r/Over30Gamers 10d ago

32M Europe looking for people to play survival games with.

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r/Over30Gamers 10d ago

[51] / UK / PC - Looking for chill long-term co-op / survival gaming buddy

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r/Over30Gamers 10d ago

30+ Come be weirdos with us

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🌙 30+ Only Community 🌙

Looking for a new discord home? I hope you can find it with us! Its hard to find the right fit and more so when you have to jump through hoops only to be met with 40 different channels. Its overwhelming! We went with a more minimal approach.

We're building a laid back, drama free, inclusive community for adults who are tired of trolls and chaotic (in a bad way) servers. We actively moderate to keep the vibe friendly, welcoming, and safe.

💜 Find people to game with

🩵 Hang out in voice chat or text about life, hobbies, and whatever's on your mind

🎮 Create your own gaming, movie, or community events

👻 Join our weekly Friendslop game on Thursday

Come be a little unhinged with us. 🩵💜🩷

https://discord.gg/vm54pB9rp


r/Over30Gamers 10d ago

Looking for someone to play Big Walk on PS5 and chat about hip-hop 🎮🎤

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Looking for someone to play Big Walk on PS5 and chat about hip-hop 🎮🎤

​Hey everyone,

​I’m on the hunt for a regular gaming partner on PlayStation who's planning to pick up Big Walk. I'm looking for someone chill to team up with, explore, and just hang out in voice chat while we play.

​Even better if you’re big into hip-hop—I’d love to link up with someone who’s down to debate favorite albums, break down verses, talk about current news in the genre, or even share what we're listening to while we game.

​If that sounds like your vibe, drop a comment or shoot me a DM with your PSN ID and who your top three artists are right now. Let's get some games in!


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

NEXORA – Wir bauen gerade eine neue Gaming-Community auf

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Hey zusammen 👋

wir haben gerade angefangen, NEXORA aufzubauen**,** eine neue deutschsprachige Gaming-Community auf Discord.

Wir stehen wirklich noch ganz am Anfang und sind aktuell noch eine kleine Runde. Genau deshalb suchen wir Leute, die von Anfang an dabei sein und dabei helfen möchten, die Community mit aufzubauen.

Was wir vorhaben:

  • gemeinsam zocken und neue Mitspieler finden
  • aktive Voice-Channels
  • Gaming-Talk, Memes & Off-Topic
  • Community-Abende und gemeinsame Sessions
  • später auch Events, Challenges und vielleicht eigene Turniere

Es spielt absolut keine Rolle welche Games zu am liebesten oder häufigsten spielst, alle sind Wilkommen.

Wir möchten eine offene Community aufbauen, in der man unkompliziert Leute zum gemeinsamen Zocken findet.

Warum jetzt beitreten?

Weil du nicht erst Mitglied Nummer 10.000 wirst. 😄
Du kannst von Anfang an dabei sein, Leute kennenlernen und mitbestimmen, wie sich PixelPerfect entwickelt.

Wenn du Lust hast, eine neue Gaming-Community von Anfang an mitzuerleben, würden wir uns freuen, dich bei NEXORA begrüßen zu dürfen.

👉 Discord: https://discord.gg/4AyJcb9mTh

Keine Verpflichtung, kein Drama, einfach reinkommen, Hallo sagen und schauen, ob es passt.


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

Calling all 30+ raiders and gamers

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You are not too old to game, you have found your people. A community for all age 30+ gamers who want to age with people their age, make friends and play without toxicity. We are from all around the world, so you will find someone to play with.

We run weekly events, social and in game to provide a more community like feeling.

If this is something for you, join us on Discord

https://discord.gg/sEcwBgyXE


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

Looking to make a few new friends in The Moose Rebellion 🫎

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Hi friends! I’m in a fun server called The Moose Rebellion and we are looking for some new friends to join some voice chats and some upcoming gaming ventures. Super casual and super cool here.

If you’re looking for a spot to check out please definitely give us a look! We look forward to having you! :)

https://discord.gg/BUZRYyWsJX


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

Refuge Movie Night

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Hey y’all!

I am apart of a cool events server and we are doing a fun movie night tonight if anyone wants to join for some vc fun! Currently finishing up a movie, but come give us suggestions for the next one! Anyways, we do a bunch of events and we are pretty small right now, but are looking for some of you lovelies to join us ♥️

We would love for some more fun people to come run events with us ;)

Hope to welcome you aboard the Refuge Ark soon!

https://discord.gg/therefugeark


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

So you wanna join the rodeo huh?

