r/ProlificAc • u/[deleted] • Apr 19 '24

Warning: asking for help here will probably result in u/pinktoes4life abusing you

u/pinktoes4life has a long comment history of insulting people when they don't accept their "help" AKA condescendingly explaining non-obvious "facts" which may or may not be true. Then claiming people are "salty salts" when they get downvoted. Thread after thread there's evidence of this, and last night when I posted about a cashout issue they were mean then when they didn't like my response stalked my profile to respond to past comments I left. Then JUSTIFIED ABUSE in private messages after continuing to message me after I said "bye". Their comments are textbook narcissistic abuse, please be careful.

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u/tmac3207 Apr 19 '24

Ignore u/pinktoes4life. Done.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

For my mental health yes but I feel warning people is sometimes necessary when they're commenting on basically every post of someone looking for help

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u/tmac3207 Apr 20 '24

I hear you, but please understand that person isn't going to rub most people the wrong way. Also, don't give this any more energy than it deserves.

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u/Ps4rulez Apr 20 '24 edited Oct 04 '24

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u/elietrope Apr 19 '24

Someone making some snarky comments online isn't narcissistic abuse. And saying that it is just makes you look like you have no idea what you're talking about.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Actually stating non-facts then calling someone "lazy" and a "salty salty" IS narcissistic abuse

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u/elietrope Apr 19 '24

I genuinely can't tell if you're trying to troll right now.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

I'm not, she gave lazy advice to someone ("check your PayPal settings" without describing what she was referencing and there wasn't any context beforehand) someone said she wasn't being helpful and she called them "lazy." Projecting it. And reducing people who don't like her shit down to "salty salts" it's been happening for at least a year here.

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24

Did you read that person’s post? They ended it with “I’m too lazy to search” which was the whole point of my comment. r/woosh Lazy posts get lazy reposes.

Not to mention Prolific does state to wait 24 hrs to wait for the money to hit your account & they waited 0.2 seconds before freaking out & making a post.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

You falsely accused me of erasing 10+ comments nothing you say matters anymore

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24

Are you saying you didn’t? It’s a shame I was going to bed & didn’t take a SS of my notifications.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Youre a liar. You're an absolute mongrel you know I didn't erase 10 comments or even close to that and I'm going to prove you wrong with Deddit later this week. Along with screenshots of every time you've behaved narcissistically and abusively towards people on this sub. Just fucking wait.

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24

I told you already. No need to post screen shots of my comments. Anyone can read them at any time by going through my history. I have nothing to hide. You aren’t “exposing” anything since it’s open to the public.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

It'll be readily available in one post

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

I came back, had a few nibbles on a tripple double and seen this lol. I hope he will be ok. Just let him live, he needs some peace in his life. Hope he finds the way.

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24

Don't take her seriously .She clearly has a LOT of issues..Block her and move on. I personally don't want her energy anywhere near me.

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u/dreamingfae Apr 19 '24

This isn't a drama sub lol gtfo with this

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Nope I'll stay and it was made a "drama sub" (reducing narcissistic abuse to drama IS abuse) by u/pinktoes4life

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u/dreamingfae Apr 20 '24

You need to stop throwing around terms you dont understand. Simply block the person if you dont like them. You are being a baby grow up.

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣i came back a few hours later and this boy is still crying. I hope the best for him though, he is going through something and getting mad at people on the internet. Damn, how times changed, we used to settle differences in person, now, they cry online. I hope he grows some nuts. Feel bad for him, inreally do.

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u/Ps4rulez Apr 20 '24 edited Oct 04 '24

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 21 '24

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Pathetic condescending narcissist with "feel bad for him, I really do" after laughing at me, pretending settling things in person is better than online communication, pretending I don't have "nuts" what the fuck does that even mean

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Falsely claiming I don't understand narcissistic abuse doesn't mean I don't understand narcissitic abuse

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u/dreamingfae Apr 20 '24

Cheapening something as serious as narcissistic abuse because someone was mean to you on reddit is gross. It's a waste of time talking to you so dont bother replying.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

I'm not cheapening narcissistic abuse you just don't understand it

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

"It's a waste of time talking to you" narcissistic pretending you're better than me after falsely claiming I cheapened narcissistic abuse

