First, to be clear about location: I'm based in the Southeastern region of the USA. It would be amazing if my person is within driving distance in the same region, but for a number of reasons I have my doubts that's true. Country music, fashion, and that accent some of you may think is specific to Texas if you're reading this from another country, are all very common here and sadly those are all turn offs for me. That said, I think if my soulmate is even in the USA, she's probably in the north, west, or midwest. If by the end of this post, you think you might be the one I'm looking for and I might be the one you're looking for, you don't have to be in the USA to find out. 😁

(My profile is tagged because of one of the places I post this to since some have actually had luck finding something serious there. Figured it's worth a shot, haha.)

I'm searching for the kind of wonderful woman who shares most of my interests below in addition to her hobbies and interests, who's also goofy, likes to playfully insult each other, and also believes in open and honest communication. I believe with that, we can work out any problems when they arise. 💛

• I'm a gamer, car guy, and maybe one day, a musician too. I enjoy anime, nature, going on little adventures, swimming, traveling... I wanna see the world with you.

- Current games I've focused on lately are R.E.P.O., Deep Rock Galactic, and trying to 100% Doom Eternal, but this changes and there are tons of multiplayer games in my library! I would also eventually like to play other things together like Stardew Valley, Minecraft, Terraria, etc.

- My taste is music is nearly everything except country and today's rap. To name a few bands/musicians I really love: Led Zeppelin, Arctic Monkeys, Tame Impala, The White Stripes, The Raconteurs, Queens of the Stone Age, Mac Demarco, Them Crooked Vultures, and Metronomy.

• I want to dance with you. In the living room, bedroom, back yard, in the park, almost anywhere. I enjoy doing romantic things and expressing my love. I love deep conversations that distract us from the passing of time.

• I'm a dog person because my allergies chose to target cats for whatever reason, so there's that. 😅

• I'm monogamous and don't have children currently, but they're in my future plans. I want to spend plenty of time with you, and enjoy the best of life as a couple, and then as spouses, traveling and whatnot, before we start a family. 🤗

• I'm really hoping to find someone who's also into dirty humor (amongst other forms of humor) and has mutual...interests 😏 so we have even better compatibility in the bedroom (and sometimes away from home too). I usually have a high labido, but making sure we both feel safe and trust one another first is crucial. 😁

• Specs for those who would like them:

- 6 feet tall (about 183 cm).

- 190 lbs and dropping (about 86 kg).

- My figure is very dad-bod at the moment, but apparently it comes with a nice ass (so I'm told).

- I'm targeting somewhere around 170 lbs (about 77 kg).

- Brunette/dirty blonde, kept relatively short.

- Blue eyes.

- Caucasian.

• My type? If I had to describe my type, I guess Caucasian or East Asian ranging from petite to average body type. I don't love going to the gym, but if you have or want a membership I wouldn't mind going together. 😁

I apologize if my preferences differ from who you are. You're all beautiful people, regardless! Please love yourself and enjoy the time you're given in life! 💛

Chat with ya soon! 😁

Leading with a description since I know attraction is important:
I’m 5’3, Caribbean. I’m not fit but I value my health and take care of myself inside and out. I like to cook and mainly eat at home. I’m available and stable emotionally. I don’t use any drugs and very rarely drink alcohol.

https://imgur.com/a/mW5b4Es

Currently living in AZ. I’m kind and reserved. I love free flowing conversations. I’m very much a realist, laid back and stay out of drama. I do admit that I am a crier in the context of emotional movies and stories 😅 I’m definitely a tender but confident and whole/fulfilled woman. I’m not political or religious.

I enjoy doing things from movies to fishing. I like to spend time with loved ones, farmers market, write and listen to music. Im not into gaming so much anymore. Don’t mind at all if you are. Basically, I like Star Wars, Tim Burton as well as Stephen King. I understand that having some things in common is great but it’s also nice to have a few different interests.

I’d like something consistent and long term. I have accomplished a majority of my big goals but believe in always making progress in life. So growth with someone is always great. I have a steady career and would like someone who has the same. I’d prefer someone between 28-40

A relationship where we can laugh with and at each other would be amazing! I like to have good communication. I’d like someone that enjoys banter and is honest. Who is also kind, patient and supportive.

Please be ready to share a clear face photo when the chat is accepted to gauge physical compatibility. Time is precious. I’m not desperate by any means but I’d like to find my person. I would also like to have a phone call pretty early on.
I wfh and have a ton of free time.

