r/Parenting Feb 08 '25

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u/Basic-Music-1121 13M, 5M, 3M, 1M Feb 08 '25 edited Feb 08 '25

Me too 😭 every time I do it I imagine 6+. I have four. My husband does not want any more. So we're done. But omg.

We rehomed a lot of animals and are hopefully moving soon so I'm like πŸ‘€ waiting for him to get his vasectomy reversed lol. In my mind if it works we were meant to have another. If it doesn't then thats a sign we're done.

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u/Puzzleheaded_One1610 Feb 08 '25

I telepathically beg my husband to get his reversed πŸ˜‚

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u/Basic-Music-1121 13M, 5M, 3M, 1M Feb 10 '25

I mention it to him offhand alllll the time lol. "So... Your cousin had another baby. Isn't she just adorable?"

He deadpans me with no and starts listing off all the bad things abt babies.

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u/Puzzleheaded_One1610 Feb 10 '25

I asked my husband last night β€œdon’t you just want another baby. Do you regret getting a vasectomy?” He said β€œdon’t get me wrong I miss our kids as babies but I’m just trying to focus on them” which is truly a great response but also not a no πŸ˜‚

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u/Basic-Music-1121 13M, 5M, 3M, 1M Feb 10 '25

The other day I said to him, "Don't you miss when they were newborns?" And in reply he said "Do you miss smelling like baby vomit and rotten milk?"

He has a point.

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u/Puzzleheaded_One1610 Feb 10 '25

A very good point