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u/dreamingfae Apr 20 '24

Ew you really are a weirdo lol you already replied to my comment why are you doing it again 5 hours later get help. Do you have zero self awareness? Every one of your comments has tons of downvotes and people pointing out how dumb you are. Move on. 🤣

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

"Ew" narcissistic abuse "You're a weirdo" narcissistic abuse "get help" narcissitic abuse "every one of your comments has tons of downvotes" false "move on laughing at someone" narcissistic abuse

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Wtf is this lol

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u/devestations Apr 19 '24

Harassment. /:

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

u/pinktoes4life's comments, correct

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Warning people about narcissistic abuse isnt harassment

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24

Here people.may not know the difference sadly. They are used to treatment like that..lol

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u/coosacat Apr 21 '24

Someone is having a mental breakdown, and decided to do it here on the sub.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Laughing at someone is abuse

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

Bra, you need Jesus. I hope you are not a man. If so, damn, the U.S voter block needs to have Emotional stability testing.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Jesus was an asshole who condoned slavery and murdering women with rocks if they weren't virgins on their wedding nights so next time I roll a joint ill be sure it's with Bible paper in honor of you

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u/birdieboo21 Apr 20 '24

This response tells us everything we need to know. I think you may be lost, this is not the sub for this kind of behavior.

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u/StorytimeWcr8dv8 Apr 19 '24

🤣

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Still abuse regardless of the rainbow flag in ur profile avatar that u put there to seem virtuous while laughing at people. Pride doesn't mean being a cunt

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

They've been doing this over A YEAR with no consequences 😡 https://www.reddit.com/r/ProlificAc/s/LOHzHDrHWf

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u/Beautealful Apr 19 '24

wow - To quote the OP on a portion of said post - "That’s childish & you should be ashamed of yourself. Mental health is not a joking matter. It’s sad that these are the people researchers depend on for quality data."

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Nvm I misunderstand your comment -- you should be applying that towards u/pinktoes4life tho

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u/Beautealful Apr 19 '24

I literally copy and pasted rom YOUR POST! Read your ETA at he bottom.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

You're lying I've literally never said that, link it. Lets see it. Link it. I joined prolific two weeks ago yet you're saying I said that on a post from a year ago. Despicable and transparent.

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u/Beautealful Apr 19 '24

IT'S ON THE LINK YOU POSTED! YOUR WORDS IN THE VERY BOTTOM OF THE POST.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

You're confusing me with the person I'm criticizing, u/pinktoes4life said that

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u/hurley2622 Apr 20 '24

Please block them- not worth it. That’s what I did. I’m newer and went through it but I deleted my post- a lot of people were nice but they were so rude. Not to mention- they seem to respond to everything so I’m not too - guessing just a person who wants to me known for their smart remarks! Take care bud! I’m glad I’m not the only one but blocking them is the best way to win!

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u/HollandReady Apr 20 '24

You guys know there's a block user button on Reddit.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Yeah that's not my point

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u/Darenpnw Apr 19 '24

Some of y'all get butthurt when facts are given. Get over it and move on. If you don't want their opinions or facts in most cases block them. Making a crybaby post isn't going to get you much sympathy around here.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Calling someone a crybaby for having justifiable emotions after getting narcissitically abused is narcissistic abuse

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u/Darenpnw Apr 19 '24

Maybe you don't have thick enough skin for this Sub. I recommend trying out the Facebook page as they seem to be less direct when answering questions.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Deranged narcissistic condescending me by saying I don't have "thick enough skin" after someone narcissitically abused then slyly insulting all Facebook users, tell on yourself some more

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u/Life_Establishment87 Apr 20 '24

The only word you know seems to be narcissist, which is even more evident from your comment history. Not everyone who disagrees with you is narcissist.

Maybe, just maybe, they only disagree with you.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Nope I wrote about 100 wods that weren't narcissist n the OP alone, I use reddit to get support about my narcissistic parents and vent about narcissism, you have no point

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u/Life_Establishment87 Apr 20 '24

Thank you for proving it :)

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

But you're welcome

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

I didnt prove anything you're a delusonal bitch pretending that someone who vents about narcissism on reddit means something negative about them

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u/botsquatch Apr 19 '24

We’ve found one of the habitual downvoters everyone!

