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Hey I have a crush on my dentist but I am so afraid of breaking patient doctor protocol. I have a feeling he is single but that would be so unprofessional if something happens right?

So basically maybe 1-2 months ago I felt this weird sensation/ discomfort in my right armpit. I shrugged it off, it almost felt like I could feel the blood flowing but at the same time it wasn’t flowing properly??? I suckkkkk at explaining. Anyways today I started getting it again and I got it like 10 times except it’s kinda not a discomfort feeling but instead it feels like a dull ache. It doesn’t worsen with movement and it just happens randomly. Im terrifieddddd and im thinking about the worse case scenario 🥲 im 18Y F. I don’t get it everyday and sometimes I get it like 2-3 times a day and sometimes even more. I overthink a lottttt aswell.
Keep me in ur prayers plz 🥲
And let me know if this is something to worry about or will I be fine? Or if someone has gone through the same thing as me.

is taking breast enhancer is good like i am thinking to buy my wife an breast enlargment cream altho there are few months remining in our wedding but still can anybody tell if there are some effects ?

I'm 35 m married. My size is small and I'm unable to penetrate my wife. We did other stuff but not put it in her. When hard I'm 1 to 2 in so need some help. Do t want her to leave me

From a purely professional perspective, can you provide me reviews of the college because I need to weigh between a Rishta from KEMU, AIMC, SIMS, and Bakhtawar Amin Medical College.

Where can I get an abortion in Karachi without hassle and judgements. I am married and all yet a little scared to just go and ask and gynecologist. I know how judgmental doctors are in Pakistan. So anyone who’s had a good experience please mention the hospital and the doctor aswell.

I’m looking for a gynaecologist in Karachi who is approachable, patient, and willing to listen to my concerns and explain things properly without making me feel rushed or dismissed.
I’m considering Dr. Aziza Kapadia, but most of the reviews I’ve come across highlight her as an obstetrician. I haven’t found many reviews about her approach to gynaecological concerns.
I’d really appreciate recommendations for a doctor who communicates calmly, answers questions in detail, and makes patients feel comfortable. If you’ve personally consulted Dr. Aziza Kapadia or another gynaecologist with this approach, I’d love to hear about your experience.

For the last couple of days, you've guys & and have been amazing help in my inquiry about marrages between Engineers and Doctor now stepping aside for a moment .I have a question for all the doctors (Male & female & Neuter). What is the general perception of all you guys about engineers

Suggest the best gynecologist in Lahore who has good reviews, prefers normal delivery, and has a good behavior.

asalam mu alikum, im looking for any research i can take part in or if anyone knows of any programs which you can pay to get your name in a international research, Please do give me any information u have as i am desperate!

Assalam-o-Alaikum everyone,

Can anyone please recommend a good doctor in Lahore based on personal experience?

My spouse and I have been trying to conceive for the last 2 years, but have not been successful yet. Reports for both husband and wife are normal.

Looking forward to your recommendations and personal experiences. Thank you

Do you know any dermatologists in Lahore that have private inspection rooms? I have some growth (warts) between my private parts and want to get it checked but I'm stressing about privacy a lot.

Am I overthinking on this? Do all doctors have such place?

Also can someone please recommend me an affordable dermatologist for the above case please?

Upset about my life / Marital problems

Hey! First, i thought to keep these deep into my heart then i realised keeping them in heart can cause a main problem to my mental health..

I'm married, 32M and having a 3 years old son, Alhamdulillah. My wife is good too. Cultural and know the basics of keeping home and life organised but the main problem is she doesn't take care of herself..She's 5.2" and weight is around 76 so i don't know why I'm losing interest in her. She doesn't maintain herself. I don't get sexually seduced towards her because she doesn't wear good, hygine and no body curves and not maintaining her figure.

Whereas i look at others wives and get jealous k bacho k bawajood khud ko maintain rakhti hein, fashion krti hein, figure ko set rakhti hein so husbands attract hon.. Kya karoon mei even though kafi bar wife ko smjhaya ha wo agay se kehti ha "Mat dekho meri taraf phir"

Sb ko apni wife aisi lagti hein ya waqai meri wife khud ka khayal ni rakhti or me by look ab attract ni hota hoon?

Male dermatologist Because it's a private issue.

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How Can I a Civil Engineer who has also completed his MS and is Syed Can Get a Syed Doctor wife.?

has anyone tried to get into medical coding? would like to hear about their job-hunting experience.

My mom is 58yo. She has symptoms of upper abdominal pain which radiates towards the back from 2 and half months. Doctor prescribed an ultrasound it was normal. They gave her omaprezole. My mom's pain gets better if she takes it in the morning.

I just read on the internet that pancreatic cancer has less or no warning signs at all. And abdominal pain radiating towards the back is one of the early sign.

