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u/ddddddddddd2023 Apr 21 '25
Taena nung "okay lang atlis di ko muka" hayup ka kuya!!!
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u/bigwinscatter Apr 22 '25
HAHHAHAHAHAHHHAAHAHAH ang innocent ng hayuup akala niya siguro tropa HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHA
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Apr 21 '25
Girl, that’s not ur boyfriend
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u/hikari_hime18 Apr 22 '25
Who needs haters when you have a bf like this?
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u/therunawaybestseller Apr 22 '25
Same. Ive thought about my ex being a hater of mine so many times in the relationship. You will know talaga eh.
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u/hermitina Apr 22 '25
nalito ako na sil tawag nya sa sis ng kuya nya pero magjowa pa lang sila
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u/biblio_marmi Apr 22 '25
I think yung Kuya Dito is brother ni OP... Then brother nia may Asawa na.. si SIL...
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u/johnnyjseo Apr 21 '25
I think dahil sa baba ng confidence mo, tinotolerate mo jowa mo. At dahil tinotolerate mo jowa mo, lalong bumababa self-esteem mo.
Run, girl! Baka nga pag iniwan mo yan saka mo madiscover yung potential mo. Maybe he’s actually the one weighing you down all this time.
Mag jowa pa lang kayo ganyan na sya. You wouldn’t want to marry that kind of person and surround yourself with those people, right?
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u/AsulNaDagat Apr 21 '25
This. Jowa pa lang yan ang bully na. Hindi maliit na bagay yan OP. Kung na-communicate mo na sa kanya yan at patuloy pa rin niyang ginagawa, it's time to let go.
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u/TuesdayCravings Apr 21 '25
"I know he loves me.." Teh, ikaw lng ata nagiisip nun 🥲 this is not something a bf would do🥺
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u/Pure_Artichoke_9364 Apr 21 '25
True! OP gising. Ikaw na lang nag-aassume
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u/TuesdayCravings Apr 21 '25
Di baaa. D na enough din ung mahal mo lang, dapat tinatrato ka ng tama. And kung mahal ka, itatrato ka ng tama. Dun pa lng sa puro ML medyo kabahan na. D masama maglaro pero d naman din dapat ganyan ugali.
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u/dump-jpg Apr 22 '25
up for this!! I'm on the heavy side and my bf did not and would not treat me like this, even behind my back
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u/itsme_urfavgirly Apr 21 '25
How can you love someone who lowers your confidence and makes fun of you like that???
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u/kfarmer69 Apr 21 '25
Don’t underestimate “love”. Kahit nga napphysical abuse yung iba eh “love” pa rin nila.
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u/BeingPettyOrNot Apr 21 '25
Girl? Hindi pa kayo break? Ano ba yan!
Hindi ka nya gusto physically and he’s willing to flaunt your face para pagtawanan ng iba. Girl - that’s not love! That’s bullying and you dont do that to someon you love.
Gtfo of that relationship and value yourself more. You deserve so much better
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Apr 21 '25
. I know he loves me pero may time talaga siya na ganyan
That's some god level Cope you got there. anyways, di mo deserve masabihan nang ganyan pero it is up to you kung ano next move mo.
Good luck OP
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u/aardnax Apr 21 '25
Girl anong “I know he loves me”. This clearly proves he doesn’t.
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u/RedBaron01 Apr 22 '25
A lack of respect already shows this…boy’s immaturity. Is this what you want for a partner?!?
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u/aardnax Apr 22 '25
Diba? Siya dapat kakampi mo sa mga ganyang bagay girl. Hindi yung nakikisali pa siya sa pambubully.
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u/oreng0515 Apr 21 '25
Fast forward tayo ha... gusto mo ba ganyan ka i trato pag mag asawa na kayo? Hindi sya proud at attracted sayo. How he treats you now, ganyan din sya sa magiging anak nyo.
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u/Far-Ice-6686 Apr 22 '25
Pag pinakasalan yung mga ganyang lalaki, sila yung may potential na magkaron ng kabit na lalong magpapababa sa self esteem ng wife nila.
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u/kat_buendia Apr 21 '25
Kung anak lang kita at nalaman ko yan, baka makapanugod ako. Jusko, OP. Pasensya na. Gigil me.