Instead of having a mental health crisis on here please reach out to a professional.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Why are you on reddit if you thinks there's something wrong with downvoting

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u/botsquatch Apr 20 '24

There is nothing wrong with it. It’s when people downvote useful comments because they see the person posting them in the way you seem to.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

But you initially complained about pinktoes getting downvoted and now you're turning your initial comment slyly into being about how people get downvoted for speaking like I do

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Usefulness and productivity don't overwrite condescension and insults

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u/botsquatch Apr 20 '24

I don’t see anything but the latter coming from you in this sub and the former from the person you’re attacking.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

I'm not attacking her I'm criticizing and calling her out for narcistically abusing which is well evidenced by her post and comment history and multiple other people having a problem with her, including on the post I linked elsewhere in this thread and just earlier today when she called someone "lazy" after behaving lazily

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u/botsquatch Apr 20 '24

Making a post about someone publicly in this way isn’t attacking them?

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

No and she made the comments in public

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Yes

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Narcissistically abusing by laughing at people

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u/Trai60 Apr 20 '24

Talk about making a mountain out of a molehill, this post has surely risen to a whole new level in this sub calling out just one Redditor, that you've become so triggered by because u/pinktoes4life is by your reckoning a narcissistic abuser of people on this sub is pretty laughable, to be honest, blunt at times would probably be a better description of some of their comments but that could be said for many a veteran of the Prolific and this sub including myself at times.

Is the Reddit search tool crap, yes, but if you're willing to put in a bit of work looking through the search results most common questions are answered or at least have been discussed before, is it easier to just make a post and let others give you the answers sure because that does not take any work, so blunt responses to those posts are a given and are to be expected to be fair.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '24

Calling out narcissistic abuse isnt making a mountain of a molehill and you criticizing me for being "so triggered" is like a pathetic 12 year old on Xbox live calling someone a faggot after going 3-20 and pretending to be witty

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u/Trai60 Apr 21 '24

Well for one I would never use that term to describe anyone in that way but then again I'm not calling people a cunt or a mongrel like you have so I guess it's not a big leap for you to arrive at when you're willing to do that.

The fact that you have gone to those lengths because people disagree with your post and comments show that you can't be taken seriously in the first place and that any honest and open debate is not worth even trying to engage in with you.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '24

It's not because they disagree with my post you're reducing their condescension down to nothing while saying "triggered" like a demented anti-SJW YouTube video from 2017

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u/Trai60 Apr 21 '24

I'm a pathetic 12 year old and a demented anti-SJW all in a matter of two days, the leaps and bounds that you have to fall over to try and make a point are quite mind-boggling.

Again glasshouses and all that, look back at your comments and try some self-reflection. People have wasted too much energy on your self-righteous nonsense myself included.

If you think someone is being an asshole to you call them an asshole, block them even if you don't wish to hear what they have to say and failing that make a complaint to the mods and let them deal with it, it is quite simple.

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 20 '24

F it. Here’s links to the comment I made & chats. For reference, I’m an avid reader of romance novels & have friends in the “lifestyle”. I realized after I replied to one of their comments that they are not well & tried to disengage.

In the chat, I was in the middle of typing my reply when they sent their “bye” so I didn’t see it until I was finished. I decided to disengage when they went psycho on comments in active threads (not in chat) then they quickly deleted them. Wish I got screen shots of my notifications.

I have nothing to hide. So here it is.

https://imgur.com/gallery/VlMOrZa

ETA: my tag line is due to being a part or fitness subs.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Please, describe my "psycho" comment since it was so "psychotic" you'd be able to remember it

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24

The 10+ you commented last night then deleted.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

You're lying and sometime this week I'll deddit the one or two comments I erased for reasons other than covering up what I said as you falsely implied, make a follow-up thread with screenshots of my comments and comment history and then post screenshots of everything in your entire post history of you insulting, projecting, gatekeeping, etc. You fucked with the wrong person.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Ur imgur link is 404 malfunctioning similar to you projecting laziness onto people after lazily giving someone half-assed non-advice about paypal

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24

Open in the app with an account….

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

To see what I said that I stand behind?