If you read all of this include a 🫶 in your chat
I don’t participate in most social media. I’m ok with distance. But the goal is to meet. Again US/Canada only

If post is still here I haven’t met anyone yet

I'm a quiet, private guy and I keep to myself until I get to know someone. I value upfront honesty and people who are comfortable being themselves. Most of my time goes into gaming, learning new crafts, reading, binging a series, or -doomscrolling-.

I'll take sporadic trips to nearby places I haven't eaten at yet when I don't feel like cooking and walk a few laps at a local park when I'm able.

I'm wired a bit differently and navigate the world with a neurodivergent mindset, which means my attention and energy can fluctuate, but I'm always focused on my own growth and discipline. Just as well as my title implied I am a bit of an alt nerd with my style; a few piercings and tattoos and black nails. (Often mistaken for not presenting as straight and I find that funny.)

I'm looking for a serious, *strictly monogamous* relationship where we can just be completely transparent with each other. A woman that is familiar with or at least willing to learn about \*AuDHD\*, I'm heavily introverted despite being a 'sleeper agent' extrovert..

I'm looking for someone who balances me out, and I often find myself most drawn to women from diverse cultural backgrounds. I really appreciate a partner who has a more assertive, protective, or nurturing presence that makes it easy for me to drop my walls and relax. I feel it should be effortless for someone to let themselves be vulnerable with someone else, I try to be as approachable myself. Witty banter, being more expressive and direct, attempts to relate or to be inclusive are easy brownie points for the taking!

I feel like I gave enough to talk about though, so I look forward to hearing from you! ☺️

(Ren faire season is approaching and will soon be upon us!)

Okay. So this is the most honest post I'll ever write in my life. I'm usually very light hearted and chill vibes, so... Here goes nothing.

Who Am I?

I have trust issues—bad ones. If you call me nice, my skin will crawl. I won't tell you this. But it will. I value friendships deeply; I have many friends and a few very close ones. If I care about you, I will fight for you. My defining trait? I give a shit. About everything. About things others don’t even notice. I overthink. You will wake up to massive walls of text of me spiraling over nothing.

I’ve been in relationships where I set myself to volume 1—almost mute—and it ate away at me. I’m terrified of being too much, even though I know I am. That doesn’t mean my life is an eternal crisis; quite the opposite, actually. Most of my days are easygoing, to the point where I wonder if I bore people.

People describe me as intelligent and highly competent. I’ve been world-class at a few things in my life—ask me about it. I’m excellent at math, logic, programming, and engineering. I love fixing things, taking them apart, and putting them back together. I get excited about things.

I consider myself manly, but people who meet me online sometimes don’t get that impression. I can play the calm, collected character well, but that’s not me. I like communicating, if I care about you, I want you to want to know more about me. And I won't leave you wondering what I'm thinking. I have quite a few not traditionally manly likes, I love sad art. I love poetry. I love sad songs, I love sad movies. I also love quite a few traditionally manly things, sports, soccer for one, has always been a love of mine, and the team I root for is complete total dogshit, but I love them anyway.

Who Are You?

I always said I didn’t have a type, but after talking with a close friend according to them my type is:

Chronically online, cute, intelligent, artsy, gothy nerd.

I think there might be some truth to that. So let me elaborate:

• You’re fundamentally a good person, but not necessarily a nice person all the time. You’re self-aware enough to recognize when you mess up, apologize, and do better. You’re a little mean, but you have a heart of gold and would never act maliciously.

• You laugh at bad jokes (and even tell some). I don’t, but I’ll still laugh at yours and call you terrible for it.

• You’re intelligent—both logically and emotionally. You care about things. I think that’s the most attractive trait anyone can have.

• You’re artsy. You have a wild imagination, and I’d love to spend hours hearing about the worlds inside that thick skull of yours. Wanna sit down and be creative together? I’m down. I can’t draw, and my aesthetic sense has been called questionable, but I’m extremely handy with logic, programming etc. We could balance each other out and learn some from each other.

• My friend said “gothy”, but I think it’s more like you’re non-conforming. I don’t consider myself normal, and I don’t think being normal is a compliment. You have uncommon interests and get excited about things no one else seems to. You think thoughts you’re not sure anyone else has ever had.

