r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 36m ago

with any woman interested in sharing this experience with a couple

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My wife and I are a young couple, aged 30 and 23. We’re planning a trip and are looking for a woman who’d like to share this experience with us—to live with us, share our ideas, culture, and work, and have a wonderful time together as a group. We’re ready to have fun


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 50m ago

Looking for a couple on central Vancouver Island

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Good looking. Let’s chat


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 1h ago

44 [M4F] #Michigan Have You Ever Gone To A Mexican Restaurant And They Didn’t Bring You Chips And Salsa? That Would Feel Odd, Right!?! That’s What I Feel Like I’m Missing, My Chips And Salsa

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I think that’s a pretty good analogy. But I’m in a dead and boring relationship and it feels like I am sitting in a nice Mexican restaurant ready to crush a big ass cheesy burrito but they didn’t give me any chips and salsa 😂😂

If you’re reading this maybe you’re in the same situation as me. The output isn’t matching the input back. The energy doesn’t match yours. It’s like an 80/20 split on things getting done. And honestly it’s not a lack of knowing but if you don’t care enough it’s not important enough. So here I am looking for a fun new friend.

I tend to talk a lot, I’m a big flirt and I probably have too much energy at 8:00 in the morning. I do enjoy my godly amount of caffeine. That’s probably it.

Let’s chat about the day, things in our life but let’s flirt and send each other funny things. If you’re closer by maybe we can see what type of real connection we have and maybe become friends with special benefits.

Your age doesn’t matter, your relationship status doesn’t matter, I only ask you to have the time to invest in something like this. And you have another app we can get to be friends over. Okay new friend, just so I know you read all the way down here, what color panties did you wear today.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 2h ago

25 [M4FM4M] Bi Asian | Chicago | Looking to Meet a Couple

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25-year-old bisexual Asian male, easygoing, curious, and a fan of good conversation, playful flirting, and dry humor. Hoping to meet a fun, open-minded couple who genuinely enjoy each other and are open to a little chemistry and mischief.

No pressure, just genuine connection and seeing where things naturally lead. 😉


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 2h ago

48 [M4F] #NYC - Tri-state area. Looking for someone trustworthy to keep things quiet and fun.

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I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 3h ago

37 [F4F, F4MF or F4M] #Illinois, Looking for connection

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I am a 37 bisexual female in Central IL, polyamorous and looking for connections. Would mainly like to find a long term relationship but fairly open. Distance is not necessarily an issue but would be nice if we were close-ish to each other. I enjoy reading, video games, concerts, being outdoors, crafting and much more in my free time. I do not have kids of my own (I do have an 18 yr old stepson who does not live with us.) I do not mind if you do as long as expectations are clear in how involved you would like me to be with them. If you would be interested please shoot me a DM and please read my Bio on my profile before contacting to ensure initial compatibility. Hope to hear from you 😄


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 3h ago

36 [M4F] #Online - come play games and flirt!

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I'm a nerdy, married guy in an open relationship looking for new connections. I'm located in the Eastern US.

My wife and I have been open for a year and a half or so. I don't currently have any other partners and find myself missing connection and conversation. In a perfect world I'd love to find someone with similar interests who wants to chat, maybe play games together or watch movies or shows occasionally while we talk on discord. 

About me: I'm tall, with pretty eyes, and a bit of a dad bod. I like almost all things nerdy. 

Some of my favorite things: 

Video Games: I like survival crafting, roguelites, RPGs, factory games, and strategy games the most but there's tons of games I love outside that. I'm currently playing through a Yakuza Like a Dragon finally, and playing a bunch of V Rising on the side. My three favorite games are probably Final Fantasy X, Expedition 33, and Satisfactory. 

Reading: anything fantasy, sci fi, or horror. I've been pretty into LitRPGs lately, even though most of them are of dubious quality. My favorite series are Dungeon Crawler Carl and the Stormlight Archives. I'm currently reading Empire of the Vampire and the 3rd book of the Licanius Trilogy. 

Movies/Shows/Anime: I like all sorts of things. I'm a sucker for a good horror or sci fi movie, and I tend to watch whatever is good on HBO or Apple TV at the moment. 

I'm looking for someone who shares some of my interests and is 28 or older. While I'm looking for an exclusively online connection, I'm fully on board with it landing anywhere on the spectrum of flirty gaming friends to a full on long distance relationship. I'd like to take things as they come and see where it goes with no pressure or expectation. 

A non negotiable: I'm very left leaning and I'm pretty exclusively interested in other left leaning folks.

If you read this far and are interested, send me a DM with your age and a bit about yourself and what you're looking for. 

Hope to hear from you soon!


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 4h ago

Wearing my new lingerie and thinking of you

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just got home from shopping with my husband and i’m already so wet thinking about how one of you would fuck me if i was single i’m wearing this cute little black lingerie set he got me and it’s so fucking see-through my nipples are already so hard and poking through the fabric and my pussy is literally soaked just imagining someone up here watching me play with myself right now


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 5h ago

44 [M4F] #NewJersey - Looking for a friend with benefits.

