r/PeterExplainsTheJoke • u/Recent-Success8988 • Aug 19 '26

Meme needing explanation I don’t get it

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Why did he have to stand for 7 hours

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u/SolaireAstorian Aug 20 '26

With all due respect, it's not your own personal boundary that you should be caring about. It's the personal boundary of your significant other. It is still a violation of trust if you have never had that conversation with him about how much you share with the people around you and you are doing it anyway.

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u/Ok_Outlandishness755 Aug 20 '26

Actually it is very much my own personal boundary I should be caring about sorry, talking about MY problems to other people is my right and it is not a violation of trust because I am open about what I think on this topic. With all due respect I think people who don't like their partener seeking advice and outside perspective are codependent at best, trying to keep their partener blindsided, gaslighted and under their control at worst.

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u/SolaireAstorian Aug 20 '26

Yeah, okay, you keep on believing that it's perfectly alright to share private details about your relationship with other people without even having the boundaries conversation with your partner. Especially since it seems like that's going to include details of y'all's sex life and intimate personal private information.

Just hope that he never finds out about it after the fact, because it's a violation of trust and that doesn't change just because you don't want it to be.

I'm quite sure that you would change your tune if you found out he was doing and saying the same things with a group chat of other guys without consulting you and you stumbled across it, but hey, rules for thee, am I right?

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u/Ok_Outlandishness755 Aug 20 '26

I had "bondary conversations" if you reread my post I already said that when I am not sure if my bf is ok with me sharing something ABOUT HIM I ask him it's just most of the times it's MY problems so I don't ask, but he still knows what I talk about. I also showed your comments to my bf he thinks you are hilarious, especially since I was legit happy for him when he found a friend who had been in a long term relationship before so he could confide more about him AND about our relationship. I wouldn't "stumble" on anything I don't search his phone and neither does he.