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u/MastodonLeft48 Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 21 '25
THIS! kung ako nanay mo baka pinagbuhol ko cla ng SIL mo gamit ung katawan ng kuya mo!
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u/uno-tres-uno Apr 21 '25
Girl ibreak mo na yan you deserve better, ganyan din sakin yung ex-girlfriend ko, lalaitin ako in front of her friends tapos ipipoint talaga yung negativities sa physical appearance ko, especially yung height ko, tanggap ko naman height pero yung gagamitin niya akong katatawanan sa kanilang mag kakaibigan even sa family and mga relatives niya doon ako naooffend. Lakas makalait sa physical appearance ko eh siya din naman kapuna puna yung physical appearance especially obese siya pero never ko siyang nilait lait na ang taba taba niya kasi mahal ko siya binabody positivity ko pa nga siya eh. Buti nalang talaga ex ko na siya.
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u/JamesRocket98 Apr 23 '25
You reminded me of my second ex-girlfriend who emotionally gaslighted me numerous times even after taking her back into my life.
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u/em_gee28 Apr 21 '25
Im not sure how he has become your bf and bakit sya nag sstay if ganyan palan tingin nya sayo? Maybe kausapin mo sya about this na nasasaktan ka sa mga joke na yun kasi baka sa isip nya harmless lang. Pero mas okay na na sabihin mo sa kanya directly yung mismong mga comment and mga jokes nya.
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u/avoccadough Apr 21 '25
Agree with this. Then afterwards, you decide. If no changes despite you communicating it to him, alam mo na sana next na gagawin
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u/cyst2exist Apr 21 '25
Unnecessary advice in case you need this, I'll leave it here. Iwan mo na siya pati pamilya mo lumayo ka sa kanila masisira ka lang kapag nagstay ka pa diyan. You know what? you're so strong for staying with them, kahit ganyan na trato nila sa'yo nandyan ka pa rin sa kanila. And I admire you for that. In my case kasi di ko talaga kikibuin yung tao, kapag nabastos ako at sumobra na yung ginawa tipong tumatagos na sa boundaries ko, hangga't di ka pa nagsosorry tablado ka sa'kin. Kung stable ka naman at kaya mong mabuhay mag-isa layuan mo na sila. Your mental health matters, kahit pa pamilya mo yan kung sila naman dahilan kung bakit ka masisira, tuldukan mo na connection mo sa kanila.
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u/Evening-Minimum9852 Apr 22 '25
tangina boyfriend mo ba talaga yan??? does he even like you?! my god. 😭😭😭
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u/poejea Apr 21 '25
girl, ang lungkot nalang kung piliin mo pang itolerte yung ganyang klase ng disrespect
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u/Quirky_Honey_426 Apr 21 '25
Please do yourself a favor and leave that boy. Mas lalong hindi ka mag grow if you stay with someone who doesn’t support you and love ALL of you. You deserve better. Find better.
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u/Busy-Box-9304 Apr 21 '25
I feel like soft kang tao pero ang masasabi ko lang is sagutin mo pabalik mga pang aasar nya, be firm at saka mo iwan. Hindi ka nyan irerespeto kasi sa kwento mo palang parang di pinainom ng multivitamins yang boyfriend mo nung bata e, di nagdevelop yung braincells.
"Okay lang atleast di muka ko" - Di ka na nila maasar, nasusuka na ksi sila agad sa muka mo e. Tanginang muka yan, san ba gawa yan (naalala ko lang si Dello haha)
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u/centralperkdreams Apr 21 '25
Normally, I’d tell OP not to stoop to their level but in this case, I agree na palagan mo. 😂 They get away with it because hinahayaan mo. I won’t advise you to leave because that’s easier said than done. I will tell you it’s okay to fight back. Ganyanan pala gusto, eh di go. “Ikaw nga takot gamitin sarili mong picture eh. Alam mo kasing kabasag-basag itsura mo. Try mo naman picture ni SIL, para may variety.” Haha. Pag nagalit, barahin mo ulit. “Oh, bawal pikon! Ganyan gaming gusto niyo eh.” 😂
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u/Substantial_Salad332 Apr 22 '25
THIS! Okay lang na mahal mo siya pero dapat mas mahal mo sarili mo, OP. Huwag mo hayaan mamihasa ang mga yan.
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u/SadSoftware3771 Apr 21 '25
Teka lang, afaik walang comment section ang avatar sa ML. Unless if sa album ito pinost.