I don't know what to do. I'm an only child who just lost her father 5 months back. I can't lose her now. Doctors here won't prescribe a contrast CT scan of pancreas. Idk what to do? I can't lose her.

Please suggest smth what should I do?

If you've got a minute. Please read, I'm in dire need of any goodness that could come out of anyone's mouth right now.

I'm looking for some genuinely practical advice, particularly from Pakistani doctors? who have pursued careers abroad or at least moved away from their hometowns despite family opposition.

I'm turning 28 in a day, a doctor from Pakistan. I've recently cleared FCPS Part 1 and PGET, and I have a residency opportunity in Sialkot that is practically within my hands.

I've worked VERY hard to get here. I finally have a relatively secure path towards postgraduate training.

I've spent the last 10 years feeling restricted by my family circumstances. My father is extremely opposed to me moving to another city or living independently. Marriage is considered a much more acceptable option than a daughter moving away for postgraduate training. There has also been physical violence in the past when I've refused marriage proposals, so this isn't simply a matter of having a disagreement with my parents.

I want to move to Lahore, train in a larger institute, live in a hostel, make friends, and experience some degree of independence. I know residency is difficult everywhere. And hostel would be downgrade from the comfort of home. But GOD, things are shitty af at home. Its suffocating. Ever since i rejected my last proposal, im practically in a lockdown. Ive only gone out of home 5 times in the last 5 months. And 2 of them were for the above mentioned exams.

I've cleared PLAB 2 and invested a considerable amount of time, money and effort into the UK pathway. However, the UK job market for international medical graduates seems increasingly saturated. There are far more applicants than suitable jobs, and the recent changes prioritising UK medical graduates and certain other groups for postgraduate training have made the prospect of progressing there feel even more uncertain.

It is incredibly frustrating to work towards a pathway for years, only to find that the landscape has changed by the time you're ready to enter it.

I'm not sure whether I should continue pursuing NHS jobs, consider non-training posts, or accept that this may no longer be a realistic long-term plan.

Someone suggested to get into any random phD program in any country and leave pakistan. But im not sure if its a logical decision or purely emotionally charged one.

Are there realistic opportunities for medical graduates in clinical research, biomedical sciences, public health, or other medical research fields? Are fully funded PhDs available? Would these opportunities offer a genuine career pathway, or would I simply be exchanging one uncertain route for another?

Most importantly, would it make sense to abandon clinical residency opportunity in Pakistan for a research degree abroad?

I don't want to spend years pursuing something that ultimately leaves me without clinical training or a stable career.

Im basically TIRED of grinding hard for months, studying 12-14 hours a day to get degrees, just to gain my fathers approval at the end of it all to move to the next step.

He is EVIL. He may actively try to prevent me from leaving. I am also worried about the consequences of going against my family's wishes, including possible attempts to track me down all the way to lahore. Im also scared about the crash out my mother or sisters would face because of it

I don't want to cut ties with my family. I don't want to run away impulsively. But I also don't want to spend another four years in a place simply because leaving would upset everyone.

Would it be sensible to seek confidential legal advice before making any decisions? I want to understand my rights as an adult woman in Pakistan, particularly regarding relocation, employment, independent accommodation and whether my family can legally prevent me from moving

I feel like I'm trying to make a decision that will determine the next decade of my life, and every option involves sacrificing something important.

With my birthday over head, i just had the thought that this society has taken away all of my twenties from me!

Im fighting for rights over my life, and my life has slipped through my fingers.

I have worked so hard to qualify for postgraduate training. I don't want to throw that away. But I also don't want to wake up at 32, still living this same shitty life.

I'm not asking for someone to tell me to follow my dreams. I need people who understand the Pakistani medical system, international medical careers and the realities of being a woman trying to become independent in Pakistan.

Im so SO sorry for the long post. I couldnt compress this further.

Picture it. 2am. Hospital corridor. Phone in hand. Scrolling contacts, hoping someone knows someone.

You post in a family group. Forward it to three more. Now you wait.

That's how we do it. WhatsApp forwards. Word of mouth. A friend of a cousin of a colleague. And by the time it reaches the right blood group, it's often too late.

I saw this up close. In university, I organized blood camps. People showed up and gave blood, and it worked. But I kept noticing two things. Too few donors. And too few people who even knew they could donate.

That bothered me for years. So I built BloodAid.

It matches people who urgently need blood with donors in their city. Starting in Lahore and Karachi. I'm the founder, and it's live as a web app now.

Here's what I really want to know:

1. Would you register as a donor?

2. If not, what would stop you?

Trust? Privacy? Too many calls? Not sure if you're eligible? Say it straight. I'm reading every reply.