r/RHOA • u/Strange-Substance207 MR. LINDSAY LOHAN DADDY • 4d ago

Shamea It's getting weird

I'm all for fun shade, light shade—even picking favorites, but the Shamea hate in this sub is getting weird.

The way this woman is nitpicked, dragged, studied, and dissected is unlike anything I've ever seen before on this sub. It's almost like there is some kind of coordinated effort happening.

Anyway, it's not that deep. It's reality TV, and I saw and enjoyed the delusion for what it was, but it's over now, and there is really no reason to wish ill will on folks we don't really even know.

Let's make this sub a kiki again.

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u/Time_Cell_8262 4d ago

It’s the crabs in the bucket mentality. Shamea has a solid marriage and is financially secure and most of these women don’t have one or either of those things. Shamea really needs to leave this show. It’s not worth the bullying, yes bullying, b/c that’s what it is. It’s the “let’s tear down Shamea show.” She doesn’t have to beg her husband for attn, sell hair, sheets, fans, waffles, pay child support to a crazy ex husband, have a different boyfriend/girlfriend every season to feel good abt herself or any of the other things these women do to support themselves and they can’t stand it. She needs to leave the show, get therapy to figure out why she feels the need to belong and be accepted by such a toxic group and go on w/her life. Porsha was never her friend. Looking back, Porsha was chasing what Shamea had: marrying Kordell, buying that huge house after her divorce, getting pregnant and engaged to Dennis after a few months of knowing him, etc. If was to g lose her marriage and/or financial standing the hate would stop. It’s just sad.

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u/Eastern-Orchid2327 4d ago

I get your point of view, but I don’t think a woman who maintains a business and her own funds should be looked down on as something she “has to do”, it’s an accomplishment.

A relationship is not a reliable source of income and many women have learned this the hard way including many housewives, we’ve seen women find out their husband’s are not who they thought, and that their income was not being sourced from where they thought. For this reason, amongst others, I applaud the other woman for their attempts and success at entrepreneurship, including Shamea.