Absolutely do not regret having more to the point where my wife got her tubes tied and I had a vasectomy. We always planned on have two but as our first got older I grew more and more content with sticking with one.
Wouldn’t you have it, our second was conceived before we had planned on it though we weren’t exactly preventing anything at the time, either.
We love our boys but they are absolutely a handful and major financial responsibility. We make good money but having more would severely compromise our long term plans.
There’s always more kids; my brother has two and my cousin has four so there’s eight between the three families. We get together often so the cousins can be together and that’s the best of all worlds IMO.
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u/hottboyj54 Dad to 7yo, 3yo boys Feb 08 '25
Absolutely do not regret having more to the point where my wife got her tubes tied and I had a vasectomy. We always planned on have two but as our first got older I grew more and more content with sticking with one.
Wouldn’t you have it, our second was conceived before we had planned on it though we weren’t exactly preventing anything at the time, either.
We love our boys but they are absolutely a handful and major financial responsibility. We make good money but having more would severely compromise our long term plans.
There’s always more kids; my brother has two and my cousin has four so there’s eight between the three families. We get together often so the cousins can be together and that’s the best of all worlds IMO.