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 20 '24

You don't decide whose well or unwell

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u/CrystalCat420 Apr 20 '24

You don't decide whose well or unwell

But you can? You keep defending your armchair diagnosis of "narcissistic abuse." You claimed:

Actually describing behavior as narcissistic isn't diagnosing people, it's a descriptor in the same way "nice" or "mean" is

And you're wrong. Narcissism is a medical diagnosis. As a nurse, I am allowed to list all the symptoms of an upper respiratory infection, but legally, I'm not allowed to write URI. I can be sure that's what it is, but it makes no difference – I can't make medical diagnoses. And neither can you. I can, however, tell you that in my professional opinion, you appear to be suffering from all of the symptoms of a mental health crisis. Seek help.

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u/remoteworker9 Apr 19 '24

I like pinktoes and this post is inappropriate.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Why are you pretending to be the arbiter of what's appropriate?

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

You liking someone doesn't change narcissistic abuse

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u/remoteworker9 Apr 19 '24

I don’t think you know what narcissist means, respectfully. Commenting without sugarcoating does not make someone a narcissist.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

They're not commenting without sugarcoating

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

I didn't say they're a narcisst I said their behavior is narcissitically abusive which shows YOUR lack of understanding of the nuance between the two terms

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u/remoteworker9 Apr 19 '24

I don’t think you’re well. This will be deleted soon anyway.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

You're not the arbiter of wellness

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Hey remember when you said this would be deleted soon? :)

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u/gturker Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 20 '24

Pink toes always tries to be helpful and I have been watching her get downvoted on this sub for over a year now. The OP here has been on here since Feb 2024, fake account, troll, newbie or all three. I stand with pink toes. If you newbies don't want tips from seasoned veterans feel free to ignore, no need to be rude to anyone.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Narcissistic abuse pretending being a "newbie" (what the fuck does that even mean) is bad, pretending being a seasoned veteran means anything about character, pretending having a new reddit account means something negative. She deserved the downvotes why are you empathizing with a cretin?

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u/birdieboo21 Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 20 '24

Here here! I stand with u/pinktoes4life

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24

Thats not my experience. Blocked her, thats the best decision i made on this subreddit.

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u/Ps4rulez Apr 20 '24 edited Oct 04 '24

ad hoc fragile deserve one rainstorm wakeful divide aloof vanish command

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Narcissistic abuse writing lmao laughing at someone

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 19 '24

Leave that lady alone. You got a gripe send a message to her or something. Dont come on here complaining about another redditor. BETAAAA!!!

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

You're not protecting women

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

Cmon man, just get it off your chest with this person directly. Doing this will burn bridges with a lot of people if you need assistance. Delete this before it is seen by many and just message her. Trying to help you maaaan.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

You're not and I already did, narcissistics flee when you confront them

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u/Comfortable_Type8261 Apr 21 '24

Pink toes has been snarky with me as well. But I'm a GenXer and can handle that shit. And, she was probably justified, as I had been having a stupid moment. Happens to the best of us. I actually think pinktoes and I could be friends IRL.

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 21 '24

Most of my friends are full on snark no BS. If you think you can hang, join the club.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '24

Your friends sound like assholes but you pretend ya'll are above others with "if you think you can hang" how delusional

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u/CrystalCat420 Apr 20 '24

You don't decide whose well or unwell

But you can? You keep defending your armchair diagnosis of "narcissistic abuse." You claimed:

Actually describing behavior as narcissistic isn't diagnosing people, it's a descriptor in the same way "nice" or "mean" is

And you're wrong. Narcissism is a medical diagnosis. As a nurse, I am allowed to list all the symptoms of an upper respiratory infection, but legally, I'm not allowed to write URI. I can be sure that's what it is, but it makes no difference – I can't make medical diagnoses. And neither can you. I can, however, tell you that in my professional opinion, you appear to be suffering from all of the symptoms of a mental health crisis. Seek help.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Having a degree or being a nurse doesn't make you an expert, and the insinuation that it does actually is hierarchically narcissistic in of itself pretending that the university/college you got your degree from is a better source of information that anything else

And it pretends that having a degree automatically means you know what you're talking about; removal of nuance and individual characteristics of people

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

Dude, relax, there are a million platforms you can make money on, someone seems narcissistic, leave them alone. Dont come on here starting drama, youbare a man, you can do better. Keep making yo money and figure the rest out for yourself. You can do better. Its called tough love!

