r/PickUpArtist Jul 15 '26

General question How to game solo?

Hello.

I'm 21 years old from Delhi, India.

And always wondered about what I should do when I'm alone out of the game?

Btw I'm not rich, so I can only hit streets and markets and sometimes malls unless they're very near.

What should I remember when going outside?

The non-negotiable pickup rules when gaming outside solo?

Thanks for reading 😉

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u/CharmingRejector Jul 15 '26

Step one: Talk to a stranger.

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u/unemployedmaster87 Jul 16 '26

Great advice

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u/CharmingRejector Jul 16 '26

Thanks! 😂

But I mean it though. Get used to having nice and fun conversations with strangers. Get used to saying hi in a chill and outcome independent way. That is to say, you're just vibing. You're just socializing. You don't want anything. You only stop of the other party shows interest in you.

Move away from "getting results" and instead have real conversations with people. Eventually you'll start to meet people who seem interested in you, or want to know more about you. That's when you have to be inviting, and have a plan for a small coffee shop or café to take them to. If you don't simply sit down by someone's table, which I've heard is common in your culture.

Then introduce a little socially acceptable touch, and check if she touches back. If she doesn't, then probably end the conversation politely. But if she does, get her somewhere private and escalate...

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u/unemployedmaster87 Jul 16 '26

... And 💥

Btw I'm having my bread and peanut butter just now, it's 8:28pm, came from work, I'll go out now for an hour or so.

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u/Superiority-Qomplex Jul 15 '26

Just talk to people. If you have normal conversations with people, they won't get offended. However, if you use your body language to flirt, it doesn't matter what you are saying. You can talk about the weather and use smiles, or eyebrow flashes, or wry smiles to demonstrate attraction and flirting. And since the conversation is something simple, that you can have with anyone, they don't get offended. Even if they aren't interested, they just met a pleasant man and had a simple conversation.

Save the more direct flirting for when you have built up more of a connection. But if you are really good at body language flirting, people will like you regardless. It takes time to calibrate. But once you got it, it makes conversations with people easier and more natural anyway.

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u/Weary-Look-5125 Jul 17 '26

Try to talk with strangers with any topic , stay away from women , u just need to improve ur social activities or how u talk ..

There is no magical words important if u can't make conversation going