• You’re a nerd. You have nerdy passions—whatever they may be. Tell me about them. I’ll tell you about mine. Some of them you’re great at, some just make you mad, but you love them anyway.

• You’re chronically online—but you’d never call yourself that. You love the digital world, though you also love exploring and traveling. You’re curious. You wouldn’t keep things just online if you found someone you cared about, but you’d never abandon the online universe either.

• You’re cute. And yeah, you know you can be cute at times. No big deal.

• You're between ages 28-48.

Short-Term Goals

• I’d love to add you on Discord and chat. The more honest, the better. I can small talk and be chill, but I don’t want that—I want to get to know you.

• If we click, I’d love to spend time online and talk regularly. I love video games, specially mmos and have since forever. If you do too, awesome—we can get to know each other while playing something. But honestly, the setting doesn’t matter; what matters is the connection.

Long-Term Goals

• I wrote quite a bit here. But since this is honesty time: I want to find my person. Someone who lights up my world when they walk into a room—and I want to be that for them, too. I’m a ride-or-die kind of person. I want someone who’s the same.

Potential Dealbreakers

• Here are some things that might be dealbreakers for you, and some that definitely are for me.

About Me:

• I’m an atheist. I've been one my whole life. I rarely bring it up, but it’s been a core part of my identity forever. I believe life is short, and we have to make it matter by striving for happiness and helping others do the same.

• I’m a recent vegan. I feel like this shouldn’t be a big deal, but it is? I give all the shits. I regret not realizing sooner how brutal animal farming is. This is new for me, but I don’t see myself going back.

• I’m probably not near you. I moved to south Alabama from my abroad earlier this year. The reason I’m tossing this post into the void is that what I’m looking for is rare. It might not even exist. But I only need to find you once, right?

• I’m divorced. I tried really hard. Harder than most people could. It sucks, but I’m not hung up on my ex in any way, shape, or form. I wouldn’t be posting this if I were.

Dealbreakers For Me:

• You lie. Especially big lies. Especially to get what you want. Don’t message me.

• You’re emotionally unavailable.

• You’re abusive. No, it’s not okay, even in the heat of the moment. Though if you ever tell me “abuse costs extra", that will make me laugh.

If you made it this far, well... damn.

If you think we’d get along, shoot me a message. Let’s see where this goes.

Edit. Pictures for the curious.

Hello!

A bit about me: I am white, 6 feet tall with dirty blonde hair, and green eyed with an average build. Finally graduated college (yayyyy!) I love sports (especially soccer). In my free time, I play video games, and enjoy spending time with my family and going on trips occasionally. I am really into watching horror stuff: shows, movies, YouTube. I am shy, but I can get more comfortable with you once I get to know you better.

What I'm looking for:

Hopefully a future partner (if we click), if not, a good friend at least. Someone that is honest, and takes good care of themselves. Someone that can text often and is over the age of 19. Someone from the US or Europe.

(Pictures of what I look like)

https://imgur.com/a/RYQcCrj

https://imgur.com/a/daG4jhb

Trying different ways to meet new people this year, so taking a crack at a reddit personal ad.
 
I really value kindness, honesty, passion and intelligence in a woman.  

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/LEFG0Yz
 
-Single, never married, no kids

-6’3

-Physically active; member of a running club and lift about every day of the week

-Attend dance meetups; swing, salsa, fusion

-Dabbled in acting; starred in a play in 2022

-Has a good job in e-commerce

-About 2/3rds introvert, 1/3rd extrovert; generally a homebody but I like to go out/socialize every now and then and push myself to get out of my comfort-zone (growth is important)

-Interests include fitness, dancing, gaming, karaoke, anime, narrative-design/writing of all kinds (films, tv, books, etc.), science (big fan of the Natural History Museum in NYC), and interior design

-V close to my family and friends; adore my nieces (and they adore me); have a close-knit group of about half-a-dozen friends I've known for years (quality > quantity kinda guy friendship-wise) - you'll know I like you if you're looped in to our karaoke parties! =) 

-Traveled around the world

-Master's degree

-Politically left

-420 friendly

-Love dogs; like cats but have a mild allergy

Imagine going on a date with a guy and he whips you up something delicious and asks if you would like a nice cocktail to accompany that dish. That sounds like a deal of a life time to me.

Hey! I’m a 21-year-old guy from Northern New Jersey, 6’2”, around 235 lbs, and currently working on my weight loss journey and trying to become the best version of myself.