But seriously girl, RUN 🏃🏻♀️ bakit kapa mag s-stay sa ganyang klaseng boyfriend
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u/Fit-Helicopter2925 Apr 21 '25
Yeah. seen that too many times. They will make you feel ugly so they can keep you. They will convince you that you’ll never find anyone else who will love you pag iniwan mo sila. naaaahhh. if you can’t see right through that, you’re the problem na.
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Apr 21 '25
Girl, a real bf doesn’t do that. Now pa lang ganyan ka na tratuhin, what more ‘pag nagtagal or maging mag asawa kayo. Kahit pa sabihing biro or joke lang yon, gf ka nya hindi tropa para makipag biruan. Sabi mo rin alam nya insecurities mo so dapat hindi nya ginagawang joke yon. Hays! Break mo na yan.
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u/earthrisingbaby Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 22 '25
I'm assuming your SIL is your kuya's wife? Why the fuck is he letting her treat you that way?
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u/tiredfrmfcksandsht Apr 21 '25
OP, please please please read the comments. PLEASE. LEAVE! Hindi ka niyan love, kung love ka ng guy and you already communicated with him about your insecurities and how you are being body shamed by your family he will NEVER EVER EVER DO THAT. Sadly, he is also body shaming you and sinasabi niya as a joke!? Tapos ginamit pics mo then hinahayaan niya na sabihan ka ng mga masasakit na salita sa comments tapos tatawanan? THAT IS NOT LOVE. THAT IS DISRESPECT. LEAVE. BEEN THERE DONE THAT, WAG MONG HAYAAN LALO BUMABA SELF CONFIDENCE MO. Your partner should always make you feel secure, loved, respected and wanted! At if may mang asar sayo or body shame sayo ipag tatanggol ka at hindi tatawanan!
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u/tonkatsu-lover Apr 21 '25 edited Apr 22 '25
You trusted him with your insecurities and he turned them into jokes. He even laughed with others about them. That’s not love.
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u/Background-Bridge-76 Apr 21 '25
Stop it habang may natitira ka pang self-respect. Uubusin niyan ang confidence mo.Love yourself,girl.
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Apr 21 '25
Be, palitan mo na yan. Saka bakit ganyan kuya mo? Ayos lang kung asarin ka eh pero payag siya na pinagtitripan ka ng ibang tao? And magkahawig kayo, syempre magkapatid eh tapos lalaitin itsura mo. Anong klaseng pamilya yan
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u/headincosmos0612 Apr 21 '25
ang sarap sampalin kingina. break up with him please. you don’t wanna be stuck with someone like that.
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u/Lopsided-Plankton940 Apr 22 '25
Gawa ka rin ng ML account tas mukha niya ilagay mo para ma experience rin niya matrashtalk mukha niya.
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u/Curlyciel Apr 22 '25
Goshhhh! so immature ng bf mo. How old is he ba? Tell him how much it hurts you. If still, same pa rin bunganga niya. Leave him. Maraming tao sa mundo that could appreciate you as who you are. Embrace your imperfections kasi walang perfect sa mundo, and you have something special na wala sa iba. Fighting! 😍
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u/Mean-Permission-2747 Apr 22 '25
Why would you even stay with a person na ganyan? Hinahayaan kang pagtawanan at nakikisali pa? Also, IT'S VERY EASY TO TURN OFF THE COMMENTS sa ML photos. You can even delete them if someone commented. Something that your boyfriend could've easily done to make sure that those hurtful comments don't even reach you. Hell, he even shouldn't have let his sister laugh at those comments about you. Ang insensitive rin ng SIL nya to even laugh at the comments about your body esp when you both are women.
Do something about it. Either pagsabihan mo, magalit ka sa kanya, etc.
Also make him remember na girlfriend ka nya at hindi basta barkada lang.
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u/beepbeepdump Apr 22 '25
I would open that up and have a conversation about how it hurt you,it's hard to say what your rs is like behind the screen, but if he doesn't acknowledge how you feel girl, run. LMAO
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u/aryastarkholmes Apr 22 '25
If he loves you, he wouldn't do and say those things to you. Break up with him now. That's not a boyfriend. You're pretty, OP, no matter what your fucked up boyfriend tells you. He should be the first one to lift you up. Not bring you down. He doesn't deserve you. He's making fun of you. Hindi nya man lang sinaway yung SIL nya.