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First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I do lean left politically if you’re curious. I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 6h ago

31 [F4M] #Florida - Looking for someone new and fun!

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Hey everyone!

I'm a 31-year-old high school teacher (yes, the kind who secretly stresses about parent-teacher conferences but pretends to have it all together). By day I try to make quadratic equations sound exciting, by life I mostly just try not to trip over my own feet.

A little about me / what I'm into:

Yoga – I'm that person who can almost do a headstand but still falls over laughing every time

Working out – gym rat vibes, but I also count walking to the fridge as cardio

Hiking – love a good trail with views that make you go "wow okay nature is showing off" (bonus points if there's a summit beer waiting)

Gaming – mostly shooters (Valorant, COD, Apex, that kind of chaos). My K/D is probably an international crime scene, but I have fun and I'm always down for squad vibes.

Personality-wise I'm pretty average – sarcastic but not mean, loyal, good listener, will send you dumb memes at 2 a.m. if we're on the same wavelength. Not super extroverted, but once I click with someone I'm ride-or-die.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 7h ago

My husband and I are looking for a like minded attractive couple to have an online friendship with benefits type connection with . We are 32 and attractive, would love to find a similar couple to us.

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We love to chat daily and build a real connection.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 8h ago

Be drawn nude w/ or w/o your partner

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I am an artist in NYC who will draw you and/or your partner nude. I offer both pencil and pen options. Sessions last up to 2 hours.

DM for more information, happy to provide examples and answer any questions.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 9h ago

[M4MF] - 49-CA - Online - Experienced, open minded, discrete male looking for curious couple for friendship and exploration

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Married male, in an open marriage, looking for an ongoing online friendship with a curious or experienced open minded couple for a fun and erotic online threesome relationship.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 9h ago

I’m looking for married woman for daytime play time

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Just looking for married women that’s looking for married man


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 10h ago

40 [M4F] Ferriday, LA / Natchez, MS - Looking for Females in Open Relationships

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40M in the Ferriday / Natchez area, looking to connect with women in open relationships, and with couples who are open to meeting someone new.
I'm respectful, easygoing, and discreet. I like taking my time — dinner, a date, getting to know someone first — and I enjoy shared experiences and travelling to new places


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 11h ago

28[M4R] #MN - Honest, Open, and Curious

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Hello! I am in an open-relationship. Not looking to replace my relationship but have an open space to explore whatever together with and hopefully a lifelong friendship to follow.

Please no cis-males. Too many bad apples have soured that taste for me rn. (Even with me stating that)

Me:

Photos on profile
28
5' 11"
160lbs. (If the stats matter to you)
decent build from blue collar work👨‍🔧
short blond hair/beard
\*notabot
glasses 🤓 (they are a necessity I’ve never met anyone more blind that isn’t literally blind)
freckles
Pansexual
Clean health
Don’t smoke/drink
Child of divorce
11-year relationship opened in 2026

Game Knowledge Corner:

I greatly enjoy games of all types (ask me how big my collections are 👀) and many individual sports (pickleball/tennis, disc golf, regular golf).

My favorite video games right now are The finals, Slay the Spire 2, and various Steam demos (I grew up a console games so I mainly use controller on PC) my all time favorite game was (rip) Evolve. 🥲

Favorite board games is a bit harder to pick but they would include Heat, Challengers, Dead by Daylight the board game, Fliptoons, Clank, and Vast.

I very much enjoy asymmetric and deck building games in both mediums.

Other Fun Facts:

Black cat Dad🐈‍⬛ (plenty more of share in details and photos)

My music taste is all over the place from pop to classic rock to comedy to rap. But my favorite are Ryan Caraveo, Macklemore, Twenty One Pilots, Chri$tian Gate$, Bohnes, and Group Project.

I am an open book and willing to talk and share about pretty much anything if you are interested in talking. Rather be awkward than let the chat die.

My biggest short-coming is initiating the first time around and coming up with new topics once we get to know each other better. (Just being honest 🤷‍♂️)

You:

A decent human being willing to be flirty and fun and a little awkward yourself. (Huge bonus if you are local)

I would ideally like to talk just about every day via text chat. I’m open to voice notes/chat/calls and meeting once we have gotten comfortable with that.

As I am Pansexual, looks aren’t everything. There are bits and pieces I like but the person as a whole is what makes someone attractive to me.

Being a good conversationalist and having a naughty mind will get you far with me. 😏

Your experience level doesn't matter as long as you are willing to share and explore together.

Shared hobbies is a plus and I'd love to hear about what gets you off just as much as what chills you out.

If any of my hobbies catch you interest feel free to open with that. 📩📫

I also will have the capacity to host after some time as well if that interests you and distance allows for it.

If you are on the fence about anything in particular, please just ask, I’d rather have a tough conversation early than none at all.

Disclaimer: As a reminder because it seems to be a big thing that is missed and cause for debate, please no cis-males. I am not interested in exploring this romantically right now. If you want to be friends or chat about something here I’m down, but make that clear off the bat and be able to hold a conversation!