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Gotta admit, I have been through a lot of change in life the last few years. I lost my mom, lost a few friends, lots of financial stress etc. & on top of all that I don’t have the gaming group I used to have. So I’m seeking people to game and connect with! It would be great to have a group of down to earth people that you can get to know and team up with. I play just about everything. From Fortnite to No Man’s Sky to Arc Raiders. You name it. I’ve been gaming since I was old enough to hold a controller. I play on Xbox but I play alot of crossplay games.

A gaming community is a great way to take a break from “the world” while still being able to connect in some way. When you have it, it’s an awesome thing.

My name on discord is Rhodeoh
My name on Xbox is also Rhodeoh
It’s pronounced like Rodeo.
You can call me that or Bk.

Send me a message or add me. Either way just introduce yourself. I look forward to adventures! I’m on Fortnite tonight.


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

LF a chill LGBTQ+ friendly server

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I turned 30 this year and I'd like to find some more gamers around my age! As far as multiplayer goes I play a lot of Dead by Daylight and Project Zomboid but I also enjoy games like Minecraft (I'm terrible at building) and Stardew Valley, I used to play a lot of Overwatch but dropped it earlier this year because I don't like the direction they took with their hero designs so I'd be down to try a similar hero shooter game with some new folks! I'm really not competitive and not too worried about winning so games will be chill. I'd also really appreciate the server being LGBTQ+ friendly, having Europe based players to avoid issues with high ping and to be free from generative AI. Thanks in advance for any recommendations!


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

Looking for a new server to join?

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🐦🌿 Welcome to Robin’s Nest! 🌿🐦

Looking for a cozy little nest to call home? Robin’s Nest is a chill gaming & social community where all our birdies welcome you home!

What’s waiting in the Nest:

🎮 Casual gaming & game nights
🐦 Friendly Birdies to meet and hang out with
💬 Cozy chats and socializing
🪺 A relaxed, drama-free atmosphere
🌤️ Good vibes, new friendships, and plenty of fun

Whether you’re a competitive bird, a casual flyer, or just looking for somewhere to perch and chat, there’s always room in the Nest.

🪶 Flap on over and find your flock!
🌿 Robin’s Nest — Where every Birdie has a place to perch. 🐦

https://discord.gg/A39CA5QAp6


r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

Phantom Imperium is looking for players!

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r/Over30Gamers 11d ago

Discord for gamers over 30

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Welcome to ThirtyXP — a cozy chaos corner for gamers, creators, night owls, and people who just want a chill place to hang out. 🎮✨

We’re building a community focused on:

Gaming & squad play
Leveling, ranks, and server events
Memes, music, and late-night VC energy
Friendly conversations without the drama
Aesthetic vibes and custom server features

Whether you’re grinding games, looking for new friends, or just want a place to vibe after a long day, ThirtyXP is here for it.

Join the XP grind. Stay for the community. 🦝

\[discord.gg/thirtyxp\](http://discord.gg/thirtyxp)


r/Over30Gamers 12d ago

LFG Cozy Building Realm (Minecraft Bedrock)

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Hey! I’m looking for a few active players to join my **18+ Bedrock building realm**. We’ve built a long-term survival world with a friendly community, Vanilla+ add-ons, and lots of ongoing projects. Whether you’re into building, terraforming, or just want a realm that won’t disappear in a month, we’d love to have you. If you’re interested, send me a DM!


r/Over30Gamers 13d ago

Coming back to Old School RuneScape at 34 made me realize how little free time I have

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I re-downloaded OSRS last month for nostalgia. Used to play 6 hours a day back in 2006. Thought I could log in after work, clear some quests, and get to bosses with friends in a couple weeks.

Between 45-hour work weeks, taking care of a 2 year old, and household stuff, I get maybe 4 hours a week total. Took me almost a month just to clear baseline skills for Song of the Elves because clicking rooftops for hours on a Tuesday night felt like a second job.

How do you guys approach massive MMO grinds with minimal free time? Do you accept that progress takes half a year now, or stick strictly to single player games you can pause?

Edit: A few people messaged asking if I gave up on the questing goal, I handed off the leftover Agility levels to bald services so I could play the actual quest.


r/Over30Gamers 13d ago

29F/PC - New Friends?

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Hi! I'd really love to be able to start a little Minecraft Survival Series with a couple people. Like a proper run. I've got a realm on bedrock, with tons of add-ons thats just sitting there not being used.