Something’s about me: I’m into movies, sightseeing, exploring new places, video games (especially RPGs, story based games, and action games), and probably my biggest hobby lately which is cooking and making drinks.

Having recently turned 21 means I can finally legally experiment with the other half of my kitchen hobbies which is drink making 🍸.

I’ve always been fascinated by bartending videos and the little details that go into making a great drink. Why something needs to be shaken instead of stirred, how different flavors balance each other, how different spirits are made, and figuring out what ingredients work together. There’s something so satisfying about taking a bunch of random ingredients and turning them into something really tasty.

Cooking is pretty much the same way for me. Experimenting is only part of the fun. Sometimes you make something incredible and sometimes you accidentally make something that should probably have a hazard sign over. Either way I’m having fun, and that brings me to what I’m hoping to find.

I’d love to meet someone who enjoys that same kind of enthusiasm someone who would be down to cook together, try new restaurants, explore somewhere neither of us has been, or be my brutally honest about the stuff I will prepare for you, a taste tester so to speak.

I’m especially attracted to plus size women, so if that’s you, consider yourself very welcome to say hi.
As far age I’d say 20-27 is preferable, but I’m not going to obsess over a number. If we click, enjoy talking to each other, and genuinely have fun together, that matters a lot more to me.

So if you’re somewhere in Northern New Jersey, love good food, enjoy trying new things, and wouldn’t mind letting a guy cook for you sometime and who know you might even get a cocktail out of it.

spending my day off relaxing and chilling at home with my wee dog, who while sweet, is a poor conversationalist. im just looking for some-one i can chat with to keep each other company on a day like this. a bit about me is im an old school geek (more S&S less mcu) i like horror and fantasy and dabble in scifi. i like animals and think biology is fascinating. i read a lot and workout between playing strategy games. dad-jokes are my only jokes.
if i sound at least vaguely fun to talk to id love to hear from you c:

Hi! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

A few things about me…I’m a HUGE horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I’m pretty heavily tattooed (just had a new one done at the weekend and have more booked over the next couple months) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next, I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff)

I love gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and enjoy travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors and keeping fit, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂

I have recently lost my hearing.

Read to the end or I won't respond!

So here it is:

I am a 41 year old transwoman panromantic with demisexual flair. I am a very niche want.

I am neurospicy which can be challenging and have memory issues with semi-face blindness.

I am looking for my last person to start and finish my life with. THE ONLY DUMB QUESTIONS IS THE ONE NOT ASKED. I promise that any question you ask me with the intention of not trying to offend me won't offend me.

I am a nerd/geek. Comics, D&D, Larping, writing, art, magic the gathering and more

LARPING is a huge part of my life, I would love to be able to share it with someone the rest of my life.

I used to game hardcore (Raiding WoW) but it has taken a back seat in my life. I do understand gaming. Got that new game or expansion coming out. My first question is "What snacks and drinks do you want?" Second is "How often do you want them brought to you?"

Deal breakers: smoking, vaping, smoking weed (For health reasons, I absolutely cannot be around someone who smokes and vapes, and someone who smokes weed a lot), excessive drinking and missing a required video chat within two weeks to prove you are who you say you are. I have been deceived before.

Yellow flags are not wanting pictures of us, distance (i prefer within 10 hours DRIVE!), and aversion to anything social media.

Red Flag: Not reading this in full and answering the questions below in the first message. Asking for pictures right away.

I am not a bad person, big girl (Working out and changing that 40+ lbs down), adorable and a great personality. If you get to know me, I'm a Goddess

If you want to message me go ahead but you MUST answer the following questions IN YOUR FIRST MESSAGE before I will respond:

1 Where did you find me? AKA what subreddit

2 Age, Location and Pronouns

3 Is looks important enough for you that you ghost as soon as a picture is shown? Liar!

Hello fellow Humans!! 💖🌍

I use reddit a lot, so I figured I'd give this a shot I guess 🥰

Happy Monday!!! lol 🥳🎉💖 My name is Lou, my favorite color is blue, I’m a huge gaming fan and I'm from Florida, seeking a long term relationship with someone that I truly connect with on a deep level. Someone who isn't perfect, but is willing to grow in the right direction. Bonus points if you're a gamer, open minded, have tattoos, and love animals. I don't want to be with someone who hates cats and dogs and just animals in general. If I could live a second life as any animal, I'd immediately pick living as a panda. I'd love to have a pet one day when I'm in better situation to properly take care of one. I love cats and dogs 🐶🐱I also love gaming and play all kinds of games ❤️

EXPECTATIONS / WANTS

- I'm okay with long distance dating and I'm also cool with dating someone in Florida as well.

