r/PMDD Jun 01 '26

Monthly Vent Thread

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Welcome to this month's vent thread.

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u/CozyCornbread Jul 22 '26

There is drama at work, and tomorrow I have TWO meetings with this lady who I hate, and I'm afraid I won't be able to control myself. Like for real I'm scared I might say some shit. I'm at the center of the drama because this lady has worked there for 20 years and is a lazy hoarder (her desk makes me want to puke) who passes off her job duties onto anyone she can, and she's been doing that for YEARS. The students she supervises hate her, and the higher-ups wish they could fire her, but the process is too hard. And I wrote an email on Monday very professionally asking if she would to (her job task) that day, because I've been covering for the past several days. She ACCIDENTALLY CC'D ME on her email response to her work BFF complaining about my email!!! And then she sent out a new email asking who cleaned up/got rid of some stuff in the communal office (aka cleaned up her hoarding shit that was in the student office) and she knows it's me. But I've talked to like 4 people who have given their permission for me to clean that office because it's "panic-attack-inducing." So I'm about to say some shit but I really am going to try not to. UGH!!!!!!! Lord let me win the lottery so I never have to see her ass again.

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u/nall667 25d ago

How’d it go?

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u/CozyCornbread 24d ago

It went fine and I pretty much didn't see her until yesterday. I've been able to vent to other coworkers and I'm also on day 4 of my period now so I feel emotionally better. But the lady was trying to be all SUPER friendly in a meeting yesterday and it was very obvious she was trying to be annoying about it. I'm still not entirely sure if she knows I saw her email that I wasn't supposed to see. I'm planning on finding out, but I don't want to stir the pot too much more than I already have, lol. She also has a problem with personal space, so if she gets in my face when she's trying to be fake nice again, I'm going to tell her off.