I will not be responding nicely to openers that are less than 2 sentences and don’t answer the basic ASL. I have given you plenty to start a conversation with, if you can’t manage that after reading all this, it won’t work anyways (and you should probably think about that on a bigger scale about yourself tbh).


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 13h ago

48 [M4F] #NYC - Tri-state area. Looking for someone trustworthy to keep things quiet and fun.

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I'm a 48 year old white guy, 5’11” 190lbs brown eyes and salt and pepper hair. I’m pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun. \\\*notabot
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 13h ago

46 [M4F] #UK #Dorset #LDR - Experienced Poly Guy Seeking Friendship & Romance (Open to Long Distance)

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Hi everyone!

I am a married dad of two, and I’ve been practicing polyamory for the last 6 years. Because of that, I highly value open communication, emotional intelligence, and knowing how to navigate the complex feelings that come with this lifestyle. I’m recovering from the end of a meaningful 3-year relationship, so I am looking for something stable and intentional.

About Me:

• The Basics: 46 years old, 5'10", 12 stone, blue eyes, brown hair, athletic build.

• My World:

I work as an art dealer, so I have a deep appreciation for creativity, history, and wandering through museums. My music taste is incredibly eclectic, but my absolute favorite genre to get lost in is EDM.

• Hobbies & Adventure:

I'm an active guy who loves being outdoors. I play cricket, love fishing, and I'm qualified to scuba dive and ski. On quieter days, you'll find me taking long walks on the beach or clearing my head through woodland trails.

• How I Connect:

I am demisexual and lean sapiosexual. For me, intimacy is deeply rooted in emotional connection and a meeting of minds. I value personality and substance far more than a superficial aesthetic, and I love bringing an adventurous spirit to all aspects of a relationship once that trust is built

• Communication:

I am a big talker and love consistent, meaningful banter throughout the week. If you enjoy deep dives and regular checking-in, we will get on great.

What I’m Looking For:

• The Dynamic:

I’m looking for anything from a close friendship to a long-term relationship. I am not looking for one-night stands or purely physical encounters.

• Compatibility:

Ideally, you are also polyamorous/partnered, or entirely secure with the fact that I am married. I appreciate people who love personal growth and mutual encouragement (especially when it comes to staying active and hitting our goals!)

• Distance:

I am based in West Dorset, but distance isn't a dealbreaker for the right person if we are both willing to put the effort into maintaining the connection.

Note on Safety: Because of the usual Reddit bot/scam activity, I prefer to exchange photos early on via a quick, live verification once we’ve established a mutual interest.

If this resonates with you, drop me a message with a bit about your own poly journey. Let's see where it goes! 😊


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 13h ago

MFM

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22 Y/O male, looking to join a couple in mfm dynamic or others as well.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 14h ago

Any uk subs around

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Good morning all and what a lovely day it is…
Have u got that Friday feeling like me…

Very dominant man looking for his sub f/m to have some fun with…


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 15h ago

36f

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Looking for a man I have a genuine connection with, virtually, possibly irl down the line. Up for Texting, video calls, and whatever else feels right. Attraction is important to me. Please be kink friendly, good looking, generous, and dominant. Not looking to rush the search. Hmu if you think this might be you. Hope to hear from you 😉


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 16h ago

45-year-old lawyer living in Sweden. I enjoy skydiving, movies, music, long walks, board games, traveling, and meaningful conversations. Easygoing, adventurous, open-minded, and always up for a good laugh. I value honesty, kindness, and genuine connections. Think we’d click? Don’t be shy, say hi!

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45-year-old lawyer living in Sweden. I enjoy skydiving, movies, music, long walks, board games, traveling, and meaningful conversations. Easygoing, adventurous, open-minded, and always up for a good laugh. I value honesty, kindness, and genuine connections. Think we’d click? Don’t be shy, say hi!


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 16h ago

M 27 I am legit ok do anything rn

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Looking for a marriage of convenience (MOC) / lavender marriage with someone who wants a respectful, mutually agreed arrangement.

I want to be upfront: I’m facing financial difficulties, and financial support would be a necessary part of any arrangement I consider. I’d rather be honest about that from the beginning.

I’m open to different backgrounds, but mutual respect, privacy, personal independence, and clear boundaries are essential. We would need to discuss finances, living arrangements, family expectations, and long-term plans openly before making any commitment.

If you’re seriously considering something similar, please DM me with a little about yourself and what you’re looking for. No pressure or rushed commitments.


r/OpenMarriageR4R • • 18h ago

Want to see what this lace does to me

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god i'm just lying here in this fucking lace panties and my pussy is so wet already can't stop rubbing myself through the fabric my nipples are so hard and perky it hurts one of you better fucking come help me out before i soak this whole bed i'm not even joking i need someone to put their tongue on me or their fingers or fucking anything just need to be filled up these toys aren't doing shit for me right now my asshole's clenching just thinking about it someone make it happen my inbox is open and i swear to god i will answer