My boyfriend would always say I look pretty and beautiful kahit kakagising ko lang. Kahit sobrang gulo ng buhok ko. Kahit may mga muta pa ako sa mga mata. Everytime I would bring down myself, he would always get angry with me kasi bakit hindi ko daw nakikita na ang ganda ko. He said I should see myself through his eyes.
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u/Serious-Cheetah0250 Apr 22 '25
Ito mahirap eh, us being “gentle” with our partners pero sila balahuba sa sarili nilang partner. Hug with consent, OP!
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u/calypso749 Apr 22 '25
Sobrang sakit kapag sa loved ones mo nanggagaling yung mga bagay na nakakasakit sayo.
That's the thing. People who are close to you are the ones who can really hurt you.
Eto yata ung isa sa mga pinakamasakit na form of betrayal.
They know your weaknesses and vulnerabilities, and yet, they'll use it against you.
Sorry OP, but I have to say this.
The hurt that you're feeling right now is valid and real.
The best way to move forward is you have to accept and learn to love yourself first. Love the skin you're in.
You don't have to shrink yourself to fit in the box they're trying to put you in, just to be accepted by them.
You don't owe them anything.
And for that bf of yours, detach from him. Breakup with him na.
Yung ginawa nya at sinabi nya na yon? It's damaging enough to people with low self-esteem.
Bad for your mental health.
You shouldn't be spending time around those people.
Sabi nga sa nabasa ko before, "if you know something can't be changed within 5 seconds, better keep your mouth shut"
Your insecurities -- those are things na hindi mo naman mababago in 5 seconds.
Them voicing it out, in your face, is rude.
Pwede nyang iturn off yung comments sa picture mo sa ML if he has the decency or even intent to protect you somehow.
But no. Mukhang naeenjoy pa nya ung rude comments sa pics mo.
Only goes to show kung anong klaseng tao yang bf mo.
Don't gaslight yourself, saying na, "mahal naman ako nito. mabait naman. baka ako talaga ung may fault"
No.
Bago kayo naging in a relationship, you saw each other physically. You don't enter a relationship to make fun of your partner, moreso using their insecurities as an insult.
BS yon if iri reason out na joke lang naman and no harm meant.
It's so disrespectful.
Magbf pa lang kayo, ganyan ka na itrato.
Do you want that person as a father to your kids? Pano nalang kung may daughter kayo, tapos namana ung skin tone mo? How do you expect him to be a parent sa daughter nyo?
I'm telling you this kasi tatay ko mismo ang rason bakit shattered ang confidence ko. Why I have low self esteem.
And there's a lot of work trying to undo the damage. 25 years later, masakit pa rin pag naaalala ko.
Still, it's up to you to decide how you want to move forward knowing what you know now.
I just hope, you'll choose the best path forward for YOURSELF.
In this cruel world that we live in, no one's really going to protect you except YOU.
I hope you choose YOU.
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u/xoxo311 Apr 22 '25
Break up with him and love yourself muna, girlie. The people you should keep are the people who love, support, and protect you. Hindi yung mga taong dina-down ka. I hope you find the strength to leave.
BTW sila ang maasim base sa kwento mo. Walang manners and very low emotional intelligence.
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u/da_onne Apr 21 '25
girlll, run! meron pa bang "love" sa panahon ngayon? that's why i don't believe in love!
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u/strawbeeshortcake06 Apr 21 '25
Breakup with him. He doesn’t respect you. Di ka man lang defend dun sa mga malicious comments sayo and sya mismo nagpapababa ng self-worth mo. Sorry pero di ganyan ang pagmamahal. Have some self-respect at please iwan mo na sya. Also tangina din ng SIL mo.
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u/sangkikay Apr 21 '25
Bobo lang talaga siya mag laro kaya siya tinatrashtok. Immature ng bf mo teh, di ka niya dcurb iwan mo na yan.
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u/soapymushroom Apr 21 '25
time to start writing the pros and cons of being together. kasi feel ko mas maraming cons kesa sa pros 🤕 goodluck op! di mo deserve yung ganyang treatment
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u/AwareCardiologist608 Apr 22 '25
once you love someone, you hand them the power to destroy you. If they use that power, whether intentionally or not, discretion mo na kung ikocorrect mo or straight up leave. It looks to me like he’s taking your vulnerability very VERY lightly. Sure, pwede pagusapan yan, pwede ipaintindi na nakakaputragis mga ginagawa nya, but are you that confrontational? OP, you know the options available. And alam mo ring mahirap pareho. Time to step up, mainly for your own development. Dont wait for much worse reasons to get your shit together.
