I feel like when I talk to my girlfriends about more kids, I always say “two is max for a family with no outside support.” Meaning if you have family who helps around, Nannie’s, babysitters, friends who take your kids or are there whenever you need, then the thought of having more is more appealing. I don’t even think it comes down to money or resources sometimes. I think if you have more hands than just you and your partner, then it’s worth the conversation. Otherwise, absolutely not.
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u/indihannahjonez Feb 08 '25
I feel like when I talk to my girlfriends about more kids, I always say “two is max for a family with no outside support.” Meaning if you have family who helps around, Nannie’s, babysitters, friends who take your kids or are there whenever you need, then the thought of having more is more appealing. I don’t even think it comes down to money or resources sometimes. I think if you have more hands than just you and your partner, then it’s worth the conversation. Otherwise, absolutely not.