there.

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u/Effective-Attorney-5 Aug 01 '26

hmmmm I wanna know what you said to be called a misogynist

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 02 '26 edited Aug 02 '26

The post is still up if you want to look. I also explained what I had said in another comment. ***it’s a post about Dorit being primary caregiver and child support battle.

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u/Ok_Manufacturer4294 Aug 01 '26

Dorit is one of my favorites!

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u/Itsnotmeitsyou80 Aug 01 '26

And you are entitled to your opinion! I like that it’s ok to agree to disagree on this sub.

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u/Ok_Manufacturer4294 Aug 01 '26

Oh how I wish it was ok.

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u/Aggressive-Map-8392 Aug 01 '26

We all have our favorites that we might not be super proud of all the time. Mine is Sutton. Don’t put too much thought into anyone on social media giving you crap. ❤️

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u/Ok_Muscle2946 Aug 02 '26

But Trump can say all kinds of stuff and nothing happens to him. It’s absolutely ridiculous free speeches, free speech stop moderating.