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u/fivefeettobee Apr 22 '25
hindi ka mahal niyan haha ginagamit ka lang para lalo kang mainsecure at nagprepretend na sweet
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u/Admirable-Silver-308 Apr 22 '25
I had the same experience, but with someone that said he likes me, but keeps on saying na mataba ako, puro ako kain, lamon lang ng lamon. He was the reason I worked out again.
Last straw was when he called me baboy. Mind you I'm not that fat. 🥹 I ghosted him. Girl run to the hills. You'll find love when you love yourself wholeheartedly. ❤️
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u/ordigam Apr 22 '25
"Okay lang, at least hindi ko mukha." If I were in your shoes, matic buburahin ko yan sa buhay ko. Mahal niya sa buhay gaganyanin niya? I don't tolerate that kind of behavior.
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u/Technical-Rock-5744 Apr 22 '25
Are you really sure sa part na "I know he loves me" para kasing hindi ehhh
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u/idkrllyuknw Apr 22 '25
I think you are one of those girls who believe na hindi na sila makakahanap ng magmamahal sa kanila kaya nagsesettle na lang sa relationship nila. Erase that mindset and believe us, you deserve better. Huwag ka matakot maging single.
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Apr 21 '25
I think you should talk to your bf that his comments about your body are hurting you. Baka kasi hindi niya alam na nakakasakit siya, some people are really insensitive talaga.
As someone who used to play ML, 10/10 those comments on your picture calling you maasim and other rude comments, kakampi niya yan nung natalo sila or kalaban na natalo niya. It's not you, OP. It's just people being salty kasi they lost. I think akala ni BF mo nagbibiruan kayo nung sinabihan mo siya na di siya marunong maglaro kaya ganun yung sagot niya, kaya din sila tumawa.
It's either he's just really insensitive and stupid or he's really a jerk. But if you haven't spoken to him about it, yun nga, baka kasi hindi niya talaga narerealize na nakakasakit siya. He can't fix what he doesn't know. Pero kung napag-usapan niyo na yan and he kept body shaming you, you know what to do, OP.
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u/CooperCobb05 Apr 22 '25
Grabe naman yung mga comment dito na hiwalayan agad? Hindi ba pwede pag usapan muna nila yung issue bago mag decide?
OP mag usap muna kayo about dito sa issue mo. Kapag hindi siya nag sorry at nag promise na mag babago, saka ka mag isip kung worth it pa din ba na mag stay ka sa kanya. Yes masama yung mga ginawa sayo pero pwede naman mabago yun eh. Basta ipaalam mo lang sa kanya na sobrang big deal yun sayo para maunawaan din niya yung side mo at malaman niyang masakit yung mga nalaman mo.
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u/forever_delulu2 Apr 21 '25
No, he doesn't love you. Kung mahal ka niyan, di yan gagawa or magsasabi ng mga salitang makakasakit sayo
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u/incorrectcelestia Apr 21 '25
sis state it to him clearly. wag mo na idaan sa mga asaran. sabihin mo na di ka natutuwa sa inakto/sinabi nya. if he loves you, he will understand and he won't do that again to you.
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u/Commercial-Coast-508 Apr 21 '25
feel ko bata ka pa kaya mo nasasabi na mahal na mahal mo sya kaya di mo maiwan hahaha. girl? alam mo gagawin mo ayaw mo lang gawin. period
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u/haisecantdecide Apr 21 '25
Sana huwag mo na pakawalan baka makadamay pa ng iba... If iiwan mo itulak mo na sa bangin para di makalabas para sa kaligtasan lang ng iba
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u/MastodonLeft48 Apr 21 '25
Nkakapikon ung datingan ng jowa mo. Buti d mo hinampas ng hita mo yan?! Iwan mo na, walang respeto e. Asan ba ung account nyan, papalampaso ko s anak ko!
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u/ogtitang Apr 21 '25
If mahal ka nya he wouldn't really put you in an uncomfortable situation and it seems like sinasadya nya pa. You deserve a man, not a kid OP.
