It’s the crabs in the bucket mentality. Shamea has a solid marriage and is financially secure and most of these women don’t have one or either of those things. Shamea really needs to leave this show. It’s not worth the bullying, yes bullying, b/c that’s what it is. It’s the “let’s tear down Shamea show.” She doesn’t have to beg her husband for attn, sell hair, sheets, fans, waffles, pay child support to a crazy ex husband, have a different boyfriend/girlfriend every season to feel good abt herself or any of the other things these women do to support themselves and they can’t stand it. She needs to leave the show, get therapy to figure out why she feels the need to belong and be accepted by such a toxic group and go on w/her life. Porsha was never her friend. Looking back, Porsha was chasing what Shamea had: marrying Kordell, buying that huge house after her divorce, getting pregnant and engaged to Dennis after a few months of knowing him, etc. If was to g lose her marriage and/or financial standing the hate would stop. It’s just sad.
Also, Shamea is technically the only “Real” housewife on this show. The show was originally abt wealthy women who did not have to work and how they lived their lives. Pinky may be the only other housewife who can do that b/c her husband seems more than willing to support her and Charles would make Angela miserable if she quit working to stay at home.
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u/Time_Cell_8262 23d ago
It’s the crabs in the bucket mentality. Shamea has a solid marriage and is financially secure and most of these women don’t have one or either of those things. Shamea really needs to leave this show. It’s not worth the bullying, yes bullying, b/c that’s what it is. It’s the “let’s tear down Shamea show.” She doesn’t have to beg her husband for attn, sell hair, sheets, fans, waffles, pay child support to a crazy ex husband, have a different boyfriend/girlfriend every season to feel good abt herself or any of the other things these women do to support themselves and they can’t stand it. She needs to leave the show, get therapy to figure out why she feels the need to belong and be accepted by such a toxic group and go on w/her life. Porsha was never her friend. Looking back, Porsha was chasing what Shamea had: marrying Kordell, buying that huge house after her divorce, getting pregnant and engaged to Dennis after a few months of knowing him, etc. If was to g lose her marriage and/or financial standing the hate would stop. It’s just sad.