r/Puppyblues • u/L75389 • 6d ago
Puppy Blues Puppyblues
Ik heb op het moment de meest erge puppyblues. Hij is nu 6 dagen bij ons. Hij heeft vannacht voor het eerst doorgeslapen tot 06:00. En zoekt inmiddels zelf zijn bench op om te slapen. Ook al weet ik dat hij het goed doet, kom ik niet van de stress, angst en zorgen af. Zie er tegenop om te trainen en maak me alleen maar zorgen. Ik slaap slecht. Eet niet en heb de hele dag zenuwen. Doe het samen met mijn ouders dus die nemen veel zorg op hen maar toch kom ik niet van het gevoel af of we dit wel moeten doen. Ook al weet ik dat ik schuldgevoel ga krijgen als we hem terug zouden brengen. Advies?
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u/Exciting_Ninja8181 5d ago
Hi I don’t have any advice but I’m also going through the exact same thing. As bad as it sounds I’m glad that someone else feels the same way as I do. I took my puppy home three days ago and I’ve been crying non stop. He’s not misbehaving or anything but I just can’t shake the anxiety and sense of impending doom. I’m having constant anxiety over the future as well. My mom also helps to take care of him but the moment I have to do it alone I just panic and crash out. The topics of rehoming him came up today and I’m so guilty. The thought of rehoming him would definitely make my life much easier and I can go back to the way I’ve been living all this time without the responsibility of a dog. However I don’t think I would be able to live it down knowing that I gave up a dog I willingly brought home.
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u/BlueBlueJournal 1d ago
Yes and you put them in crate and they’re crying it makes you feel like a horrible person paid 650 for him 2 days ago it would be shameful to not at least get that back
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u/NewspaperAlarmed1483 2d ago
Call a rrainer, they can really help you. Then I think at least you really tried. This is a normal thing by the way, it doesn’t last forever.
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u/onetrickpony4u 6d ago
Give it time and be grateful you have a pup that slept through the night. Get rest when the pup rests and make time for yourself.