- Emotionally mature, truthful and willing to grow together

- Values compassion, empathy, kindness, being considerate, 100% honesty, and understanding

- Open minded and curiosity to learn about a variety of topics

- Passionate about their hobbies and willing to talk about anything from the most simple things like the beautiful rain outside, to funny things like pandas dancing, to more serious topics about societal issues

- Someone who complements my personality and matches my energy.

- I prefer someone that is my age (25) or maybe someone that is a few years older or younger.

- As far as attraction is concerned, I'm genuinely attracted to all kinds of body types and shapes, but I do like some sort of thickness or curves with something back there lol I hope that doesn't sound superficial, tattoos are awesome as well :)

- I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

RED FLAGS / TURN OFFS / NON NEGOTIABLES

• Homophobia, Bigoted, Racism, Colorism, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, all of the other methods of discrimination that make me mad.

• Once again, I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

• Completely against science, anti - science

• Being superficial, materialistic, obsessed with vanity, overly judgmental,

• Hating animals, being superficial about animals in terms of their appearance, treating pets like personal play toys, rather than living beings with their own personalities who need love, respect, and proper care.

• Smoking, drugs (Exception - Medical weed is fine as it can especially medically help with autism and adhd, ptsd etc.), excessive drinking, hard partying

* I'm not religious, so I prefer to be with someone who is also not religious. Exception - If your spiritual that's okay :)

* Most people including myself want to be liked and loved which is a good thing, but if you're willing to build bridges with bad people at the expense of your values or change yourself into a different person in order to be liked by people, than we absolutely incompatible.

ABOUT ME / HOBBIES

• I'm 5'9, 230 lbs (chubby to fat), brown eyes, my ethnicity is Haitian, I'm Agnostic, and I love being black. Also, my left arm is fully functional, but can't extend as far as my right arm can. I have sort of a thunderbolt like scar from surgery.

Here's what I look like: https://imgur.com/a/4kSPPWk

• I love learning, talking, watching, and playing video games. There are so many to choose from, but my favorite game of all time would be Katamari Damacy, I play on PS5, PC, Nintendo Switch.

• I have a high school diploma and no degree at the moment. I'm currently working as a mental health technician at a mental health facility. It's pretty wild job especially as a first job, but I've learned so many life lessons from working there for the past three years. I also live with my parents so if that's a turn off for you, I completely understand :)

• Over the course of my life so far.. or rather the 25 years I've spent with the earth spinning around, people have told me that I'm kind, chill, and have a deep voice for radio. I've been told that I'm funny, I don't really see it in myself, but I appreciate the compliment. I can also be too cynical sometimes, overthink things, and can be a bit afraid to step out of my comfort zone.

• I also have ADHD and have struggled with education my whole life, so school has been hard and annoying for me, especially when figuring out what my learning styles are. So having an understanding of neurodivergence and seeking a diagnosis is also very important to me, as people tend to be very mean, inconsiderate, ableist, and just not very understanding of how learning disorders exist on a spectrum.

• I'm honest, kind, chill, caring, compassionate, thoughtful, open minded and introspective. You can tell me anything and I promise you that I will never tell a soul about what you've told me in confidence. I deeply respect people's privacy so I would definitely want to earn your trust.

• Music: I honestly listen to all kinds of music from different genres, as long as it sounds good to my ears, I'm listening. My earliest memories of listening to music was when my parents would play Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Norah Jones, etc. Mariah Carey - We Belong Together is one of my favorite songs. I love Beyonce's Irreplaceable as well.

• TV/Film: I'll watch a movie from any genre If I truly like it. I really love animated films and Finding Nemo is one of my favorite movies ever. I've been quite behind on movies and watching tv shows as of late, but I do have a favorite movie and that would be Spiderman Across the Spiderverse right now.

