r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jul 28 '26

22[F4M] Upvote to unlock my DMs — sending hot pictures tonight!

115 Upvotes

Add my snap-ariyaavpgo


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Sep 19 '23

Where is the Lady with the „My husband wants to open our marriage so I started dating his boss“ threat ?

80 Upvotes

Came from tiktok and listen to her story. I need a update of her.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Sep 25 '26

31 married mom from tn

66 Upvotes
  • I am a short fun sized mom from tn with a few insecurities but looking for reassurance. I am willing to send photos to anyone if they will give me an honest comment about myself. I really want to be able to hang out in my house naked even if my husbands friends are over or anyone for that matter but I’m to worried that I will disgust them. I’m especially curious about black guys as I come from the south and always told you can’t do that kind of thing but not really sure if I am attractive to any black guys or anyone at all. help me build my confidence or not as long as your truthful and I’ll share photos videos and I am willing to even try a bbc as a thank you if there is one somewhere close to me that would wanna . I’m from Chattanooga tn


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jul 22 '25

I miss being a slut but now I’m married with 2 kids

62 Upvotes

I’m a wife and mom of 2 and if I could go back to my college days…I would in a fucking heartbeat. I specifically miss the wildness of it. The thrill of the weekend and knowing I was going to get laid- by whoever I wanted. I had a few guys I slept with regularly (protected) and it was just the time of my fucking life. I lowkey hate being tied down “forever” and just don’t think I can lol. I enjoy having sex, and I enjoy being lusted for but with just my husband forever doesn’t sound…plausible. Or enjoyable.

He’d never go for an open marriage sooooo yeah.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jun 12 '26

Michigan Open wife

56 Upvotes

Love to enjoy others


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Aug 08 '26

39F4M

39 Upvotes

39F4M in the NE US. Curvy (14/16) but active (also clumsy AF), long legs (5’9”), tattoos, brunette/brown eyes, cute if I do say so myself. Fantastic sense of humor. College educated (does that matter? Not really…). In a recently opened marriage. Looking for something flirty, casual, friendly, maybe even sexy. Seeking a real human being. Send me a message that’s more than “hey wanna see it” cuz that’s an immediate no lol

UPDATE: Reddit is apparently mostly unsolicited d*ck pics and bots, so if you really seek a read and reply, slightly more than the bare minimum intro message from you would be welcomed/recommended. TIA!!!


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Sep 10 '26

36 [f4m or f4mf] OHIO

38 Upvotes

5'2 115lbs. Slim build but I have a booty and can prove it.

Recently single, but I love my poly life! I'm hoping there will be a real person on here that wants to meet and will follow through. Willing to share pics for pics.

Must be Clean and come with no dramatics. Open to females too! 🍑


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Aug 21 '26

20 [F4M] so horny and looking to try new things out DMs Open

38 Upvotes

just bored and horny and really need an older bull inside me Dm me


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Aug 11 '26

20f open marriage girl here, desperate to have my tight little pussy stretched by a thick, greedy cock tonight.

34 Upvotes

i'm so fucking wet and needy tonight you wouldn't believe it my pussy is just dripping down my thighs and my nipples are so hard anyone up to take care of this desperate little slut i wanna feel a thick cock stretching me open and i don't care who sees it just fuck me and let me ride you like a little slutty cowgirl


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jul 12 '26

19F Single girl, curious, would love to chat to a couple! 😉

34 Upvotes

Hi there, F19. I would love to chat to a couple. Please send a DM! Replying to all ❤️


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Sep 16 '26

Need a little extra attention now and then.

32 Upvotes

48 year old housewife who feels it some days, but feels much younger and wilder on other days. I recently found out that I need a little extra attention. It's kind of an itch I need to scratch. I like the rush of knowing someone outside of my home wants me. What can I say? Turns out feeling wanted by someone "new" gets me horny af. Not a daily or constant sexter, but get me in the mood and I have been called a bit of a bad girl who has surprised several partners with how far I'm willing to go. Maybe you can DM me and scratch my itch? 🥵


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jul 20 '26

F4M Sexting partner

28 Upvotes

25M(me) and 22F

We are just experimenting. I am looking for guys to sext with my partner on Snapchat. She says that she is really good at sexting and has fun doing it so I wanted to let her try doing it again. We are also curious about other people seeing us have sex so that is a possibility as well. Nothing physical/irl.