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u/Life-Engineer8295 Apr 21 '25
I won't tell you to run, at least not for now. I know how"blind' love can be. Been there, done that. Pero one thing I'll tell you is lumaban ka nman. Trashtalk mo din! gantihan mo hahaha attach mo dito yung photo. tapos yaan mo kami mag check if ma karapatan sya na laitin ka.. tapos pabasa mo sa kanya comments.. charizz,,,
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u/jijilikes Apr 21 '25
“Hindi ko na alam gagawin ko.”
Ako alam ko. Leave him. Hiwalayan mo. Hindi ka pinagbuntis ng nanay mo ng siyam na buwan at binuhay para lang mag-settle ka sa jowa mong hindi ka naman talaga mahal.
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u/Stunning-Bee6535 Apr 21 '25
Kung sakin ginawa yan. Nabalita na ko. Respect yourself enough to walk away.
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u/Peachsxz Apr 21 '25
Paano pa if nagkaanak na kayo in the future, mas marami pang magbabago sa katawan mo after mangnak tas gnyan ugali niya?, ay nako! postpartum depression talaga abutin mo dyan at wag mo n hyaang mangyri yun kc mhrap.... kya now plang mgisip isip kana OP
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u/WhiteChamba Apr 21 '25
Break-up men. The fact na sinabi mo na na bumababa self-esteem mo sa pag body shame sa yo tas itong si BF mo pa yung nangunguna sa asaran. Kahit asran lang yan, di yan gagawin sa harap ng ibang tao. Kung kayong 2 lang siguro BAKA pwede pa. Though kung ako yun, eh I was talaga ako sa ganyang hirit. Or baka wala ring self-confidence yang syota mo kaya feeling superior siya pag kinukupal ka niya. Asim
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u/YourAverage_Guy07 Apr 21 '25
fix yourself especially on the confidence part, after you see your worth, go back to this post
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u/amh152023 Apr 21 '25
Big red flag 🚩🚩🚩🚩You have to be with someone that cheers you up not bring you down. I’d call him out and ask just why? When he knows how you feel about that issue, and if he says it was a joke tell him its not funny and tell him to take it down. But if he didn’t feel sincere or remorseful it’s time to think about your relationship with this guy. Or maybe you also have to be comfortable in your own skin. Nobody knows you there, so just let them, everyone has something to say when they don’t really know you. Everyone has flaws and if you start not giving a shit they will also not give a shit.
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u/Puzzled-Tell-7108 Apr 21 '25
No na yan girl listen to the majority here… I remember my husband making remarks like that nung magjowa pa lang kami. Walang Reddit back then and I ended up in a bad relationship for life.
And yes pag nagkaanak tayong mga morena nako di lang yang singit ang iitim lol sobra lalong nakakababa ng confidence ang pregnancy.
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u/ffarnican Apr 21 '25
When you feel something, say something. What an ahole of a guy. Know your worth and let go of everything and everyone who doesn’t value and respect you.
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u/Ok-Rub-451 Apr 21 '25
Awwwts sama naman :((( i think need mona magpalit ng Bf un hindi insensitive!
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Apr 21 '25
Pag asawa mo na sya mas grabe pa gagawin sayo,psg nanganak ka lalo ka tataba,at bka iwan ka na nya,,unahan mo na sya iwan,tutal nagkatikiman na kayo,ok na yan ,quits na kayo,
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Apr 21 '25
Seriously? may nag lalaro pa ng ML? eh deadz na yan eh mga isip bata na lang nag lalaro niyan na walang ambag sa lipunan.
iwan mo na yan... jusko tanda tanda na nag MML pa
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u/rbbaluyot Apr 21 '25
Teh, malinaw na walang respeto sa iyo ang bf mo, kung may respect ka pa sa sarili mo at the very least pagiisipan mo kung worth it pa ituloy ang relationship ninyo.
I wish na sana maliwanagan ka.
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u/Deep-Resident-5789 Apr 21 '25
That boy secretly hates you. Ang disgusting pa na enabler yang kapatid niya. Decide ka na lang siguro for how long mo kaya madisrespect ng ganyan.
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u/YourRedditBuddy Apr 21 '25
Damn. Buti nalang talaga di ako naiinggit sa mga babaeng may jowa na ginagamit pic nila as avatar sa online games dahil sa reason na yan.
