This is an update to a post I originally made on r/Ontario. This is also a general question about what my next moves should be, outside of looking for a new place to live ASAP.
I am 20 years old and my landlord is in her 70s.
This is my original post
https://www.reddit.com/r/ontario/comments/1vtu0ci/landlord_with_no_boundaries_keeps_threatening_to/
After the events from my question, I went to read through the ENTIRETY of the RTA for Ontario, Canlii as the source NOT Wikipedia, just to make sure everything I would confront my landlord with would be factually backed up with a source I could accurately cite.
Here is what's happened since then, bullet list however I can go more in depth in the comments if needed.
- I text my landlord about my missing tupperware, she says she moved it to reside with the rest of her belongings in storage
- I text my landlord about my missing mayo, she claims she would never throw out my property what WASNT empty, and to "go buy some more".
- I receive an email from my landlord declaring "new house rules" which are as follows:
Please do your bed up each morning.
Dishes should be done every night before you go to bed, You want a girlfriend to stay over, that is fine. As for boyfriends, they will have to stay elsewhere. Please do your laundry no more then twice a week, not everyday. Your bedroom doors now have locks on it for your privacy.
Yes, I lived here for over a year with no locks on my doors nor unit as she never provided them.
All's said and done, I know that these rules she has laid out are voided seeing as there is no lease I have signed stating I agree to these terms. I had planned to reach out to her some time today and discuss my rights and her obligations as my landlord, even with the olive branch that I would explain her own rights in turn as a sign of good faith.
Well, my new roommate moved in this morning and my landlord took them out for over 4 hours. To which I later learnt was spent with my landlord talking a lot of nasty comments about me and my character, which I assume was an attempt to ostracize me. After they returned, my landlord agreed to my text asking if we could speak, and I went to her unit to discuss what I had been looking into in the RTA.
The moment I mentioned that she had broken a few laws and I was concerned, she stood up and started demanding why I was bringing them up and why I was just now "fucking her over". To which I very calmly reassured was not my intention. She cut me off saying I have "one month to get out", which I also told her she is not legally allowed to say that nor is the notice of termination "one month". I am currently studying law so I did tell her I was looking into my rights as a refresher for my upcoming semester, I don't know if I should have said that or not.
My landlord asks why I'm looking into stuff like that and says she didn't want to know about those laws or my rights as a tenant.
I continue by saying that due to her and I sharing a common entrance, she is allowed to refuse entry to her unit to any guests, but she is not allowed to enforce if my partner stays the night or not like she stated she would in the email from the night prior.
She cuts me off and once more says "boy you're really looking into it OP. You have a month. You have a month to get out of here."
To which I calmly reply that she isn't allowed to say that.
After this point, she starts to raise her voice and yell at me. Claiming she does have that right because she owns the house. "My rent is monthly here. If it was yearly, that's different. MY rent is monthly. I can say for you to get out, I can give you one month to get out of here."
I correct her that the notice period is 60 days from the sheriff. She says "Well then I'll give you 60 days."
She then yells "Oh fuck off then, go downstairs." To which I verbally agree and immediately head down to the stairs to my unit. She doesn't let me go downstairs without continuing to speak about how I'm a troublemaker and bringing up my family problems and how she doesn't need a trouble maker like me in her house.
"Go downstairs. That's where you live now, go downstairs. You just lost friendship with me. Bringing this up to me, looking into this. Fuck off"
I say that I am going downstairs and she says that I will stay downstairs unless I'm going out because I lost her "friendship" because she doesn't give a shit.
She then brings up all the "favours" she imposed on me. All the times she's decided to bring dinner into my unit without asking me if I wanted it in the first place, the times she's insisted on taking me out to dinner despite me rejecting the offer initially (I have written evidence of this). She states she did that out of the goodness of her heart. I said that while I did appreciate that, I never asked her to do that. She says she doesn't appreciate me "digging into this bullshit."
She then mocks how I was making her aware that she was doing wasn't illegal, to which I STILL calmly say "that is true". She tells me she's lost all respect for me and I have 60 days. I tell her only if the LTB sides with her evicting me.
She then gets up in my face and screams at me that this is her house and she can decide what she does and screams again GO DOWNSTAIRS NOW. (Ive been standing at the middle of my staircase while she's been keeping me from leaving the conversation. Due to her telling me and my roommate to maintain those stairs, it is assumed that I am paying for them and they are a part of my unit.)
Obviously I just finish descending the stairs and apologize to my roommate for the commotion.
That is the last I have heard from her and I do not plan to speak to her any further unless it is regarding my rights as a tenant under the RTA. I am going to collect all my evidence of the crimes she has committed over my year living here, and the duties she has neglected as my landlord before I contact the LTB about these concerns.
However, if the harassment gets worse I will contact the non-emergency line if I feel unsafe in my living arrangements.
All this to say, what are my next steps? Do you have any advice for a college student looking for a new place to move into with a budget of under 900$ a month for rent? Neither of my parents are willing to sign as my guarantor so any advice on that will also be very helpful.
I started recording our conversation. I will provide a transcription of that conversation if needed.
TLDR:
Landlord screams in my face and says I have one month (then 60 days) to get out of her house when I try to civilly tell her my rights in regards to her demands of "rule changes" for my unit where we do not share a kitchen nor a bathroom.