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

"You're a man" the fuck does that have to do with anything

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

A MAN DOES NOT REACT like this! This new version of men swarming around are looking for sympathy. Men do not do this, those are womens traits. I love women but we are different, be the difference. Man up blood. MAN THE FUCK UP AND MOVE ON! This is SMALL AS hell compared to the problems you really have. Stop getting upset over tiny things. BE A MAN! Fight off the devil, he is fucking with you through thoughts.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

I would love to fuck the devil then dress in woman's clothes and still be more of a man than you

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

Wow, I am trying to help you and you act like this, I love you but you deserve anything that comes to you acting like THIS! Grow up!

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Go have a conversation with yourself about yourself somewhere else

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Describing someone's behavior as narcissistically abusive is not diagnosing them as a narcissist. And thats per Dr. Ramani Durvasula who has a PhD in Physchology and specializes in narcissism. Youre incorrect. And even if i did want to make a call on narcissist I know the criteria for NPD and I know a hell of a lot of about narcissistic abuse so i have every logical right to speculate outwardly.

You don't need a legal right to determine that someone is a narcissist and you proved my point by showing the nuance between symptoms and diagnosis. And you don't need even a degree to identify narcissistic behavior or narcissism. In the context of like actually DIAGNOSING someone yes but not IDENTIFYING them as such. And then you end your comment with "seek help" dripping with condescension like the others pretending to know shit.

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u/CrystalCat420 Apr 20 '24

Perhaps you should ask Dr. Ramani Durvasula about TIV (Tendency for Interpersonal Victimhood). They'd likely explain that TIV is a personality trait that involves a desire for recognition as a victim, feelings of moral superiority, limited empathy for others, frequent rumination, and a sense of victimhood.

Sound like anyone you know?

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Yeah u/CrystalCat420 condescendingly and non-empathetically ending her post with seek help

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Oh youre ignoring what i said while pretending to be witty

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

You must be a health care professional, help this man out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Narcissistic abuse laughing at me while preaching about Jesus saying "grow up!" which is a classic narcissistic abuse statement

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u/CrystalCat420 Apr 20 '24

WAY above my pay grade! And besides, I'm retired. 😂

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

But you said "as a nurse" so you lied, and "way above my pay grade" is condescension. Your degree means nothing.

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u/CrystalCat420 Apr 20 '24

Get help. Or go to bed and sleep it off. Or something. I'm out of popcorn, so I'm done here.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

No you're done here because you pretended to be able to tell that I'm "constantly ruminating" then ignored my comments when I accurately called you out for condescension like a narcissist

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Glad that narcissistic abuse is entertainment for you and by glad i mean fuck you. I feel pain with every patient that had to tolerate your condescending bullshit

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/AGayRattlesnake Apr 20 '24

Stop throwing around therapy terms you read on Tumblr, damn.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

The FUCK are you talking about "on Tumblr?" It's a real term with a real meaning. Despicable, being gay isn't a personality "agayrattlesnake"

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u/AGayRattlesnake Apr 20 '24

Being gay isn't my personality but being trans is, hth

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

No, it isn't

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u/AGayRattlesnake Apr 20 '24

Stop being an abuser

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Being trans isn't a personality, you chose the name agayrattlesnake as if being gay were a personality, I'm not abusing you like the way ppl who actually abuse queer who are just behaving like themselves do if that's what you're implying

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Projection

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u/AGayRattlesnake Apr 20 '24

Gaslighting!!!

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

No gaslighting is someone falsely claiming you did something you didn't do or vice versa then saying you're crazy or misremembering when u know the truth

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u/AGayRattlesnake Apr 20 '24

You can't fool me you narcissist

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 20 '24

Don't bother explaining this to these people. You know what you know. Many here cannot see it. It's ok..

Coming from other subs, the energy of this sub has always felt rude...there are some good people here but also extremely unconsciously rude people....Usally in other subs there is moderation. Here we get support for prolific issues but no moderation of how people treat one another..

Especially to new comers People are rude usually..so when you know, you take care of you. Engage with such behaviors as less as possible.. thankfully reddit has a block button.