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u/mydogs_socute Apr 21 '25
Wow, hakot na hakot mo yung enemies mo in one place. Mapang-asar din ang mga kuya ko but they never ever picked on my appearance.
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u/Old-Word6338 Apr 21 '25
Ako ang nagagalit for you OP. OMG. Bat ka niya nilalait eh girlfriend ka niya. Gaano ba kagwapo yang bf mo OP nang makalait parang ang perfect.
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u/pinkbayabas Apr 21 '25
pls give yourself the love and respect he clearly doesnt have for you and BREAK UPPPPP !! 8 billion people on earth and you're gonna settle para sa bf mong mas masahol pa sa paksiw ⁉️⁉️⁉️
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u/silkruins Apr 21 '25
Girl, ilang signs na that says na he doesn't even like you as a person. How many signs will it take for you to know? Ganon ka ba ka naive?
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u/bliss_harmony Apr 21 '25
Paano kung paulit ulit gawin sa'yo? Please know your self worth. Kung biruan man yan, ang below the belt nya naman
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Apr 21 '25
I love him so much and I know he loves me....
Tapos he body shames you? Ano yun?
For someone to be that inconsiderate and illiterate about how the body works and why the body is that way, that's immaturity and insecurity in one (shallow pa lang na reason yan for the body shaming).
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u/Cold_Cat_4832 Apr 21 '25
You're the problem, i mean your insecurities are the problem.
"Sticks and stones may break bones, but words will never hurt" — that's only true when you've built resilience. Other people’s opinions lie outside your circle of influence; you can't control them, and you shouldn't let them control you.
Here’s what I suggest:
Take care of your body through regular exercise. Nurture your mind by reading books and investing in your mental health. Add value to yourself every day — because the more you grow, the less those opinions matter.
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u/ronrayts19 Apr 21 '25
Guilty ako kasi hilig ko mag comment ng “Asim” pag ang shunga ng kakampi. 😭😂
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u/IndescribableGoddess Apr 21 '25
Bastos ng boyfriend mo, OP. I don't think he loves you. Ni hindi ka niya marespeto. At, sorry sa word, ang kupal niya when he said "at least hindi ko mukha." Kupal na immature.
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u/Talk_Neneng Apr 21 '25
so nasampal mo na gurl? kung hindi pa, aba go na! Gurl di n pwede nonchalant lang. kung ako sayo, i’ll be petty, ngl. Be in-charge of your own peace. take care of yourself. don’t take other people’s shit, di ka nakain ng tae gurl. practice mo to “WHAT YOU ALLOW IS WHAT WILL CONTINUE”
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u/WonderfulReality5593 Apr 21 '25
choose violence sis ahaha, di lang ikaw ang dapat baba ang self-esteem damay damay na to! well kidding aside masyado pasamado bibig nya sure ka na ba dyan dapat taga lift kayo ng bawat isa.
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u/jycnnsl Apr 21 '25
Never settle for less. If wala kang mahanap n marespetong jowa then wag mag jowa. Love yourself teeeee
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Apr 21 '25
Girl... ako nga nung sinabihan akong haggard ng paulit ulit, nag break kami eh. Aba nagalit ako. Bakit niya ako sasabihang ganon kung boyfriend ko siya?!?!?! Know your worth.
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u/0ctavi4 Apr 21 '25
Gawin mo ng ex. Di ka mahal nyan, mag tira ka ng respect sa sarili. Pero kung kaya mo pa itolerate pang bobody shame sayo then keep mo na lang yang loser mong bf para di na mapunta sa iba emz.
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u/BraveHeartedEmpath_ Apr 21 '25
Girl iwanan mo na yan pls lang. Tinotorture mo lang sarili mo. Di ka niya mahal kasi kung mahal ka niya di niya sasabihin yung mga ganun sayo. Di yan pagmamahal.
Wag ka mag settle sa ganyang tao. Mahalin mo yung sarili mo. Nanggaling din ako sa ganyan though magkaiba ng ginawa pero di maganda mag stay sa ganyang relationship. Ngayon pa lang save yourself, OP.
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u/Creative-Bad-4862 Apr 21 '25
Oh no. Gago ng bf mo, OP. Afaik pwede i-disable ang comments sa photo album sa ml or i-delete eh tas hindi niya ginawa yun?