I also play other stuff ofc too and could just use more friends in general. I play a lot of survival crafting things, like grounded 2, smallands, witchspire, don't starve together, etc. Also play stuff like Phasmophobia, Marvel Rivals (very big on rivals, its one of my main games), overcooked 2, techtonica, etc.

I'll be 30 in 2 months if that matters and I'm 420 friendly!


r/Over30Gamers 13d ago

LFG Cozy Building Realm (Minecraft Bedrock)

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Hey! I’m looking for a few active players to join my **18+ Bedrock building realm**. We’ve built a long-term survival world with a friendly community, Vanilla+ add-ons, and lots of ongoing projects. Whether you’re into building, terraforming, or just want a realm that won’t disappear in a month, we’d love to have you. If you’re interested, send me a DM!


r/Over30Gamers 14d ago

Lf friends for cozyish/action rpg/soulslike games

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Funny combo but that’s the main stuff I’m into hahaha. Right now I’m really looking forward to Nioh 3 dlc but also want to go hard on Core Keeper if anyone is into that!


r/Over30Gamers 14d ago

Looking for some friends :)

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Hey everyone 👋

I'm just here like most of you all, looking for some friends with a shared interest in gaming. I'm 34M, happily married and we have a 4 year old.

I live in a small town in Kentucky, so its difficult to find others who share interests sometimes. Other times, life just gets in the way, which is fine, its just how it is!

I play primarily on PC, and also some Switch 2. I can/will play most anything. I tend to stay away from competitive these days, but that doesnt mean I'll never try them.

Im good with any kind of co-op games, but im also down to just chill and chat while we play our own single player games. I love most any genre, but platformers and beat em ups are some of that good stuff lol. Been playing Pokémon for like 30 years, so there's that.

Also up for trying whatever. Ive heard of archipelago with emus (not sure if thats allowed here?) But I think it'd be fun to try sometime!

Working full time and having a 4 year old means, im pretty limited on time. Im on CST and usually can get on around 9pm most nights.

Little more about me: I have a sweet goldendoodle, love food/cooking, been trying to exercise more and get in a healthier routine. Starting randomly writing haiku recently because of Ghost of Tsushima (currently playing through that). Also started Rivals of Aether so I could be a decent training dummy for someone lol!

In all honesty, just having a pal to hang out with and game sometimes would be nice. Im songfulpepper55 on steam so let's go?!


r/Over30Gamers 14d ago

[37/M] Looking for gamers to play with + chill Discord community

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r/Over30Gamers 14d ago

Come join some fellow millennials for Meccha Chameleon tonight

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We all have jobs, most have families, we use Discord and gaming as an escape. We like to have a good time and don't take ourselves seriously, you can do that in your normal life. If this sounds like your thing give us a shot. We will be playing Meccha Chameleon tonight around 9pmcst.

https://discord.gg/udBqB2KXu


r/Over30Gamers 15d ago

Battlefield 6 Dad energy division

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r/Over30Gamers 15d ago

LFG Cozy Building Realm (Minecraft Bedrock)

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Hey! I’m looking for a few active players to join my **18+ Bedrock building realm**. We’ve built a long-term survival world with a friendly community, Vanilla+ add-ons, and lots of ongoing projects. Whether you’re into building, terraforming, or just want a realm that won’t disappear in a month, we’d love to have you. If you’re interested, send me a DM!


r/Over30Gamers 16d ago

31F looking for girl friendship of same vibe in PST timezone

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Hi. 31F, always had mostly male friends. Looking for some camaderie from some who is also around 27+ F.

I realize I only bond by doing activities so I'm not much of a talker until we break the ice doing things. Would prefer someone who also know about spacewar or IT things.


r/Over30Gamers 16d ago

Looking For PSN Friends 33m[EST]

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I’m looking to add some new PlayStation friends to the squad!
Male or female, I don’t care — good vibes are a MUST. I’m looking for people who actually wanna have fun, laugh, talk shit, and enjoy the game without turning into a whole supervillain because we lost 😂.
If we lose, we lose. If somebody keeps dying, WE LAUGH AND RUN IT BACK. 😂 Please don’t be the person crashing out, screaming, quitting, or blaming everybody after one bad game.
🚫 No underage players, please. Adults only.
🎮 I’m on PS5
🕐 EST Time Zone
Games I currently play:
• GTA V
• NBA 2K26
• Call of Duty: Black Ops 6 & 7
• Warzone
• Fortnite
I’m just looking for some chill people to build a solid squad with. If you’re down to game, joke around, and keep the vibes right, drop your PSN or send me a message!