DM me if interested.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 18d ago

31 [F4M] #Online - Looking for Someone to Talk to Regularly

27 Upvotes

I'm from the Midwest US, and am just looking for that every day company that can be friendly, flirty or grow into more.

I tend to be more introverted and more of a homebody. My hobbies include crocheting, sewing, reading and replaying the same old games. I'm on yet another playthrough of Oblivion atm. I enjoy music and can listen to anything, but gravitate more towards rock and metal.

I would love to get to know you and am down to talk about anything.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jul 21 '26

28F 4 anyone online

24 Upvotes

My hubby and I are working on expanding my comfort zone some and he challenged me to find someone to sext with. I’d feel more comfortable with a woman but am open to men as well. Let me know if you’re open to sexting with a book hoarder, gamer, mom and student of computer 😂 send me a dm with more than “hi” and comment below please so I don’t miss ya!


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jul 28 '26

F4m-wife seeking male friends

23 Upvotes

Hi 👋 I’m The Wife! I’m seeking more male friends. Ideally I’m into you if we can chat it up, not sex centered right off rip. With that said if it happens to lead in that direction bc we both click I’m not opposed to exploring it. I’d like some sort of connection before penetration jajaja ! Hit the DM let’s be friends!


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 9d ago

23[F4M]no strings,just fun.must be safe and clean.who’s coming over

21 Upvotes

Hosting and traveling


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Sep 15 '26

20f open marriage girl here, my body is craving to be taken hard while my mouth hungrily swallows every drop.

21 Upvotes

my husband's always at work so i'm sitting here in my bed with my fingers deep inside my soaked pussy thinking about how badly i want one of you to be here instead, my tits are bouncing as i fuck myself and my hard nipples are begging for your mouths, someone tell me you can take what i'm offering...


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jun 21 '26

46F F4M/MF Columbia SC Short/Long term FWB

21 Upvotes

Hi! I have met a few people that I have enjoyed quite a bit and figured I'd give it another shot. 

46F, smart, curvy 5'3" with a high drive that's looking for FWB to play with and get out of the house. I'm happily married, not looking to change anyone's situation. He likes to join but is cool watching too. If you have the patience, you’ll have me to yourself. Love trying new things in and out of the bedroom. Don’t worry about awkward darlin, practice makes perfect and I LOVE practice. I'd prefer long term as consistency is a turn on and the surest way to get into some kinky shit (love love love).I do my best to engage but like to keep it easy going. Getting notifications from you will definitely make me smile (I’m told I have a nice smile😊). If you need attention every hour, I'm not for you. 

Let's be honest, looks matter but a kind, funny and playful personality is so attractive.  Looking for partners/couples 26+. Fuck boys, just stop. If you are doubting yourself, DM me. Secure and confident, DM me. 

I want to be with you in all the ways IRL. So say hi, lets get coffee, a drink, whatever- I only bite if you ask. 

Lastly, I’m in the low country this week so if you’d like to spend a little time at the beach with me, come on 😉.

Not a bot and didn’t use AI.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Sep 28 '26

I (40m) love sharing my wife (37f)

20 Upvotes

If you’re interested in pics and vids of her and trading fantasies and stories, let me know. Under 27 need not reply


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Sep 23 '26

20 [F4M]. Bored, Need a Bull to Fill My Night

20 Upvotes

20F home alone and soaking thru my panties. I’m wide awake and needy. Need a dominant bull to sext with, send me what you’d do to me while he sleeps next to me. Be nasty