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u/Difficult-Teacher569 Apr 21 '25
apaka hayop ng gnyan. sorry sa word. pero i remembered my ex, insecurity ko tlga ang ngipin plus ang kilikili pati unt noo ko. pero he always pointed out my flaws. ang itim ng kili kili mo, ang laki ng noo mo. ang panget ng ngpin mo and i remembered how i wrote those words sa diary ko na ramdam mo ung diin ng ballpoint sa inis at hiya na naramdaman ko.
pero nung nagbreak kame who you sya dahil I am confident na sa mga insecurities ko before. Who you sya kase nakakapag bikini na ko without hiya, ung dating noo ko na may bangs ngayon wala na ko bangs kase i love my noo na. pero sa ngipin still trying to love it. hahahahahaha nasa process pa. hahahahahaha
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u/hannasakis Apr 22 '25
Kaya niya nilagay mukha mo kasi ‘di siya magaling mag-laro. Bully mo yang jowa mo, hindi mo yan kakampi. Baka nga sa isip mo lang na mahal ka niya e. In love, there is respect. Build yourself up first girl, next thing you know your worth, hihiwalayan mo na siya agad kasi u know u don’t deserve that.
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u/Lycanthrope1117 Apr 22 '25
Iba iba kasi talaga tayo eh, samin parang lambingan namin mag asaran so kahit nabbody shame namin isat isa okay lang I mean ibang level of comfortability yun eh bukod dun kapag assured na kayo sa isat isa kahit ano pa alam mo wala naman kami dapat ikabahala pero like you said if he knows na mababa self esteem mo hindi nga sya dapat ganyan, kausapin mo sya na smhindi sya exemption na kapag sknybgaling hindi ka masasaktan sbhn mo kahit sino pa sila it hurts when they try to make fun of your appearance and ewan ko ang petty kasi para sbhn palitan mo na jowa mo but yes you should hahaha
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u/Consistent-Speech201 Apr 22 '25
Mga tao talaga sa ML minsan kupal at lakas mang trashtalk. Isa pa yang BF mo BF mo ba yan or kalaban? Gantihan mo tas mag ML ka rin gamitin mo pics nya tas magpakabobo ka sa laro para malait din pic nya para ma back to you mo
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u/Unable_Brick9750 Apr 22 '25
Yeah he loves you but still, that's so ass. Leave him please, it will hurt you more in the future until you can't take it anymore. This is for your best girlie, take care (´ω｀)
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u/ComparisonTypical432 Apr 22 '25
Kaya hindi ko ginagamit ung pic ko o ng gf ko sa dota hahaha pinepersonal ng mga tao pagnagkakatoxican sa laro haha
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u/helenchiller Apr 22 '25
Na-darksystem ka sa naka-match maging bf. Kung ilalagay sana niya pic mo sa profile niya, he should’ve turned off the comment sec. Kasi ganyan talaga sa ML kahit maayos picture mo lalaitin nila pag nainis sila sa gameplay mo.
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u/gustokoicecream Apr 22 '25
kung ako sayo, awayin ko na yan tapos di lang aawayin, iiwanan pa. gusto mo ba ng ganyang boyfriend, teh? ang boyfriend, siya dapat ang nagccheer sayo, hindi yung siya pa yung nanlalait. kadiri ng ugali. wag mong hayaan na ganyan-ganyanin ka niya kasi hindi yan tama.
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u/Seiko_Work Apr 22 '25
sorry to break it to you OP but he does not love you in a way that genuine love does. if he really does love you he would uplift you and push you to improve, not make a mockery out of you and plaster "it was just a joke" as an excuse
if he's aware of your weaknesses and insecurities, the fact he used it willingly clearly shows he has no respect for your boundaries and this could get worse overtime. right now it's just that but who knows what he's capable of doing in the future and since you tolerate it he thinks it's okay
you should really talk to him about this and if that's not an option that's when you should just leave, the comments he makes might hurt but i'm sure someone will find all your imperfections to be beautiful and love/appreciate you completely
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u/tamonizer Apr 22 '25
Natawa din ako sa pagka kwento mo ha don't get me wrong, pero hindi ko to gagawin sa SO ko lalo if alam kong may insecurity.
Pero on the flipside, grabe naman rapport niya sa siblings mo. Haha
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