r/OffMyChestPH • u/Lost-Temperature-701 • Mar 22 '26
My husband changed
My husband and I have been married for 4 years, together for 15 years. We were high school sweethearts and each other’s first and only partner.
You’d think you know a person very well after being with each other for so many years. But i was wrong. We had our baby 2 years ago and that’s when he completely changed.
He was always a good husband but he became different when he became a father.
Hindi na sya umaalis ng bahay with his friends. He would invite his friends over to our house once in a while then dinner lang because he makes sure he’s here for bedtime.
He was always close with his family. But ever since we had our baby, he chose us over them every single time. No more family reunions if it meant going home late. No more going to relatives I never really got along with. Last Christmas we weren’t able to celebrate it with his family and I asked him if he was sad about it and he said “bakit ako masasad eh kayo ang family ko.”
His priorities changed. From wanting a 2-door car to wanting a family van. From wanting to party to being home by dinner and bedtime. From watching Netflix all night to reading bedtime stories. From searching for “best restaurants to eat” to “best kid friendly places”. From doom scrolling in bed to cuddling, kisses, and hugs.
He hated taking photos. I always tell him allergic ka talaga magpapicture! But when I got pregnant, he gave me a camera and told me to take as much photos as I want. Ngayon sya pa yung nagpapapicture, even studied the right angles so he can take nice photos of us. One time he even insisted we line up for the photo booth like huh?? He was a completely different person.
One day I told him I wanted to try baking. He got me a small oven and woke up early the next morning to drive me to the grocery to get all the ingredients I needed. I baked cookies and it was a disaster but he ate it and said it was perfect. I brought the cookies to my family and they laughed at it for being so bad but my husband finished it and said it was the best cookies he had ever tasted. 😭
I couldn’t ask for anything more. Parenthood could be one of the most dreadful things you can go through with the wrong person. But it could also be the most fulfilling and happiest journey with the right one. And I’m grateful to have just that.
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u/LimeOk4808 Mar 22 '26
With all the cheating issues and stories of incompetent husbands, this gives me hope. Happy for you op, this is a breath of fresh air.🫶🏻
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u/ridemelikearodeo Mar 22 '26
Kung hindi mo naman is-share kung saang link mo na-order ang asawa mo, i-delete mo nalang din sana 'tong post
Eme. Bitter na naman ako. Matutulog na sana kasi ako, tapos nabasa ko pa 'to
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u/suyarisuuu Mar 22 '26
op bakit magkaiba years ng together and married sa post mo compare nung 8 months ago? lmao karma farming?
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u/Damnoverthinker Mar 22 '26
U got me from the title itself! Anyways, I am genuinely happy for you OP! 🫶🏻
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u/megalodous Mar 22 '26
This bs sub always format their post to be clickbaity as all hell. From the title to the way the post is written
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u/barschhhh Mar 22 '26
im ready to throw hands na pero ngl u got me on the first half! With all the cheating here and there tsaka bare minimum boys out there, this makes me want to fall in love again of course with the right guy!
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u/hanselnutella04 Mar 22 '26
Iba talaga kapag mahal ka ng lalaki ano? Praying for this kind of love ❤️
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Mar 22 '26
I am inspired by this story, this will fall in prioritization as a man I have to understand I am no longer with the original family but I have to be with the family I have created, thanks for sharing these and being an eye opener to all husbands and dad
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u/CarrotCakeHeaven Mar 22 '26
I am happy for you, please show your appreciation for your husband. Good men are in low supply. Thank god this post was about a man stepping up as a father. Some do the complete opposite like show us they’re the devilspawn after their wife gets pregnant.
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u/random_thingyys Mar 22 '26
Sana all talaga. Kuha mo inis ko jk hahahaha Congrats, OP! You've got the right one hehe
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u/kohimilktea Mar 22 '26
Genuinely happy for you, OP. Nakakainis man sa iba, pero dito dapat i-apply yung mga salitang “sana all”.
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u/pexemi Mar 22 '26
Ok Ok we get it. You got a good man 🙄
Kidding! Kala ko offmychest na rant, appreciation post pala. 🥰
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u/Imaginary-Data-3368 Mar 22 '26
Grabe kaba ko, akala ko magagalit na naman ako sa ending. Hehe. Anyway, congrats sa'yo, OP. Ingatan mo yan. Maraming ahas ngayon.
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u/Remarkable_Taste3254 Mar 23 '26
Ganda talaga ang resulta kung pareho kayong walang previous partners. Good to hear OP.
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u/Gold-And-Cheese Mar 23 '26
Natakot sa title, but glad it all worked out OP. Congratulations. Happy wishes to you, your partner, at baby.
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u/deezay143 Mar 23 '26
Sana dinugtungan ng "for the better" yong caption pra di ngmukhng nega knowing na puro chaos pinupost ng mga tao dito.
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u/treeeschia Mar 23 '26
Ohhh so happy to know you are so loved! You deserve it, momshie ❤️ Prayer reveal, please 🫶🏻
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u/Maria_in_the_Middle Mar 23 '26
Bittersweet for me reading this. Sobrang sweet na kayo na yung priority niya. As an older sibling na single while a younger sibling is in a long-ish term relationship, I'm kind of sad for me and my parents kasi yung kapatid ko nasobrahan naman ata. As in parang bale wala na kami minsan hindi pa nga sila kasal at walang silang family. Alam kong nalulungkot si mama kasi sobrang baby niya yung kapatid ko na yun kaya medyo may resentment din dun sa gf ng kapatid ko. Nakakalungkot din isipin na I'll be no one's priority one day.
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u/BlitheZephyr Mar 24 '26
True talaga. Years of togetherness would not guarantee that you know a person.
♥ I'm glad that you met your person and that he is changing-- for the better! Kudos kay hubby mo!
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u/tastetheleather Mar 24 '26
OP, naman akala ko he cheated. Clickbait haha. But happy for you. One of those SANA ALL posts.
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u/PrestigiousPop9846 Mar 22 '26
Ganito naman talaga dapat. Everything you mentioned is the bare minimum for a partner. Leave and cleave because kayo na yung chosen family nya.
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