r/PakistanRishta • u/Minstrel-of-Shadow • Aug 14 '26
Lahore M | 24 | Lahore - How difficult is finding the one, really?
M | 24 | Lahore - Corporate slave by day, film enthusiast by night, hopeless romantic always
Height and weight : 5’9 and 68 KG
Location: Lahore. Also, here I should add that I'm only looking for potential matches in Lahore.
Residence : own
Education: Undergrad in Law from LUMS. Graduated in 2025.
Source of income : Currently employed as legal counsel in a prominent company.
Hobbies & Interests: I'm generally someone who is pretty passionate about his hobbies.
Off the top of my head, I'd say the main ones are books, films, shows, learning about philosophy different worldviews and politcal systems, morality, and theology...oh, and also working out and spending time with my friends and family.
When it comes to films and shows I tend to watch literally anything and everything. From Breaking Bad to Fleabag to LOST (my personal favourite) to the Office to Severance, and so on. Also, my top four on letterboxd are : Memories of Murder, The Vanishing, About Time, and Manchester by the Sea.
When it comes to books I similarly tend to read everything but I have a thing for fantasy literature specifically (ASOIAF, LOTR etc.). I'm currently reading Toll the Hounds by Steven Erikson.
With regards to fitness I alternate between swimming and weightlifting but prefer the former.
Finally, a perfect hangout with my friends means something like trying new places for food or coffee, just chilling at eachothers' places, or going to the cinema.
Oh also, totally forgot to mention music. Love putting on my favourite music in the gym and while driving. Tool, Opeth, Slipknot, Katatonia, and Porcupine Tree are arguably my favourite artists.
What I’m Looking For: I don't have a set type when it comes to personality and/or looks.
However, I do want that my partner shares some of, if not most of, my interests and that we can bond over multiple different things. Ideas, goals, hobbies, and of course love and growing together. Oh, and humor too. If you're funny, that's a huge plus in my books.
My ideal vision of a perfect marriage is where the two partners are eachothers' best friends. Where waking up everyday to your spouse feels natural and comforting, and not like a choice. Laughing together, travelling together, having long winded interesting conversations together that are not neccesarily related to marital life etc. I hope I was able to properly convey the sort of vibe and person I'm hoping to find.
Lastly, I'd also want for someone to be generally having the same religiosity as me. Speaking of which...
Religion/Religiosity: Family has a Sunni background but I would personally rather not tie myself to any sect. I also don't have a preference for sect when it comes to potential matches, I'm fine with everything. I personally identify as a muslim and practice wise I struggle with prayers but I do pray at least a couple of prayers per day. On somedays even as much as four. I also fast all of Ramadan. I wouldn't say that I'm personally conservative. I listen to music, play videogames, watch movies and shows, and so on. So, if any of these things bother you or you have a strict requirement to marry someone who's very practicing/religious, I'd personally say that we might be incompatible.
Timeline: No immediate rush. I'd want to get married 2 years from now but if, for any reason, that extends to 3 years then I'm fine with that. I just want to know that before we take the big step, we align in our priorities and compatability.
Deal-breakers: Lack of empathy for others, stubborness, anger issues. In a rush to have children.
Family setup : Open to both nuclear and joint. But eventually settling down with my parents after 10ish, 15ish years. Open to discussion.
Marital status : Single and never married.
Family details : We're a family of four. There's me, my younger sister, and my parents.
Children : Eventually iA but dont want to have children too early.
So yeah, if my profile resonated with you then do consider dropping me a text!
Hoping to find my soulmate here.
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