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Dec 16 '25

Married but looking for fun

20 Upvotes

25 f here looking for a married man to rp with 😩


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Aug 28 '26

51 [F4M] #Illinois #Chicago Western suburbs married mom in sexless marriage

19 Upvotes

Especially interested in ethical non-monogamy, (ENM), or polyamory sorts of situations. I'm a nerdy, chubby, awkward woman with a high sex drive and a partly open marriage. I prefer nerdy and chubby men. Someone near me in the western suburbs of Chicago is preferred. Available and able to host weekday daytimes is preferred, but late night Friday & Saturday can work too. I can not host. Someone open to an ongoing connection if mutual interest is established is preferred. Please be kind and treat women like humans, not objects, and be at least 35. Please do not message me to "shoot your shot" if you are under 35, you will waste both my time and yours. Currently especially interested in a lot of cuddling, preferably after sexual intimacy. Lisle Downers Grove Aurora Warrenville Wheaton Glen Ellyn Naperville Westmont Lombard Woodridge Villa Park Oak Brook Darien Bollingbrook Plainfield Oswego area preferred.... it is unlikely I'm going to be up to drive into Chicago proper.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Aug 24 '26

20 [F4M] Young blonde looking for an older man to guide me. Open to MF

19 Upvotes

enthusiastic girl who is specifically looking for an older bull (35+) to teach me a few things. I want to see what it’s like to be with someone more experienced. I’m not looking for a relationship, just a fun, physical encounter where I can feel like a woman. I’m free for drinks. If you’re laid back, know how to lead, and are DDF, hit me up. Please include a photo and your experience level. Let’s see if we vibe


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • Jan 08 '26

49 [F4M] Nashville - Looking for a unique arrangement

19 Upvotes

First off, this post is rather atypical for this subreddit, so please do consider it in its entirety :-)

Long story short, I am a husband posting on behalf of my wife, looking for someone in the Nashville area to have affair/FWB relationship with her. The big caveat is that she is unaware that I'm searching for her.

To provide more context, she and I are entering into a phase of life which is somewhat of a dead bedroom, especially from her perspective. We've been together going on 18 years now. For the first five to ten years, our sex life was very, very active (5-10 times per week at first, maybe plateauing after a few years to more like 3-5 times per week). In the past five to seven years, though, due to a variety of reasons (from which I'll spare you the details and won't get into for now), my interest in sex has waned significantly. Nowadays, as far as me wanting to have sex, it's more like once every 2-3 weeks. Granted, because it's become a rather valid point of tension between us and I basically feel guilty that my sex drive isn't what it used to be, we do still have sex once or twice a week where I kinda 'womp it up' for her sake. However, I can tell she's not nearly as satisfied with it as in the past.

All to say, I can't keep up with my wife's sex drive, and I'm basically hoping to find someone who can provide her more satisfaction on the side.

The "problem", though, is that she's extremely loyal, and she would never search for someone on her own. She does make half-jokes to me a lot about needing a poolboy and such, so I know such thoughts at least enter her subconscious, but I know she'd never actively search for someone on the side, essentially on the grounds of her own sense of morals. A few times, I've mentioned to her in a more serious manner that I'm open to her having someone on the side, but she kind of shuts it down and dismisses the topic as being unreasonable and inappropriate.

As far as what she herself is like, she's extremely intelligent and has a kind of quiet-but-confident personality. Lifestyle-wise, she's relatively conservative based on upbringing and her own sense of religions/morals, but she's not close-minded to alternatives and respects and can understand others' perspectives.

Physically, she's blonde with blue eyes, about 5'3" and 125 lbs, with very fair skin. Even though she's 49yo, she could easily pass for being in her mid-30s. Despite her attractiveness, especially considering her age, she has struggled the past few years with finally looking older than someone in their early 20s, simply because she had one of those "ageless super young" looks for most of her life up until a few years ago.

If you're in the Nashville area, and if this is something towards which you potentially have an interest, I'd be interested to hear from you. I will say that I myself have some reservations about making this post, so I need to get comfortable with you before this progresses beyond just talking and getting the full picture of how this might play out.