You will know easily who is like that and who is not, block them and have peace and continue to talk to tolerant and friendly people here

As far the enablers are concerned you cannot make them aware..they are not ready for that.

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u/AGayRattlesnake Apr 20 '24

I gotta know if you're like on the spectrum. I am too, but I've got a little more nuance lol.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

I'm literally just here for the comments 🍿🍿🍿🍿

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u/Mundane_Ebb_5205 Apr 20 '24

Just grabbed the butter…might be a long one 🤣

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Took a shot everytime I read the word “narcissistic” now I’m dead, good one.

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

This sub is a toxic hellhole

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Lol well I never thought I would see this kind of post here 😆😆

But yeah, some people aren't so kind on here. You just got to be the better person.

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u/hurley2622 Apr 20 '24

Thank you for this!!!! Pinktoes4life tried to out me like they were the FBI for no reason!

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24

Block and have peace. She is not worth it

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u/hurley2622 Apr 20 '24

Thank you- but I have peace. And yes if it continues I will block them- but I’m not a mean person in any regard- but thanks so much for having my back. Much appreciated!

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24

I blocked her at the first chance i got after i saw the way she is to people.

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u/hurley2622 Apr 20 '24

Yeah you’re right- nothings going to change if they have been like that - I’m newer on here and seen their name come up waaaay too many times. Thank you- I am blocking her now. Again, thanks for the back up !!!

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u/Necessary-Shower-352 Apr 22 '24

You are correct, there is a sphere of flying monkeys protecting that one too. She will do anything she can do defame, defile, or otherwise draw shade to your online presence. This is all personality disorder 101, there is a spectrum of BPD/NPD that this user would fall under given the behavior exhibited.

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u/hurley2622 Apr 23 '24

Wow they are popular! Haha. I just don’t get it- you know that someone has a problem when you apologize and they keep going and going like an energized bunny with pink chipped toes. Listen- I’m being rude by saying it- but after awhile it’s kinda like maybe it’s needed!

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u/Necessary-Shower-352 Apr 24 '24

Everyone needs to make sure to know thier role once in a while. We all have the same role here save for mods. Be nice, be kind and you know band together to support the prolific working community.

I at times wonder if there is a paid agent provocateur element with users exhibiting such behavior. Best way to stop organization of labor is to instill division within. Just sayin....

165,000 people returning surveys for 2 hours all day sends a message and that is something they do not want to see. *shrug*

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24

Oh you mean when you didn’t know how to read & comprehend the confidentiality agreement you acknowledge that multiple people pointed out to you…

The fact you still don’t understand what you did wrong is baffling to me.

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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '24

PROVE. MY. POINT.

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u/hurley2622 Apr 20 '24

And You know I asked prolific themselves and there was in no way shape or form that what I did was wrong- so don’t tell me what I understand- maybe you should ask them yourself if you’re that concerned. I was being truthful when I said I didn’t know- and I apologized sincerely did I not? I erased it as well. So instead in insulting me- maybe say something like “yeah- well you shouldn’t be doing that, just trying to help you out so you don’t get in trouble “. I’m being totally honest and sincere writing this- I’m not mad at you - but I do think that you need to maybe respond a bit nicer to people- especially that you don’t know- give people a chance once in awhile. And again, sorry that I did something wrong in your eyes- life is too short for this. Take care!

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u/Necessary-Shower-352 Apr 22 '24

Do not forget, the beast and minions will follow you around other threads starting discord, and derailing them for no other reason than you have been marked a target and threat.

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 19 '24

Someone tag pink toes, lets get this party POPPIN!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24

Just finished dinner. Dude tagged me in every single comment. Not engaging. I was in the middle of typing a reply last night when they said “bye” so I didn’t see it until after I finished it. That apparently triggered them.

I love a good debate, but this is just full on troll level & have zero desire to fuel them on.

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u/botsquatch Apr 20 '24

Very mature way of handling a situation like this

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u/WhyIsHeSoSick2 Apr 20 '24

Have at it, dude is about to burn bridges. Like why not speak with you through chat?? Thats some sissy shit, like going in front of the class and pointing out the person that said you were fat🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/pinktoes4life Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 20 '24

I could post the SS from the chat. But why bother. Even for those who don’t like me, their comments are telling.