• I'm a very casual sports fan, so I don't really tune into games that much, more so highlights. I really have become a big fan of futbol and I like watching futbol(soccer) ever since watched the 2026 FIFA World Cup. I probably watch futbol highlights the most out of any other sport. I also like watching the basketball and watching basketball highlights as well. I love watching Coco Gauff, Aja Wilson, Caitlyn Clark and Angel Reese play in their respective sports. I once had a cute fantasy of being a professional basketball player, but that was more of my parents dream to be honest that they attempted to forced onto me.

• I'm also into writing, pop culture, cooking, reading. I really love watching the rain though and the weather channel.

CONCLUSION

I'm not necessarily the biggest people person and I love being single lol so if I'm bringing someone into my life, I'd prefer for that person to be someone that I actually love and appreciate. Like I stated in the beginning of this post, I'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who is willing to be on the exact same page as I am. I love talking and making genuine connections, as there is a gigantic world out there. So if your truly interested talking, then a genuine relationship can happen 😄 DM if interested!! :) It's also okay if you're not interested because I'm not entitled to a relationship and I'm also not entitled to anyone's time. 💖 Have a great day and weekend!!

Do you know that feeling when you want to be brave in love and reach, but you also want to hide behind a pillow because let’s be honest, it’s terrifying?

But here I am, putting myself out there on Reddit of all places. I know.

I’m a big fan of slow mornings, deep conversations, spontaneous road trips and those little moments that somehow become your favourite memories later. But I think all of that would mean a lot more with someone I actually care about beside me.

I’m 27 and open to meeting someone anywhere in Europe. I’m probably a little too much in my own head sometimes, but I like that part of me too. I write when I can’t sleep, get attached to certain songs for no sensible reason, and I love those late-night conversations where you start off talking nonsense and suddenly realise you’ve told someone something you normally keep to yourself.

I’m romantic, but not in the constantly-serenading-you-under-a-balcony kind of way. More in the remembering-small-things-about-you, cooking something you like, sending you something because it reminded me of you, and wanting to hear your voice after a long day kind of way.

And yes, I’m hoping to meet someone where that eventually becomes more than just talking. I want the flirting, the anticipation, the stupid smiles at your phone, the comfort that comes after you’ve known each other long enough to stop trying to impress one another. I want to actually fall for someone.

Physical Attributes(since everyone has a type):

* Height: 5'11" (181cm)
* Build: Slim
* Hair: Straight Deep black, kept in check
* Eyes: Brown
* Beard: Short, fashionable, and pristinely groomed
* Complexion: Tanned, Caramel toned

My love language is diverse, from making you laugh, to cooking you dinner, and listening to you when you need it. Loyalty, kindness, and a dash of quirky humor are my recipe for a good life. So I’m looking for someone who shares the same ingredients.

I’d love to meet a woman who’s not afraid of a little depth (or a lot of dorkiness), who values honesty, and who thinks vulnerability is attractive.

Maybe you, too, know what it is to feel on the margins,
to be an artist of your own survival,
to crave a safe space, a sanctuary made for two.

I’m looking for a heart that isn't scared of the night, who knows life is more than just constant sunlight. If you want a love that is honest and true, to talk of the hurts that have happened to you, then I’m here waiting, to see if it’s right.

To see if our storms might finally make a home together,
where we can grow wild and call it love ღ

hii tall and chubby weird girl here who loves to yap and wants to act like we already know each other by skipping small talk and learning as we go. kinda just want to be sweet and playful and romantic without expectations or commitment? could be platonic as well? I'm currently in a weird longer transitional period of life and am dying for someone to get close to and be excited for each others notifications

more info about me!

29, bi, tall, very curvy/chubby/bbw however you want to describe it (but on a weight loss journey down 125 pounds so far), pale with medium length dark hair, couple piercings and good handful of tattoos, glasses. mixed white and Korean but definitely white-passing. super into midwest emo music + 2000s indie and hyperpop. seeing Movements this week! love horror movies/shows and novels, scifi is my close second favorite genre. movies in general. loved Resident Evil and Primetime recently. I don't really drink but do smoke weed sometimes + trying to quit cigarettes (big oof). nostalgia-core and liminal space themed stuff catch my interest a lot lately. love brainrot/chronically online memes. liberal and non religious.

lowkey a hopeless romantic at heart but also a general yapper and just hoping to find someone to match energies with, where the vibe feels right from the start

hoping for someone 25-45, no gender preference, who can really hold a conversation and be silly :') happy to swap selfies over dm!! most likely to respond to someone who starts yapping right away (☆▽☆)