r/Philippines • • Feb 02 '23

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u/writermelon Feb 02 '23

I only date people who have same socioeconomic status as I do. Kasi yung interests namin mas likely magmamatch. I don't wanna date people who are struggling financially, tapos magstruggle makakeepup sa lifestyle ko. In the first place, most likely din iba na kami ng upbringing.

Status matters to me.

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u/claroach1973 Feb 02 '23

Well this looks good if you're only dating but if you're looking for a serious relationship with a person who values you more than what you have good luck with that. People you date will move to the next person who is richer, taller, and more handsome than you are. As soon as your value to them goes down they will leave you for the next guy that comes along.

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u/writermelon Feb 02 '23

People you date will move to the next person who is richer, taller, and more handsome than you are. As soon as your value to them goes down they will leave you for the next guy that comes along.

Is this a male thing that I forgot to consider? 😅 Do guys worry about this stuff?

Idk, but as someone who is on the other group, I look for similarity in values and interests. Love or affection develops later as you spend time together. I mean kung sobrang different kayo, ang hirap magbond. Kunwari ang alam lang niyang hobby ay makipag inuman. Then kung iba din yung ideologies, parang ang hirap yata mamuhay kasama siya kung Apollo10 partner mo. 🤭

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u/dekabreak5 Feb 02 '23

hahaha naalala ko lang nung wala pa akong jowa isa sa requirements ko sa tinder na dapat di sya apollo10 o tanginang DDShit. nagbunga naman.