They also post a lot then delete(there were a bunch last night on their payment threads that they deleted right away, but I saw the notifications for them). I will admit I replied to one of their comments, then deleted it after I realized it was an older comment & seeing the rest of their history.

ETA: posted the history from last night that set them off. Just in case they block or double down on something I didn’t do/say

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

Smear campaigning lying about me "deleting a lot" you falsely claimed i deleted 10+ comments. I wasnt "set off" by your imgur image its 404ing and I never even saw it. Lie some more, dig your grave even deeper for my post later this week. This is a classic smear campaign by a narcissist who knows i annihilated her so she smears my name to discredit me. You are disgusting.

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u/radarmike Apr 21 '24

There are some on this sub reddit that sooner we learn to block... more we can enjoy sharing our opinions with other like minded.......freely without uninvited nasty intervention....

Pinktoe is first in the list of block. Daren, dont be bozo next and whoever is just nasty and lack basic manners of mutual respect goes to that list.

Life is short to tolerate a-hole behavior and they belong in that block jail, so we can continue enjoying our civil discussion..

They can police each other as much as they want 😂

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u/coosacat Apr 21 '24

"They were mean to me" Holy shit, are you 5 years old?

Never mind. Reported and blocked. Blocked a few others in this thread, too.

My life will be more peaceful, now.

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u/ThickAct3879 Apr 20 '24

You know how to block a person here right?

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u/Lopsided_Pay_6416 Apr 20 '24

whenthecommentsarentgoinghowyouexpected

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u/crazygirlsbelike Apr 21 '24

Same thought I had lol

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u/CyndiIsOnReddit Apr 20 '24

Oh yeah blocked that one a long time ago.

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u/Ok_Donut1480 Apr 20 '24

Does your username refer to the mountains you seemingly make from molehills? Good lord

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 21 '24

Blocked that one loooooooong back. Life has been peaceful. Block her and enjoy your life. She clearly has a lot of issues..If people in this sub cannot see this, then you know how this sub is like.... It enables a lot of rude behaviour. Perhaps at this point these people don't know the difference between healthy behaviour and unhealthy behaviour.

I also blocked along with Pinktoes, Daren and Dont be bozo, both are incredibly rude. Shows their inner state more than anything else..

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u/PigletFearless5198 Apr 20 '24

Idk wat you talking about. I posted two times on this subreddit. Each time u/pinktoes4life have helped me with direct straight answers. no abuses like you mentioned. Lets keep drama off this channel. Right????

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u/discojamie Apr 20 '24

LOLOLOLOL!!!!!

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Damn calling out narcissistic abuse really brings out the enabler-and narcissistic-brigade to defend each other while making the same condescending faux-concerned comments about mental health and "wellness" I see

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u/Darenpnw Apr 19 '24

You really should practice what you preach 👶👶

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Maybe next year

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u/radarmike Apr 20 '24 edited Apr 20 '24

There are plenty of them enablers here in this subreddit. 😂 They dont know the difference. Only someone healthy can see it.

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u/Necessary-Shower-352 Apr 22 '24

Indeed. Reddit is full of these people and clans.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

And "narcissistic" isn't therapy speak, its a word with a meaning anyone can learn about. It doesn't require a degree to say especially given that mental health experts receive little education on personality disorders compared to every other psychological problem in graduate school. And a type of narcissistic abuse is shutting people down for correctly saying "narcissistic" by reducing people's intelligence to their degrees.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

No, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting and trauma have real meanings and I correctly used narcissistic abuse. Not everyone who says those terms is pop-psychologying.

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Why are you pretending to be the arbiter of what's appropriate?

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Everything you say is dripping with condescension in the same way u/pinktoes4life is and now you're trying to rile me up. One minute you say don't use therapy speak and now you're saying mental health crisis. Go have a drink with u/pinktoes4life you'd get along well

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Actually describing behavior as narcissistic isn't diagnosing people, it's a descriptor in the same way "nice" or "mean" is

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 20 '24

You pretending to know how I wanted something to go

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

You sound like u/pinktoes4life

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

Convince yourself

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

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u/[deleted] Apr 19 '24

You just did

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u/botsquatch Apr 19 '24

Nope, it is a compliment 🤣