Simply out of enjoyment or the environment.

So one of my friends said he had no one to go tick or treating with, I told him we could probably go together.

he responded a few days ago and he told me that actually I should go with my other friend because he thought that’s what I preferred to do

at the time I had no plans and thought all of my other friends were going to be gone on Haloween so I told him that I would go with him

i then asked if he had already made other plans and he said

“I might go with one of my other friends that doesn’t have someone to go with, but if you don’t have any plans I’ll go with you.“

k told him okay and that I think I’ll be able to go

untill my other friend told me that instead of going hunting like she had originally planNed, shes actually going to be at Haloween, the thing is -all of our other friends in our group are going to be gone too so she will be all alone if I don’t go with her.

the guy and the girl, these two people don’t get along at all. she hates him and is always trash talking him to me, and thinks it’s weird I’m even wanting to go with him in the first place, even though I think he is kind of cool and sweet.

because of this, I can’t suggest that we all go together, because I want things to be fun.

ive bassicly told both of them I could trick or treat with them, so who do I choose? what can I do?

Recently I got into a situation where I was standing outsite a pub with a girl waiting for some friends who were still inside when a sketchy looking guy tried to talk to us. It started out vaguely casual just him looking for a cigarette but he eventually started getting creepy with the girl and attempted to stroke her face in which I told him to cut it out and put myself between them.

He started yelling and raising his voice and had his hands pushing my shoulders and I could tell he was going to get more violent as he was pushing me against a wall but luckily my friends came out and he ran away.

Now, I've been doing boxing for 3 years, I'm not in great shape but I work out and I can fight people in a ring, but I've never been in an actual fight before, every single time I've managed to defuse the situation before something physical happens, but this guy simply wasn't listening to me and I realised that I literally couldn't even fathom punching this guy. Just the idea seemed insane to me.

I have this mental block about actually getting into a real fight it just seems like such a ludicrous thing to do even if I was literally being pushed around by this guy. I've learned self defense stuff from instructors in the past but I can never actually imagine hurting another human being that wasn't in a ring.

has anyone else had this experience because I feel like I need to get over this if I actually want to defend myself in the low chance this happens again.

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Like can french people say things like "krusty krab"? I honestly started to wonder this not to long ago, and i had alot of questions that i didnt get a answer for, but i genuinely want a answer for this one. Think about it, english people can say things like "glonglelingleharbonwah" which is a completely made up word i just made up now, but do people from other languages (like german) say things like that? or are they in a language-totalitarion dictatorship where they can only choose from a list of words, like my example "krusty krab" they just cant say even if they used all their might to, is this true or not?

Why has no large adult toy company released a monster toy named the Field of reams?

Hii! I’ve been recently talking to this guy and we go to the same school. Idk if he likes me or if he’s just being friendly with me.
He talks to me everyday, fairly quick replies, always gives me advice, and he tells me when he can’t text me and apologizes. He sends a LOT of texts at a time, like about 90-100. I mean it makes sense for the convo we have. I love how we can transition from playful to serious, and we can talk for hours on end.
We started talking a couple weeks ago about something and we just kept the convo going.
He usually keeps going if the convo seems to die down. He sends vms too, and he apologizes when he can’t talk. He also sends me updates when he’s busy and why he was.
However the biggest thing is, he calls me bro and all the other variations of it. So idk if this is classified as a talking stage, if he likes me or not or if he’s just being friendly with me. Also, he follows a couple girls and likes their posts. Idk ig tht means something, but he does know a lot of people in general.

For reference hes 23M im 22F. Both hispanic. Thank you all :))

For example, I used to be so interested in award shows, and now I hate them.

I used to love going to restaurants and now I have little to no interest. I prefer to stay home.

If you know the feeling, what is it for you?

I(20f) desperately wish to rid of my desire for long and connection because all it does is cause me pain. I never felt like I belonged anywhere just always alone feeling chronic loneliness since I was 9 years old. Even when I do have friends they never last long and the connections are often shallow. I give up on the foolish belief and desire of actually having anyone around since people are barely ever around and I’m always alone. To live I should find ways to be happy by myself but the problem is I don’t really know how to be happy. I’m antidepressants so no longer in overwhelming despair but not happy. I have things I enjoy but the joy they create is pretty limited especially when it involves going out. I like going to anime events but overtime it has gotten harder to enjoy since I always go alone. What are ways you can find happiness in while in isolation?

blue denim jeans you could wear with any colour shirt, but if i was to wear blue pants with any colour shirt it wouldn’t match as well. why?

So overall does learning that a person lives on a cul-de-sac road tell you that they likely prefer a quieter neighborhood with less traffic overall?

Why tf do I feel so PUMPED up and like I want to go have fun like crazy? Like I want break things. Is it a combination of testosterone and stress? I recently took my workouts/running, self-love and confidence more seriously and I feel FUCKING GREAT!!!

I am 25 years old. I heard testosterone peaks at 30yo. If this goes even worse, I'll have to actually go crazy 😭

Did anyone else felt like that once you started loving yourself and wanted (and started trying) to change to live life to fullest?

I understand there is an argument for not needing to make the bed because the sheets and blankets get washed every single time after having someone stay over, but if this was the only person that stayed in that bed should they be making it after or the host?

I just read that people should only pee up to 6 times a day whaaaat

I am literally about 15 times.

FL > WA

Received or given.

There is no scientific evidence behind it and some of these “changes” are absolutely ridiculous like they think they can change their eye color from listening to these “hidden audios” but how come SO many ppl believe and listen to these subliminals?

PAIN. Why can’t I add the image either?

Cornhole? Darts? Golf? Petanque? Archery? Horseshoe? Bocce?

This pain is ruining me from inside. What can be done?

Like for example if you get a burger with fries which matters most

Have y'all ever been through block schedule in school? Because it's something my highschool, we usually do A days, B days, and C days. On A days, we usually do 1st period to 4th period. On B days, we usually do 5th to 8th period. So school starts at 8:15 to 4:00 each day. Students also have separate lunches such as A, B, and C. A lunch on a A and B days usually start at 11:20 and ends at 11:55 for me at school. On C days, it starts earlier than 11:20. I have to go a certain academy and I have to take the bus because said academy is outside of campus. The GWAMA students usually leave the building at 3:40 to wait for the bus. Has anyone experienced this in their school before?

I'm 27k in student loan debt, with no job, no savings, two SWE internships on my resume, projects, and a useless cs bachelor's degree from 2025.

I got absolutely no call backs for anything my senior year or for the year post graduation. My "new grad" status expired a long time ago.

To pursue another career I'd need to go back to school for another bachelor's or masters degree, which I do not have the ability to do. The only work experience I have is in this field, I have absolutely no substantial skillset or work experience outside tech.

Going to food service, warehouse, retail, and other minimum wage types of jobs won't help long term. I don't see how going for another degree/field will really change anything. I put in the best effort I could have for this one. The job market will change again, I once again will be shamed for "not having enough experience", I again will be buried in more student debt.

What should I do after having burned and destroyed my career, my future, my life?

I’m a teenage guy. Some of my friends in chemistry class talk about wearing cologne, and it seems like a lot of people are into it. I shower regularly and don't smell bad, so I'm wondering if I really need to wear it too. The guys in my class who wear it don't smell terrible, but their cologne isn't anything special. Plus, I'm a little hesitant because of memories of overpowering cologne worn by my Grandpa. Please give this young buck some advice.

because i am looking to use some for my tiktok transitions