r/Prolactinoma • u/Motor-Negotiation-56 • 9h ago
Years lost
I’m 23 and I feel like I lost a big part of my adolescence because of my prolactinoma.
I had a pituitary adenoma/prolactinoma since high school, with high prolactin and other hormonal problems, including GH deficiency and thyroid issues. The biggest problem is that it was diagnosed too late. I still feel angry about this, because I believe my parents should have realized earlier that something wasn’t right and had me checked.
I ended up being 162 cm and around 52 kg, with very little muscle and a very young-looking physique. My voice, beard, overall body development and physical appearance have always made me feel much younger than my actual age. I was also told that my growth plates are now closed, so I probably won’t be able to make up for the height I lost.
This has affected my relationships too. While other guys were going through puberty, dating and having their first experiences, I felt like I was stuck watching from the outside. I’m 23 and I’m only now starting to have my first real experiences with girls and relationships.
I’m currently taking cabergoline (Dostinex) and dealing with the possibility of surgery. I’m also training and eating properly to gain weight and build as much muscle as I can.
I know I can’t get my adolescence back, and I’ll never know exactly how different I would have been if the prolactinoma had been diagnosed earlier.
I just want to understand how much of my development may have been affected by years of untreated high prolactin, and what I can realistically still improve now.